Bridezilla Rant...the bride giving outragous demands

MobKaz · September 2014

hales2010 said:

I let her just pay me the $200 instead of $250 instead of her giving me 250 and then me turning around and giving her 50 back. We exchanged dresses there and yes she did just stand there and let her mom do it. Like I said it sucks to lose a friend but a friend would not treat you that way. I am planning wedding and I know it can be stressful but you do not act like that. Have some class!

Did I miss something? Nowhere in your original post did I see a "friend". I saw you reference a demanding, selfish, self-absorbed, and immature prima donna. Last time I checked, those were not the qualities of a friend. In removing yourself from this situation, you lost nothing. But you DID gain self-respect, dignity, and sanity. Congratulations!

[Deleted User] · September 2014

Oh how I wish I could be a fly on the wall for the prep leading up to this wedding shit show...

Racheldh83 · September 2014

Are her parents still married....just curious if someone was able to tolerate a teen in a golden girl body.

beethery · September 2014

Racheldh83 said:

Are her parents still married....just curious if someone was able to tolerate a teen in a golden girl body.

Hey, it worked for Blanche.

PrincessOfHavoc · September 2014

Just because I'm a bitch who rolls this way -

I'd keep that damn dress and sell it's tacky ass for a Halloween costume. You bought it, you should trash that fucker if only to be a bitch right back.

larrygaga · September 2014

beethery said:

Racheldh83 said:

Are her parents still married....just curious if someone was able to tolerate a teen in a golden girl body.

Hey, it worked for Blanche.

I love you more and more

zitiqueen · September 2014

You need to keep us updated @hales2010, on what the other BMs do and basically everything else to do with this nightmare wedding!

hellohkb · September 2014

I'm sorry that happened! I'm also curious if the parents are still married. And do keep us updated!

APDSS22 · September 2014

PrincessOfHavoc said:

Just because I'm a bitch who rolls this way - I'd keep that damn dress and sell it's tacky ass for a Halloween costume. You bought it, you should trash that fucker if only to be a bitch right back.

Makes more sense to hand it over to get $200 for it to spend with her soon to be hubby. Although even I admit the urge to torch it would be a strong one...

huskypuppy14 · September 2014

Why do people think it's ok to treat their bridesmaids like this?

Also, the apple didn't fall far from the tree. What a mess.

goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826 · September 2014

I'm so sorry this all had to go down this way. Sounds like this toxic relationship is over and done. You did good, kid. Sticking up for yourself is important.

hales2010 · September 2014

Though I would update you all after the weekend. She is now down to 2 (started out with 6). She got even worse apparently after the first girl and myself got kicked out. Some diet plan has came into effect from what I have heard. Her parents are married btw. They are just kind of "they get what they want" family. I used that money to upgrade my honeymoon package so it will be put to good use.

misshart00 · September 2014

hales2010 said:

Though I would update you all after the weekend. She is now down to 2 (started out with 6). She got even worse apparently after the first girl and myself got kicked out. Some diet plan has came into effect from what I have heard. Her parents are married btw. They are just kind of "they get what they want" family. I used that money to upgrade my honeymoon package so it will be put to good use.

I haven't commented but I've been following this. This is just crazy. She's about to lose every one of her friends. Did you or any of the other girls get replaced?

thisismynickname2 · September 2014

That's unbelievable. She values an event over her friends. So sad.

steph861 · September 2014

I wouldn't be surprised if this bitch is forcing her FI to kick out groomsmen in the name of even sides.

badbnagdway · September 2014

hales2010 said:

Though I would update you all after the weekend. She is now down to 2 (started out with 6). She got even worse apparently after the first girl and myself got kicked out. Some diet plan has came into effect from what I have heard. Her parents are married btw. They are just kind of "they get what they want" family. I used that money to upgrade my honeymoon package so it will be put to good use.

Wow. Only 1/3 of her bmaids left and now they have to diet? Sounds like bridal boot camp, in a bad way.

goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826 · September 2014

steph11814 said:

I wouldn't be surprised if this bitch is forcing her FI to kick out groomsmen in the name of even sides.

Omg I forgot about even sides. You think she'll hire some bridesmaids to help with that?

steph861 · September 2014

goldchocobo said:

steph11814 said:

I wouldn't be surprised if this bitch is forcing her FI to kick out groomsmen in the name of even sides.

Omg I forgot about even sides. You think she'll hire some bridesmaids to help with that?

That would be amazingly ironic if she'd rather spend money on fake bridesmaids than on real ones.

Who are we kidding, though? People should be paying HER for the privilege of being in her wedding party, damn it!

Nymeru · September 2014

How is she reacting to losing 2/3 of her bridal party?

Vivandiere8 · September 2014

Wow... you would really think losing so many brides maids would give her a clue... but I guess some times it's easier for people to keep steam boating ahead and telling themslves they are right rather than admitting they are wrong and trying to fix things.

KatieinBkln · September 2014

OP I am SO happy for you that you got out of that mess. I am not an expert paleontologist, but I think you are lucky as hell to have escaped the clutches of the much-feared Cuntasaurus Rex.

egirl2015 · September 2014

Ummm... The word "Treat" implies she is paying!

Liatris2010 · September 2014

hales2010 said:

Though I would update you all after the weekend. She is now down to 2 (started out with 6). She got even worse apparently after the first girl and myself got kicked out. Some diet plan has came into effect from what I have heard. Her parents are married btw. They are just kind of "they get what they want" family. I used that money to upgrade my honeymoon package so it will be put to good use.

I'm guess she'll be down to zero (bridesmaids, not dress size) before the big day. Telling your BMs they need to diet for your wedding photos. FUUUUUUUUCK that!

steph861 · September 2014

Will she kick them out if they don't lose the "required" amount of weight?

larrygaga · September 2014

I love when we get to see these things through

HaileyDancingbear · September 2014

KatieinBkln said:

OP I am SO happy for you that you got out of that mess. I am not an expert paleontologist, but I think you are lucky as hell to have escaped the clutches of the much-feared Cuntasaurus Rex.

blondeej · September 2014

Threads like this make me wish for minute name details so I can fb stalk these psychos and put faces to these deranged bride and momzillas!!! .... LOL

PrettyGirlLost · September 2014

daria24 said:

Fuck that noise. I would drop the spa thing in a heartbeat. Is she going to kick out her entire BP because they can't afford to get their hair ripped off their face? Let her have no bridesmaids, that's what she deserves. As much as I would loooove to decline the $125 hair, I would probably suck that one up. Because I am terrible at doing my own hair. If I could find a cheaper place to do it, I would tell the bride "Sorry, I'm saving money and going to X place. I'll be ready for pictures." She can suck it up-it's your money to spend, not hers.

I'd drop the spa day AND her ass in a heartbeat. She's a bitch, period.

If you feel $125 for an updo is too much, then I'd look around for cheaper alternatives and book elsewhere, like Daria suggested. I wouldn't tell her, becuase she's obviously an immature drama queen, I'd just go get my hair done and show up on time for pictures prior to the ceremony.

PrettyGirlLost · September 2014

PrincessOfHavoc said:

I'd be saying buh-fucking-bye to that train wreck. I am not paying $250 to have any random stranger rip hair off my hooha. Never mind the rest.

I'd pay that much or more for a really good set of massages and a facial, but not for the package that the Bride is "treating" them too. I'd rather have a longer massage than a mani, pedi, and wax.

But I'd sure as shit not be paying $250 for a spa day that the bride is supposed to be "treating" me to after having to pay $250 for a BM dress, plus airfare, plus a week of my PTO time, plus the overpriced hotel she wants us to stay at, plus $125 for an updo.

And look I get it, in many cities up dos for long hair- I have it- can be very expensive and I suck at hair so I have to pay the fees for shit like that. But if I have to pay for an updo, then I don't want to pay for a spa day on top of that.

hales2010 · September 2014

Hello,

I thought I would update you on the situation. We are down to 1 bridesmaid. The last one is a cousin so she will more than likely not leave. The bride contacted me yesterday and tried to talk things out. I thought when she said that she meant to wanted to make thing right. I met up with her and pretty much all she did was tell me how horrible of a friend I was being for leaving the way I did. I told her that her mom kicked me and the other girl out and that she was being way to unreasonable. She continued to yell and scream until I just left finally. On the diet thing...yes she wants everyone who was left in the bridal party to lose weight before the wedding. She said she was doing it for the benefit of her girls so they do not look awful on the wedding day.Regardless I know I made the right choice still.

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