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Re: Help! I need relationship advice

  • GoldenPenguinGoldenPenguin mod
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    OMG WHY DIDN'T YOU LIKE MY POST!?!?!? 

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  • lifeisajourneylifeisajourney member
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    lacqueredlover gets on my last and final nerve 
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    lifeisajourney said:
    lacqueredlover gets on my last and final nerve 
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    That's two times in one day that I've posted the googly eyes! Can't we all be friends??! 
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  • lifeisajourneylifeisajourney member
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    Swazzle said:
    Just because someone's been here for a while and posts a lot that doesn't meant they're necessarily "popular". That's not really a term we use on this board/TK in general unless you're trying to be a smart ass. So yea, that's how I took it and it rubbed me the wrong way. 

    The "You better go run and hide" portion of your post without a doubt sounds sarcastic since why would you be serious when telling someone to do that on a message board. But if 'deny, deny, deny' is going to be your motto right now, then by all means. 


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    Well now it is a term "we" use, since I'm on this board too now and I see absolutely nothing wrong with the word "popular"
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  • lifeisajourneylifeisajourney member
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    GoldenPenguin said:
    rn1989 said:
    It just seems like everyone is fighting and criticizing this girl for her choices. She came to us for help, so let's help her. It's hard to describe everything that's going on in a forum. She can't paint the whole picture for us over the Internet. the only advice I have for her is to have good communication with him. kudos to you for being honest with him about your feelings. Try to have an open mind, because if you really love him, you'll choose to stick it out no matter what. I'd go anywhere with my Paul, and support him in whatever he needs to do, as long as it's positive for him. We've been together about a year, so we're still kind of new too. Good luck, try not to let the negativity get to you.
    You haven't been here long, have you? 

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    This is a perfect example of the "popular people" not liking you. Wth does is matter how long she's "been here" Shes entitled to an opinion just as much as anybody else. Why is it that only the people who have "been here" or are "regulars" have anything worth while to add? 
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    lifeisajourney said:
    GoldenPenguin said:
    rn1989 said:
    It just seems like everyone is fighting and criticizing this girl for her choices. She came to us for help, so let's help her. It's hard to describe everything that's going on in a forum. She can't paint the whole picture for us over the Internet. the only advice I have for her is to have good communication with him. kudos to you for being honest with him about your feelings. Try to have an open mind, because if you really love him, you'll choose to stick it out no matter what. I'd go anywhere with my Paul, and support him in whatever he needs to do, as long as it's positive for him. We've been together about a year, so we're still kind of new too. Good luck, try not to let the negativity get to you.
    You haven't been here long, have you? 

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    This is a perfect example of the "popular people" not liking you. Wth does is matter how long she's "been here" Shes entitled to an opinion just as much as anybody else. Why is it that only the people who have "been here" or are "regulars" have anything worth while to add? 
    Saying 'She came to us for help' implies that she is part of an 'us.' As a newcomer, I would assume someone that said that is someone who regularly participates on this board Since she doesn't, I think @goldenpenguin was doing everyone a favor in letting them know that rn1989 does not speak for 'us.'
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  • lacqueredloverlacqueredlover member
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    Really?  Your last and final nerve?  That's dramatic.  


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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    How DARE you, @GoldenPenguin!  She (usually) waits at LEAST a month in between lining up new boyfriends!  That's why she finds bad gifters and dudes with "unstable" careers.  She has to scrounge them up quickly!

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  • SwazzleSwazzle member
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    GoldenPenguin said:
    lifeisajourney said:
    Swazzle said:
    Just because someone's been here for a while and posts a lot that doesn't meant they're necessarily "popular". That's not really a term we use on this board/TK in general unless you're trying to be a smart ass. So yea, that's how I took it and it rubbed me the wrong way. 

    The "You better go run and hide" portion of your post without a doubt sounds sarcastic since why would you be serious when telling someone to do that on a message board. But if 'deny, deny, deny' is going to be your motto right now, then by all means. 


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    Well now it is a term "we" use, since I'm on this board too now and I see absolutely nothing wrong with the word "popular"
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    You're doing a really swell job of making yourself some friends around here. Don't you have another boyfriend to line up or something? 

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  • lifeisajourneylifeisajourney member
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    There are HUNDREDS of women on these boards, just because 3 or 4 dont like me doesnt mean I wont have any friends. Plus I have friends in real life so I'm ok.
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  • lacqueredloverlacqueredlover member
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    @lifeisajourney literally not one person here said they didn't like you.  YOU are the one that felt the need to explicitly state you didn't like me.  What are you, 15?  Get a grip, put on your big girl panties and act like an adult on here and maybe you will gain a modicum of respect.
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    They really do actually @loves2shop4shoes.
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    lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?
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  • rn1989rn1989 member
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    I feel like this has gotten waaaay out of hand. I said the 'we' comment in her post because even though I am a newcomer, I felt a sense of community with you guys. I didn't mean to speak for anyone.
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    lifeisajourney said:
    lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?
    Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.
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    Do your IRL friends blow rainbow farts up your ass and validate your relationships?
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