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  • KatWAG said:




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    KatWAG said:

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    Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

    I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!
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    Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.


    Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).



    Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 



    Did I miss anything?



    Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.
    First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?


    Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 



    Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 



    I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 
    Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.


    Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.
    But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?In my opinion drinking and driving should be a felony. Only stupid fucking people drink and drive.


    And a revoked drivers license for life. Take the bus, mr. Beans
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  • Maggie0829Maggie0829 member
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    edited December 2014
    You know that ignore feature?  I suggest some of you use it.  Is there any point in going back and forth with someone who you know will just deny and lie?  Seems pointless.  So just ignore her and then it really will be like she just went away.

  • edited December 2014
    larrygaga said:

    And a revoked drivers license for life. Take the bus, mr. Beans
    Nope, only during probation, where do you get your info, really?
    Where did you learn English, really? She was replying to the comment that drunk driving should be a felony, and adding that they should get their license revoked. 

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  • beetherybeethery member
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    edited December 2014
    You know that ignore feature?  I suggest some of you use it.  Is there any point in going back and forth with someone who you know will just deny and lie?  Seems pointless.  So just ignore her and then it really will be like she just went away.
    BSCBeans ignored Lolo and still continues to respond. Apparently, you can open comments (kinda like spoilers I guess?) and still see them, even if they've been ignored.
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  • levioosa said:
    levioosa said:
    beethery said:
    KatWAG said:

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    Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

    I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!
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    Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

    Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

    Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

    Did I miss anything?

    Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.
    First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

    Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

    Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

    I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 
    Nobody is making fun of you for miscarrying. People around here generally just don't believe what you're saying because you have a habit of making stuff up. If you did miscarry, we all feel terrible for you. That's awful.

    Also, don't start in on trying to shame people for shit they're not ashamed of again. That didn't go over so well for you last time.
    But she can call my husband a felon? How is that right?
    1. That is not even remotely the same thing.

    2.  YOU were the one who originally said it was a felony.  So we're not "stretching" very far to allude to something you originally said. 

    3.  Felonies ARE given out for DUIs/DWI.  My brother is now considered a "felon" because of his DUI.  I don't know why you act like they're totally not possible to get for the crime, because it is.  So once again, not exactly a stretch to guess that he's probably a felon for the DUI/DWI.  Especially when you originally stated that he was before changing your story and GBCKing.
    In Texas your first DWI conviction is a Class B Misdemeanor, your second conviction is a Class A Misdemeanor and your third conviction is considered a 3rd Degree Felony
    Okay, Miss Bold Text, still doesn't change the fact you originally called him a felon.  You've lied so much it could have been his third conviction for all we know. 
    Or maybe he killed someone :O 

    Not like he cheated and kicked me out from the house if you know what I mean

    What?  You make no sense.
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  • beethery said:
    You know that ignore feature?  I suggest some of you use it.  Is there any point in going back and forth with someone who you know will just deny and lie?  Seems pointless.  So just ignore her and then it really will be like she just went away.
    BSCBeans ignored Lolo and still continues to respond. Apparently, you can open comments (kinda like spoilers I guess?) and still see them.
    Then @butterscotchjbeans you should also take my advice and actually ignore those on your chosen ignore list.  And if for some reason a person quotes someone on your ignore list (because when a person is quoted you can see what they wrote regardless if they are ignored or not) just scroll right on by.  You have that person on ignore for a reason so why keep adding salt to the wound and responding to her?

    People on here are not always going to get along or like each other, but I think bringing up the same shit when someone posts is pointless and probably really turns new posters off.  So ignore (I think you can ignore a shit ton of posters if you want) and move the fuck on.  And if you really don't want to ignore then when you see a post made by say BSJB or someone else you can't stand then just don't open it.

  • lyndausvi said:
    my head hurts.


    Beans you were the one who said he might not be able to have a name change because he has a felony.  YOU SAID THAT.   We only went by what YOU said.  True story.



    I find monthversaries or whatever they are called to be silly.  But if in Beans case with the history she has voluntarily  told us,  a monthversary might be all she will ever get to celebrate.  I hope that is not the case, but from what she has posted here it could very well be the case.
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  • *raises hand* 

    New-ish poster, came in after this drama. Not deterred, but entertained and a little pearl-clutchy.

    I think the only people who would be deterred by something like this are people who might be tempted to lie about stuff, because this all shows very clearly that you ladies will figure it out. But it's not like you want people who make stuff up to be posting anyway, yeah?

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  • KatWAG said:

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    Excuse me, sorry to interrupt. But can someone give me the backstory on the butterscotch drama? I missed it.

    I second this request. Trying to avoid real work until after lunch & this has the potential to be a fantastic diversion!
    image
    Poked around, was generally liked except for a post where she got educated on the finer points of providing chairs for the ceremony, even if it's short and the reception will be champagne only, up several flights of stairs.

    Then she got super worried her FI was cheating on her, and was dealing with depression (for which she got a lot of support here) so she GBCKed to "figure things out." Also mentioned (in her own words) that her FI was considering changing his name to hers but feared he would have trouble with it because of his felony (which she now insists was only a misdemeanor DUI).

    Came back a few weeks later saying she was planning a wedding in 3 weeks and needed "lots and lots of advice." Advice given was "don't rush to marry a guy you were just convinced was cheating on you." People asked if she was pregnant; she said no; people kept asking what the real story was; she said "ok yeah I'm pregnant;" then people said "ok well still you shouldn't just get married because you're pregnant" and "are you sure you're really pregnant or do you just want us to stop insisting for the real story" then it was "ok just kidding not really pregnant." GBCK'ed again, but Lynda couldn't delete her account, only her content. Shitshow post deleted, another post started asking what happened to the shit show post, she came back within hours claiming we were all lame for wondering about her. Has since insisted that yes, she really was pregnant but is no longer. 

    Did I miss anything?

    Oh and PS she claims to not give two shits what I think of her and promised to set me to "ignore" yet keeps replying to me, so she's going out of her way to unhide my ignored comments. Thirrrrrsty.
    First off, you say you only comment when I talk about you, other than that you couldn't care less about what I post. Well, not really, eh?

    Then, like I said, H is adopted so he wants his last name back. Since he got probation for his DWI which is a misdemeanor not a felony, he needs to wait until is over. 

    Unless you were in my uterus I really hope you are cautious about this, being TTC and I already said I have had 2 miscarriages it is not nice to be making fun of people. Life works in mysterious ways. 

    I think you should be more concerned on your mom being a cheater and messing up your dad, than in me thinking my husband was cheating. 
    WHOA. Out of line. Seriously. All of it. That sounds like you are wishing the pain and heartbreak of your (supposed) miscarriage on Lolo, and then rubbing her nose in other family pain. What effect does any of that have on Lolo's posts here? Zippo. Check yourself quickly, because TK is over the bs.

    BSJB, I liked you. I think you were, at one point, a nice person with a semi-level head on your shoulders.

    I am legitimately concerned for you, because what I remember from not long before the GBCK (before the depression thread) does not match up with what I'm seeing on this profile. 
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  • amelisha said:
    *raises hand* 

    New-ish poster, came in after this drama. Not deterred, but entertained and a little pearl-clutchy.

    I think the only people who would be deterred by something like this are people who might be tempted to lie about stuff, because this all shows very clearly that you ladies will figure it out. But it's not like you want people who make stuff up to be posting anyway, yeah?
    Pretty much.
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  • Sorry, but I also shared sensitive stuff, like when one night my then FI went out of town and I felt insecure for the first time, and I thought he was cheating
    Then we talked, fixed our stuff, decided to get married. 

    Everyone had something to say. I needed to stop, he was cheating, I needed therapy. Okay. Fine. I had a moment and that was it, I thought everyone could vent a little.

    Well, this girl, has a problem since I got married, why? IDK

    She said your "cheating husband" "your felon husband" "fake pregnancy" Obviously I am not popular as her and she is going to end up looking like a saint. But what I did, is EXACTLY the same shit she did to me. 
    A funny thing happens when you lie a lot. People tend not to believe you.

    You said your now-husband was a felon and had concerns about him changing his last name. Now, he's not a felon.

    You had concerns about him potentially cheating on you, because in the relationship he had before you, he cheated on her with you. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You wouldn't have had these concerns if he hadn't cheated on her with you. You said that yourself.

    During your GBCK shitshow, you went back and forth on whether or not you were pregnant, because no one could understand why else you would plan a backyard wedding on such short notice.

    You have since come back on your second account, started up nonsense, and tried to shame people for shit they aren't embarrassed about.

    When you lie about things, what you say afterward becomes very hard to believe. Nobody has any reason to trust you. Who's to say if you're telling the truth?

    Popularity has nothing to do with it. When you lie about things, regardless of your stature here (which there is none, I sincerely doubt anyone cares how popular they may or may not be. Besides you, anyway.) you make yourself untrustworthy. Especially when the lies coincide with shit-stirring.
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