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  • Jells2dot0Jells2dot0 mod
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    wrigleyville said:
    Um, chica, you cannot say with any certainty that you have done more for people with Alzheimer's than any of us. Seriously. You have no idea what most of our backgrounds are.

    QFT

     

    Seriously. I have cancer and would not even dream of saying that I've done more for cancer than anyone on here. A lot of the posters on here are very intelligent and have done quite a bit of volunteering and are into philanthropy.

     







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  • hellosweetie1015hellosweetie1015 member
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    butterscotchjbeans said:
    hellosweetie1015 said:
    Oh Jesus. I was typing out a nice civil response, and then I chose to refresh the page. 

    Do not joke about Alzheimer's. A lot of us have family members, dear ones, who are battling Alzheimer's or who have lost the battle with it. 

    Do not joke about miscarriages. You claim to have had two, and yet I know for a fact that no one who has had even one, or even been through a high-risk pregnancy, would joke about / seemingly wish one on someone. My FI was engaged before. His ex-FI's miscarriage is a large part of why he is not married with a beautiful five-year-old daughter. KNOWING this, and knowing that if she had carried to term I would probably never have had a chance to even know my FI, much less be marrying him next fall, I wish it had never, ever, ever happened to him, because he will always carry the scars that miscarriage left, and he will always wonder about the daughter (and the life) that he lost. I have zero qualms about our future, but I know it will always be colored by the what-ifs of his past.

    Do NOT bring up someone's cheating parents. What control do you exercise over your parents? Because I sure as hell know I don't have any control over mine, which is why I have a half-brother who is younger than me, but older than my sisters. If you have the ability to prevent YOUR parents from making that mistake, congrats, and please tell me how you did it because I'm sure plenty of us would love that ability.

    Seriously, BSJB. I try to like everyone. But you are making it exceptionally hard for me to like you, and I'm about done trying. I don't tolerate lies well.


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    First of all, it wasn't a joke, it was a reference. I wasn't thinking how funny it is bringing up Alzheimer's to be a jackass? Nah. I have done more for Alzheimer's than any of you. I have done walks with my company that made donations of more than 200K every year since 2009. You are not the only one who has dealt with a close one with that disease. 

    Yes, 2. One with my H. 

    She shouldn't have called my H a felon. --multiple times.
    YOU CALLED YOUR H A FELON FIRST HONEY JESUS CHRIST. I was fucking THERE. 

    YOU. DO. NOT. WISH. PAIN. ON. PEOPLE. (I really want to gif Mad Eye Moody bouncing a ferret here but I am too angry to do that.)

    And don't EVEN talk to me about how much you've "done" for a cause. I don't give two shits about how much you've done for a cause if you're sitting there flinging the disease behind it around so carelessly, and frankly working for - and "doing walks with" - a company that donates a fuckton of money to a cause doesn't mean you, specifically, did jack shit for it, and you are throwing the idea of a serious disease awful lightly for someone who's "done more for Alzheimer's than any of you".

    For real, chick.

    ETA also the only person I've ever known with Alzheimer's was a great aunt I never saw. I'm thinking about the multitudes of people on here whose parents, siblings, grandparents, or future/current husbands may struggle with it, who will have to watch as their dearly-loved family member forgets who they are.
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    butterscotchjbeans said:
    lolo883 said:
    butterscotchjbeans said:

    First of all, it wasn't a joke, it was a reference. I wasn't thinking how funny it is bringing up Alzheimer's to be a jackass? Nah. I have done more for Alzheimer's than any of you. I have done walks with my company that made donations of more than 200K every year since 2009. You are not the only one who has dealt with a close one with that disease. 

    Yes, 2. One with my H. 

    She shouldn't have called my H a felon. --multiple times.
    This is seriously some shit-stirring troll bullshit. You don't know dick about anybody in here, what we've done for whom, or what we've been through. Go the fuck away.

    YOU. CALLED. HIM. A FELON. You did. EVERYBODY HERE FUCKING REMEMBERS.
    I am not going to answer to you stupid accusations, Lori. 
    Keep it up.  You're almost there.  THISCLOSE!




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  • lovemyrunnerlovemyrunner member
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    butterscotchjbeans said:
    It is not about going out for dinner, or do a big project for it. It is the acknowledgement of the date and having some alone time doing something out of the routine, like going to the mall and walk, or see lights, go have dessert, or a mcchicken. Although we don't need a date to do any of the previously mentioned, and our days are filled of "I love you's" we made a promise to make it happen every month. Sorry it has made such an impact in your life. 
    Careful.  McChickens can be dangerous.
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  • chibiyuichibiyui member
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    In all honestly. Why do you care that some posters on here called your H a felon? Like SRSLY. It's not like any of us know him, or are going to deny him a job or anything like that, so what does it matter? 

    I understand if you're trying to get back into being a reg on here that you wouldn't people to bring it up constantly, but, these sort of threads are not the way to go about it. Like, laugh it off and be done. Cause, you are the one who first mentioned it. It's not like posters just decided to be all OH, That gurls FI is totes Felon or whatever.
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    butterscotchjbeans said:
    lolo883 said:
    butterscotchjbeans said:

    First of all, it wasn't a joke, it was a reference. I wasn't thinking how funny it is bringing up Alzheimer's to be a jackass? Nah. I have done more for Alzheimer's than any of you. I have done walks with my company that made donations of more than 200K every year since 2009. You are not the only one who has dealt with a close one with that disease. 

    Yes, 2. One with my H. 

    She shouldn't have called my H a felon. --multiple times.
    This is seriously some shit-stirring troll bullshit. You don't know dick about anybody in here, what we've done for whom, or what we've been through. Go the fuck away.

    YOU. CALLED. HIM. A FELON. You did. EVERYBODY HERE FUCKING REMEMBERS.
    I am not going to answer to you stupid accusations, Lori. 
    Am I supposed to be intimidated that you used my name, Fiorella? Cuz I'm not.
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    butterscotchjbeans said:
    hellosweetie1015 said:
    Oh Jesus. I was typing out a nice civil response, and then I chose to refresh the page. 

    Do not joke about Alzheimer's. A lot of us have family members, dear ones, who are battling Alzheimer's or who have lost the battle with it. 

    Do not joke about miscarriages. You claim to have had two, and yet I know for a fact that no one who has had even one, or even been through a high-risk pregnancy, would joke about / seemingly wish one on someone. My FI was engaged before. His ex-FI's miscarriage is a large part of why he is not married with a beautiful five-year-old daughter. KNOWING this, and knowing that if she had carried to term I would probably never have had a chance to even know my FI, much less be marrying him next fall, I wish it had never, ever, ever happened to him, because he will always carry the scars that miscarriage left, and he will always wonder about the daughter (and the life) that he lost. I have zero qualms about our future, but I know it will always be colored by the what-ifs of his past.

    Do NOT bring up someone's cheating parents. What control do you exercise over your parents? Because I sure as hell know I don't have any control over mine, which is why I have a half-brother who is younger than me, but older than my sisters. If you have the ability to prevent YOUR parents from making that mistake, congrats, and please tell me how you did it because I'm sure plenty of us would love that ability.

    Seriously, BSJB. I try to like everyone. But you are making it exceptionally hard for me to like you, and I'm about done trying. I don't tolerate lies well.


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    First of all, it wasn't a joke, it was a reference. I wasn't thinking how funny it is bringing up Alzheimer's to be a jackass? Nah. I have done more for Alzheimer's than any of you. I have done walks with my company that made donations of more than 200K every year since 2009. You are not the only one who has dealt with a close one with that disease. 

    Yes, 2. One with my H. 

    She shouldn't have called my H a felon. --multiple times.

    I don't believe you.

     

    I try to stay out of troll threads. I had the last one on ignore but I wanted to respond that I also remember you calling your FI (now DH) a felon. I remember that because I was reading the thread on my phone at CVS. I remember wondering what he did to become a felon and was worried about you.

    You might honestly believe you didn't say it but you did. You need to start fessing up and apologizing for the massively out of bounds stuff you said.


     

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    I know tension is high right now, but this thread is not worth all the warnings I've had to issue today. Please PM me if you have any questions.

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    edited December 2014
    butterscotchjbeans said:
    http://www.edgemeredallas.com/in-the-news.php?ID=19&readmore=yes

    It wasn't 200K, it was 50 K each year @katwag
    I dontated to United Way through the company that I work for, does that mean I can claim I donated 15 million?!?!?!?!?!?! Because that is how much the company donated this year.  I helped spread the word too!
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    butterscotchjbeans said:


    First of all, it wasn't a joke, it was a reference. I wasn't thinking how funny it is bringing up Alzheimer's to be a jackass? Nah. I have done more for Alzheimer's than any of you. I have done walks with my company that made donations of more than 200K every year since 2009. You are not the only one who has dealt with a close one with that disease. 

    Yes, 2. One with my H. 

    She shouldn't have called my H a felon. --multiple times.
    I don't know what I've done somebody fix it.  - HelloSweetie
    butterscotchjbeans said:
    http://www.edgemeredallas.com/in-the-news.php?ID=19&readmore=yes

    It wasn't 200K, it was 50 K each year @katwag

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    butterscotchjbeans said:
    FiancB said:
    butterscotchjbeans said:
    hellosweetie1015 said:
    Oh Jesus. I was typing out a nice civil response, and then I chose to refresh the page. 

    Do not joke about Alzheimer's. A lot of us have family members, dear ones, who are battling Alzheimer's or who have lost the battle with it. 

    Do not joke about miscarriages. You claim to have had two, and yet I know for a fact that no one who has had even one, or even been through a high-risk pregnancy, would joke about / seemingly wish one on someone. My FI was engaged before. His ex-FI's miscarriage is a large part of why he is not married with a beautiful five-year-old daughter. KNOWING this, and knowing that if she had carried to term I would probably never have had a chance to even know my FI, much less be marrying him next fall, I wish it had never, ever, ever happened to him, because he will always carry the scars that miscarriage left, and he will always wonder about the daughter (and the life) that he lost. I have zero qualms about our future, but I know it will always be colored by the what-ifs of his past.

    Do NOT bring up someone's cheating parents. What control do you exercise over your parents? Because I sure as hell know I don't have any control over mine, which is why I have a half-brother who is younger than me, but older than my sisters. If you have the ability to prevent YOUR parents from making that mistake, congrats, and please tell me how you did it because I'm sure plenty of us would love that ability.

    Seriously, BSJB. I try to like everyone. But you are making it exceptionally hard for me to like you, and I'm about done trying. I don't tolerate lies well.


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    First of all, it wasn't a joke, it was a reference. I wasn't thinking how funny it is bringing up Alzheimer's to be a jackass? Nah. I have done more for Alzheimer's than any of you. I have done walks with my company that made donations of more than 200K every year since 2009. You are not the only one who has dealt with a close one with that disease. 

    Yes, 2. One with my H. 

    She shouldn't have called my H a felon. --multiple times.
    I think you left this somewhere. Can't remember where.

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    It was on the thread lolo started, the one where she talks about her mom cheating on her dad, and then not letting him get his stuff back. Something about an aunt too. I left it there, why? What's up.
    No, sweetie. You left it RIGHT UP THERE, on this thread. 
    *headdesk*
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