Although I'd like to mention every detail of this situation, no one would probably read it because it being too long. My best friend lives in California, and I live in Pennsylvania. She came home this week to be a bridesmaid in a wedding this weekend, and I being engaged since February, couldn't wait until she came home so that I could officially asked her and my other bridesmaids to be a part of my day. I was able to ask her and most of the other girls Saturday night and everyone was so excited. My best friend calls me Sunday and now says she can't be in it, basically because she doesn't want to deal with the stress of being in another wedding. Last year we were both bridesmaids in a wedding together that she came home for, and she is home this weekend to be in one. While I understand what it takes to be a bridesmaid, because I've been one 4 times myself, I know it can take a lot more for an out-of-town bridesmaid. But this is my best friend. If I didn't have a sister, this girl would be the one I asked to be my MOH. I am so incredibly hurt and shocked that she just does not want to be a part of my day. Can anyone please offer me some advice? Like I said there is a little more to it, but I am just so sad and could really use some help. Thank you.