Talk to your caterer. It's odd that a wedding had you order on the RSVP card but then again table side, but maybe the couple or the caterer didn't do a great job of tracking the orders, and they were unsure of who ordered what. Or maybe the caterer wasn't really prepared for table ordering and the couple wanted a soft count of entrees. (A little tacky IMHO, but it's possible.)danaamariee88 said:But now I have another question.. I went to a wedding where you selected your entree with the RSVP, but then they had you order when you sat down anyway. Is it still necessary then? I swear figuring out these invitations is going to be the death of me LOL
Re: RSVP cards for everyone?
I hope your venue is accustomed to doing quick table-side service or that you have a very small wedding!
And yes, everyone should get a full invitation suite - the people you listed are honored guests even more so than other guests!