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October 2014 Weddings
cherryblossoms21
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Stressed???
So my wedding is on October 18th and I'm so stressed got everything big down now it's just small details. Honestly I don't care about all the other little stuff.. i'm just happy to be walking down the isle toward my fiancee!! All the rest will fall into place. How is everyone remaining calm in the crazy time??
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Re: Stressed???
@bekt14
My FI already did batchlor party thankfully... Too much to do the weekend before that and it's a holdiay weekend!
@bekt14
Ya that wouldn't have gone over well in my HH. I do however have my Batchlorette party on the 4th of Oct
I have been stressed but not for the typical wedding stress. I have been dealing with chronic back pain for over a year now, and I am more worried about how my back will be feeling on my wedding day and more importantly the honeymoon. I don't want to be saying "I can't or don't want to do that" because I have back pain on my honeymoon. We're going to Boston so we'll be doing some walking for sure.
I finally got some relief or hope for relief today. I went to a pain specialist for the first time today and he is going to give me an injection into the area he thinks is the culprit, so I could possibly be pain free if it works...and it's going to be on 10/7 - my wedding is 10/11. I'm really hoping this does the trick, because I've been more focused on the pain I'm in lately than focused on being excited for my wedding, and crying a lot about it.
@cherryblossoms21--We are living the same wedding life!!!! My bach is on the 4th, too! Now tell me, what time of day are you getting married? Too many coincidences.
@SarahBrideSoon
Wedding time will be 4:30pm... thankfully not to early and i get to have brunch with mimosas
sweet!! I'm not quite sure what were doing for the party just going to clubs.. super secret!!
I just did a little every evening until I was done with Thank you's Chris got the easy job signing his name
LOL!!
Kris
I'm now stressed due to some other expenses that have of course decided to pop up at the same time of year as paying for a damn wedding - things I can't put off, either.
Plus, I keep waking up at night with wedding stuff going through my head, usually after just a couple of hours of sleep I wake up and can't get back to sleep right away.
Then fi tells me he's been telling his side of family and friends not to come to the wedding because it only holds 15 people. Wtf did he get that idea from? It holds 75! Have sent a message to our friend the correct info and she'll let people know.
Also, the seamstress sewed my bra to my dress but I didn't have time to try it again and thought nothing of it until I tried my dress on for my mom...you can see right down the front, even while standing up. No bra for me
Plus side, fis dad is so excited about being best man, he asked to stay over at ours the night before because he didn't want to miss anything
My wedding is in 10 days and this week is midterms week. Why did I think getting married in the middle of the semester in grad school would be a good idea? I feel like I've lost my mind. I am however checking things off my to do list! Some things are being a pain though, I ordered 15 lbs of Jordan almonds for favors, and when they came in they were terrible, I'm so upset about the money I wasted and having to come up with something else for favors. Now I'm debating making truffles, but of course that adds another huge item to my checklist.
I'm just focusing on walking down the aisle toward my fiancé and trying to stay calm. All the details will fall into place.