do you book your actual trip through these sites? do you pay upfront? do the gifts really go toward things you choose such as dinners and massages? I am so confused. is it worth it? do you get a cash reimbursement or does the money go to the resort? HELP!
Re: Can somebody please tell me exactly how these honeymoon registries work?
http://forums.theknot.com/discussion/281647/thinking-of-a-honeymoon-registry/p1
Your guests give money to the company. The company takes their cut of your gifts, and gives you a check for what remains. It is an idiot tax. If you want money for a honeymoon, don't register, and when people ask about registries, you say, we didn't register but we are saving for a honeymoon. Then, people take the hint and write you a check, and you get to keep all of your gifts instead of 95% of them. Yay!