I would like all my bridesmaids hair to be in an up-do (nothing UGLY-- just different than me as I'm wearing mine down) but one of my bridesmaids (my sister) that I told this to said I was bring bridezilla and 'not caring' about her bridesmaids' comfort. My other bridesmaids are my best friends and would smear mud on their faces if I asked them to.
I was just wondering if anyone knew the actual ETIQUETTE on this topic? Is it UNCOMMON for the bride to choose a hairstyle for their bridesmaids?