I just want to thank everyone for totally ruining me for doing work for the rest of the day! And FH thanks you in advance for me jumping his bones when I get home this evening!
Yep. I somehow manage to do all my cleaning in between knotting furiously.
And I just got the text from FI saying, "Be home at 6:30. Love you. Look sexy."
He must be reading my mind
And I hereby proclaim that hundreds of partners all across the land shall be sexually satisfied this weekend. And maybe try something new
Much thanks to @JCbride2015 for forgetting her NuvaRing!
Not sure if this was covered in the past 333 posts....but what about masturbation? Has your partner encouraged you to masturbate, and/or wants to watch? DH asked to watch once, and he apparently learned a few things about satisfying me (wooohoo! I'm NOT complaining!)
While we covered toys, does your partner suggest you use them alone, or indicates some enjoyment in watching you use the toys?
FI asked me if he could watch once, but I use my Hibachi Wand almost exclusively when I'm alone so it wasn't super effective other than getting me wound up a lot faster.
I do have one that I think I'm going to ask him to use one day when I'm giving head... it plugs into music and vibrates along with it, so I think I'll give him my Spotify (on private browsing) and let him work on me while I work on him.
When we were long distance (for two years) we would hook up the web cam and watch each other all the time. We've been living together now for almost 2 years and don't watch each other very often.
When we were long distance (for two years) we would hook up the web cam and watch each other all the time. We've been living together now for almost 2 years and don't watch each other very often.
I used to this with my ex that was in the Navy. Skype and web cams are the best things ever to happen to long distance relationships.
When we were long distance (for two years) we would hook up the web cam and watch each other all the time. We've been living together now for almost 2 years and don't watch each other very often.
I used to this with my ex that was in the Navy. Skype and web cams are the best things ever to happen to long distance relationships.
They seriously are.
H has watched me once or twice, but I don't think i've ever watched H. He gets very self-conscious. Not sure why. We've talked about, it's not an issue, but masturbating for H is me time and he doesn't want to share.
Oral - yes please, both ways. I love giving but, like the other ladies here, my TMJ gives out pretty quickly and makes it painful. But wow, the feeling of control you get is awesome. Current FWB is pretty damn amazing with his mouth, too.
Anal - done it, don't hate it but honestly don't love it either. Doesn't feel bad, doesn't feel good either. I'd be perfectly happy to never do it again. I just don't get anything out of it.
Toys - usually good, but not the heavy BDSM stuff. I don't have a huge amount of experience with them outside of vibes (which are the only way I can O). I can't do restraints (bad experience in the hospital as a very young child) but I'm good with being held down as long as I can get out of it easily. The big stuff - heavy restraints, ball gags, clamps, whips & chains, anything that causes pain are all a big hell no.
Spanking, hair pulling, mouth marks - go for it, just make sure they aren't visible the next day at work. I just think a grown adult with a visible hickey on their neck is silly looking.
I've never heard of shaving as a fetish or something you do to each other. For me it's basic daily grooming. I'd no sooner let my SO shave me than I'd let him brush my teeth for me. It's just something else to hurry up and get done in the shower.
Shower secks can be awesome. It can also be painful, awkward, and dangerous. You've just got to match up right and figure out what works for you.
My 'weird secks thing' is that I don't have a G-spot. I mean, it's technically there, all my partners have been able to feel it, but it's like the wiring isn't hooked up. I don't feel anything at all from it being messed with. So every O I've ever had has been purely clitoral...and from a vibe. Never from sex, fingers, oral, etc. I just require a very strong, constant, fast stimulation there or I just don't hit that mark. No one has fingers or lips that will go that fast, that strong, for that long. It's also a balancing act - go just a second or two too long without hitting the O, and I'll be overstimulated and either numb or in pain, and it's over for the next few hours or so. Don't get me wrong, I still get a lot out of secks and am not going to turn it down, but I do feel like I've been cheated out of something really awesome, not having a G-spot. That I have to work extra hard for something that shouldn't be that hard. And I'm even more jealous of you multiple types - I'll never have that.
I just want to thank everyone for totally ruining me for doing work for the rest of the day! And FH thanks you in advance for me jumping his bones when I get home this evening!
Yep. I somehow manage to do all my cleaning in between knotting furiously.
And I just got the text from FI saying, "Be home at 6:30. Love you. Look sexy."
He must be reading my mind
And I hereby proclaim that hundreds of partners all across the land shall be sexually satisfied this weekend. And maybe try something new
Much thanks to @JCbride2015 for forgetting her NuvaRing!
To the bolded:
Wink right back. Can't wait to get it on! One week to go woohoo!
wow, you leave town for a few days and this happens? Thanks, friends!
I love oral. Love it. Can't get enough. Who was it that said 69 scared them? Don't be afraid!! You can also do it on your side so you aren't fully sitting there.
I used to have a long distance "friend" who we would on occasion video chat with each other and masturbate. It was odd- it was all his doing. I enjoyed it somewhat, but I wouldn't do it again.
I would say the Pocket Rocket was about the best $14 I have ever spent. Seriously, WAY more effective than the really $$ ones I have had.
H and I are a bit vanilla- I have had more adventurous partners in the past and I kind of miss it. Maybe we can spice things up
Oral - yes please, both ways. I love giving but, like the other ladies here, my TMJ gives out pretty quickly and makes it painful. But wow, the feeling of control you get is awesome. Current FWB is pretty damn amazing with his mouth, too.
Anal - done it, don't hate it but honestly don't love it either. Doesn't feel bad, doesn't feel good either. I'd be perfectly happy to never do it again. I just don't get anything out of it.
Toys - usually good, but not the heavy BDSM stuff. I don't have a huge amount of experience with them outside of vibes (which are the only way I can O). I can't do restraints (bad experience in the hospital as a very young child) but I'm good with being held down as long as I can get out of it easily. The big stuff - heavy restraints, ball gags, clamps, whips & chains, anything that causes pain are all a big hell no.
Spanking, hair pulling, mouth marks - go for it, just make sure they aren't visible the next day at work. I just think a grown adult with a visible hickey on their neck is silly looking.
I've never heard of shaving as a fetish or something you do to each other. For me it's basic daily grooming. I'd no sooner let my SO shave me than I'd let him brush my teeth for me. It's just something else to hurry up and get done in the shower.
Shower secks can be awesome. It can also be painful, awkward, and dangerous. You've just got to match up right and figure out what works for you.
My 'weird secks thing' is that I don't have a G-spot. I mean, it's technically there, all my partners have been able to feel it, but it's like the wiring isn't hooked up. I don't feel anything at all from it being messed with. So every O I've ever had has been purely clitoral...and from a vibe. Never from sex, fingers, oral, etc. I just require a very strong, constant, fast stimulation there or I just don't hit that mark. No one has fingers or lips that will go that fast, that strong, for that long. It's also a balancing act - go just a second or two too long without hitting the O, and I'll be overstimulated and either numb or in pain, and it's over for the next few hours or so. Don't get me wrong, I still get a lot out of secks and am not going to turn it down, but I do feel like I've been cheated out of something really awesome, not having a G-spot. That I have to work extra hard for something that shouldn't be that hard. And I'm even more jealous of you multiple types - I'll never have that.
This was me for years... all my O's were clitoral and my g-spot was nonexistent. UNTIL THE BEST THING EVER HAPPENED. FI was giving me oral and using fingers one day, and found it. Best damn O I'd ever had. Took some work but now I can have a purely vaginal orgasm. I still prefer the blended version though. Next goal: multiples!
My 'weird secks thing' is that I don't have a G-spot. I mean, it's technically there, all my partners have been able to feel it, but it's like the wiring isn't hooked up. I don't feel anything at all from it being messed with. So every O I've ever had has been purely clitoral...and from a vibe. Never from sex, fingers, oral, etc. I just require a very strong, constant, fast stimulation there or I just don't hit that mark. No one has fingers or lips that will go that fast, that strong, for that long. It's also a balancing act - go just a second or two too long without hitting the O, and I'll be overstimulated and either numb or in pain, and it's over for the next few hours or so. Don't get me wrong, I still get a lot out of secks and am not going to turn it down, but I do feel like I've been cheated out of something really awesome, not having a G-spot. That I have to work extra hard for something that shouldn't be that hard. And I'm even more jealous of you multiple types - I'll never have that.
This was me for years... all my O's were clitoral and my g-spot was nonexistent. UNTIL THE BEST THING EVER HAPPENED. FI was giving me oral and using fingers one day, and found it. Best damn O I'd ever had. Took some work but now I can have a purely vaginal orgasm. I still prefer the blended version though. Next goal: multiples!
Aw, lucky for you! Hasn't worked out that way for me at all. Wish it would! I'm not stopping trying, though, lol.
Re: It's TMI time (there is so much more than BC going on in here)
H has watched me once or twice, but I don't think i've ever watched H. He gets very self-conscious. Not sure why. We've talked about, it's not an issue, but masturbating for H is me time and he doesn't want to share.
Oral - yes please, both ways. I love giving but, like the other ladies here, my TMJ gives out pretty quickly and makes it painful. But wow, the feeling of control you get is awesome. Current FWB is pretty damn amazing with his mouth, too.
Anal - done it, don't hate it but honestly don't love it either. Doesn't feel bad, doesn't feel good either. I'd be perfectly happy to never do it again. I just don't get anything out of it.
Toys - usually good, but not the heavy BDSM stuff. I don't have a huge amount of experience with them outside of vibes (which are the only way I can O). I can't do restraints (bad experience in the hospital as a very young child) but I'm good with being held down as long as I can get out of it easily. The big stuff - heavy restraints, ball gags, clamps, whips & chains, anything that causes pain are all a big hell no.
Spanking, hair pulling, mouth marks - go for it, just make sure they aren't visible the next day at work. I just think a grown adult with a visible hickey on their neck is silly looking.
I've never heard of shaving as a fetish or something you do to each other. For me it's basic daily grooming. I'd no sooner let my SO shave me than I'd let him brush my teeth for me. It's just something else to hurry up and get done in the shower.
Shower secks can be awesome. It can also be painful, awkward, and dangerous. You've just got to match up right and figure out what works for you.
My 'weird secks thing' is that I don't have a G-spot. I mean, it's technically there, all my partners have been able to feel it, but it's like the wiring isn't hooked up. I don't feel anything at all from it being messed with. So every O I've ever had has been purely clitoral...and from a vibe. Never from sex, fingers, oral, etc. I just require a very strong, constant, fast stimulation there or I just don't hit that mark. No one has fingers or lips that will go that fast, that strong, for that long. It's also a balancing act - go just a second or two too long without hitting the O, and I'll be overstimulated and either numb or in pain, and it's over for the next few hours or so. Don't get me wrong, I still get a lot out of secks and am not going to turn it down, but I do feel like I've been cheated out of something really awesome, not having a G-spot. That I have to work extra hard for something that shouldn't be that hard. And I'm even more jealous of you multiple types - I'll never have that.
I love oral. Love it. Can't get enough. Who was it that said 69 scared them? Don't be afraid!! You can also do it on your side so you aren't fully sitting there.
I used to have a long distance "friend" who we would on occasion video chat with each other and masturbate. It was odd- it was all his doing. I enjoyed it somewhat, but I wouldn't do it again.
I would say the Pocket Rocket was about the best $14 I have ever spent. Seriously, WAY more effective than the really $$ ones I have had.
H and I are a bit vanilla- I have had more adventurous partners in the past and I kind of miss it. Maybe we can spice things up