strippers and bachelor parties

hellosweetie1015 · April 2015

sophhabobopha said:

doeydo said:

sophhabobopha said:

hellosweetie1015 said:

redoryx said:

Shocked you owned a toy or the Hitachi specifically?

I gave my sister her first vibrator -- It was a Rabbit and I won it at a movie party for the 2nd Sex & The City film. It was....erm, smaller than the vibrator I currently use so I never took it out of the package and when my sister mentioned she didn't have one (and had never had one) I gave it to her.

Edit: no fucking idea why the boxes got all wonky
HelloSweetie edited to attempt a quote box resolution but I'm pretty sure I just fucked it in worse.

The Hitachi specifically. We both have at least our fair share of toys haha, it's just that the Hitachi was not something he'd expected me to have. It's rather a monster haha
I bought mine for 10 bucks on amazon
I have a knockoff one, I guess. It is amazing.
Yeah, I just meant a regular no name vibe, haha. I'm a cheapo.

Mine was a present to myself after my last long-term BF broke up with me. Fucker was expensive, but knock-on-wood it has been absolutely 100000000000% worth the money.

YogaSandy · April 2015

I definitely would be uncomfortable with lap dances and private rooms. I know DH would never cheat on me, however I'm uncomfortable with strippers, but only because I hate my body so much (esp post baby), that him going to look at baked women who are skinnier than me (perhaps not in better shape because I am a fitness instructor and a yoga instructor), but that's the part I don't like. I know, it's totally my issue and insecurities.

Cookie Pusher · April 2015

Dreamergirl8812 said:

littlepep said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:
Yes, he was a grade A douchebag. This was when we were 18, which was *cough sputter gag* 14 years ago. But I doubt he's changed much. There are some things you just don't grow out of.
So did your H stop being friends with him when that happened? Since he thinks guys who go to strip clubs are pathetic?
My husband has never met him. But no, they would never have been friends.

Dreamergirl8812 said:
Yes, he was a grade A douchebag. This was when we were 18, which was *cough sputter gag* 14 years ago. But I doubt he's changed much. There are some things you just don't grow out of.

Like being a rapist that treats women, let alone sex workers, as subhuman?

Your OP sure soundds like the only issue you had with the story was the allegedly smelly vag.
The stinky vag is disgusting, because I get a terrible visual of a woman sticking a smelly vag on skeezy men.

But the point of the story is that the only reason he didn't lick it was because it smelled bad. That is the worst part. If it hadn't been smelly.....

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. If the only reason he didn't do it was because he got a phone call, THAT would be the worst part.

The fact that the thought of doing that even entered his mind is the worst part. If you don't get that, then there's no helping you.

lurkergirl · April 2015

Cookie Pusher said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:

littlepep said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:
Yes, he was a grade A douchebag. This was when we were 18, which was *cough sputter gag* 14 years ago. But I doubt he's changed much. There are some things you just don't grow out of.
So did your H stop being friends with him when that happened? Since he thinks guys who go to strip clubs are pathetic?
My husband has never met him. But no, they would never have been friends.

Dreamergirl8812 said:
Yes, he was a grade A douchebag. This was when we were 18, which was *cough sputter gag* 14 years ago. But I doubt he's changed much. There are some things you just don't grow out of.

Like being a rapist that treats women, let alone sex workers, as subhuman?

Your OP sure soundds like the only issue you had with the story was the allegedly smelly vag.
The stinky vag is disgusting, because I get a terrible visual of a woman sticking a smelly vag on skeezy men.

But the point of the story is that the only reason he didn't lick it was because it smelled bad. That is the worst part. If it hadn't been smelly.....

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. If the only reason he didn't do it was because he got a phone call, THAT would be the worst part.

The fact that the thought of doing that even entered his mind is the worst part. If you don't get that, then there's no helping you.

Well she knows she's wrong, which is why she's backpedaling. In the first post it was stanky poon that she found offensive. Now it's a phone call.

climbingsingle · April 2015

Someone please post the back pedaling gif for me.

Dreamer, the fact that he even considered assaulting that woman (BECAUSE THAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT) is the worst part and the fact you can't see that is highly disturbing.

lurkergirl · April 2015

Cookie Pusher · April 2015

Someone please post the back pedaling gif for me.

Dreamer, the fact that he even considered assaulting that woman (BECAUSE THAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT) is the worst part and the fact you can't see that is highly disturbing.

I got you.

ETA: Apparently, @lurkergirl and I are sharing a brain this evening.

Dreamergirl8812 · April 2015

Cookie Pusher said:
Someone please post the back pedaling gif for me.

Dreamer, the fact that he even considered assaulting that woman (BECAUSE THAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT) is the worst part and the fact you can't see that is highly disturbing.

I got you.

ETA: Apparently, @lurkergirl and I are sharing a brain this evening.

Actually, the fact that he came so fucking close to doing it is the worst part. The thinking about it is bad, the literally coming within inches of doing it is the worst part.

lurkergirl · April 2015

Dreamergirl8812 said:

Cookie Pusher said:
Someone please post the back pedaling gif for me.

Dreamer, the fact that he even considered assaulting that woman (BECAUSE THAT IS SEXUAL ASSAULT) is the worst part and the fact you can't see that is highly disturbing.
I got you.

ETA: Apparently, @lurkergirl and I are sharing a brain this evening.

Actually, the fact that he came so fucking close to doing it is the worst part. The thinking about it is bad, the literally coming within inches of doing it is the worst part.

chibiyui · April 2015

Ah criminey.

Dreamers first post on this was fucked up.

But her first clarification/backpedal post the way it's written could interpreted multiple ways, it wasn't clear.

But the point of the story is that the only reason he didn't lick it was because it smelled bad. That is the worst part. If it hadn't been smelly.....

But with the if it hadn't been smelly at the end, Dreamer, it comes across as still laughing up the smelly vag.

I hope you're not friends with that douchebag anymore.

amelisha · April 2015

I'm so glad I wasn't the only one to find that repellant. Glad I can count on you all.

[Deleted User] · April 2015

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Dreamergirl8812 · April 2015

chibiyui said:
Ah criminey.

Dreamers first post on this was fucked up.

But her first clarification/backpedal post the way it's written could interpreted multiple ways, it wasn't clear.

But the point of the story is that the only reason he didn't lick it was because it smelled bad. That is the worst part. If it hadn't been smelly.....

But with the if it hadn't been smelly at the end, Dreamer, it comes across as still laughing up the smelly vag.

I hope you're not friends with that douchebag anymore.

I own that completely. The first post was flippant, and should not have been.

ETA: forgot the highlighter.

ETA part 2: No, I have not interacted with this guy in 14 years.

VulgarGirl · April 2015

I'd be willing to put down some cold hard cash that this Mr. Smelly pussy kept me from sexually assaulting someone has now sexually assaulted and probably raped someone.

Oh someone who deserved it of course. A stripper or hooker or a drunk girl or a girl in a short skirt at a bar. Not a nice girl. He'd never rape one of them. But some slut who had it coming.

And then I'm sure he told his bros and they fist bumped him cause yo that skank had it coming. And I'm sure he's told the story to good girls who giggle uncomfortably but they aren't sure why they're uncomfortable because they look down on strippers and hookers and drunk girls too. Because those girls should know better.

And no one calls him a rapist. Just a douchebag. A few people stop hanging out with him. But hey...those girls...they should know better right?

FiancB · April 2015

Dreamergirl8812 said:

littlepep said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:

Dreamergirl8812 said:
Yes, he was a grade A douchebag. This was when we were 18, which was *cough sputter gag* 14 years ago. But I doubt he's changed much. There are some things you just don't grow out of.
So did your H stop being friends with him when that happened? Since he thinks guys who go to strip clubs are pathetic?
My husband has never met him. But no, they would never have been friends.

Dreamergirl8812 said:
Yes, he was a grade A douchebag. This was when we were 18, which was *cough sputter gag* 14 years ago. But I doubt he's changed much. There are some things you just don't grow out of.

Like being a rapist that treats women, let alone sex workers, as subhuman?

Your OP sure soundds like the only issue you had with the story was the allegedly smelly vag.
The stinky vag is disgusting, because I get a terrible visual of a woman sticking a smelly vag on skeezy men.

But the point of the story is that the only reason he didn't lick it was because it smelled bad. That is the worst part. If it hadn't been smelly.....

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. If the only reason he didn't do it was because he got a phone call, THAT would be the worst part.

Ah no. Saying that the only reason he didn't assault someone is due to rank pussy or getting a phone call is the worst part.

The post sounded like "Hey guys let's exchange secondhand stories about gross, nastyass strippers! They're just robots that exist for guys to assault and other women to feel superior to!"

And $20 that the smelly thing never happened. Because baby wipes. And believe it or not, most dancers do have the sense to know that weird smells aren't a selling point.

drunkenwitch · April 2015

Excuse me, I need to retreat to my happy place for awhile because my brain can't wrap it's head around smelly vag is worse than assault. I will be watching Gato Malo on loop until I feel better.

kkitkat79 · April 2015

Everyone has bad thoughts, everyone. Most people recognize they are bad and don't act on them. If I am not mistaken, dreamgirl's point is that this guy didn't and that is the worst part. It's like thinking "I want to have sex with this stripper whether she wants it or not, but I am not going to because having sex with people without their consent is wrong" vs. "I want to have sex with the stripper whether she wants it or not, but I am not going to because her vagina smells bad." Which one is worse? I think the latter is infinitely more disturbing and I think that is what dreamgirl was trying to say.

aliwis000 · April 2015

MagicInk said:

aliwis000 said:

I am one that does care. Why does it bother me? Well I guess
that is because I do not like my husband-to-be having sexual thoughts about
other women. WAIT, before you say, “BUT ALIWIS…we are human, even you yourself
have had thoughts about others, it is in our nature…”

Ok, I agree and I will give you that. Things happen in the confines
of our minds that we acknowledge and then we move on. The difference here is
that this is seeking it out. My husband-to-be is going to a place to look at
women and have sexual thoughts about them. Otherwise why go?

In the end every couple is entitled to their own limits and
there are extremes at both ends. As long as both individuals in the
relationship are ok with something I do not see a problem. These are simply my opinions
which are something only my husband-to-be needs to understand and respect.

Some people in real life have told me it’s not a big deal
for them to go, that really, it is no big deal. My response is always; if it
means so little then do not go. After all “it is not a big deal”.

The first bolded and the last bolded don't really jive.

If it's no big deal to them, why shouldn't they go? If they're trying to drag you kicking and screaming into the strip club, fine, then fuck them they suck. But if they want to go, why the fuck do you care what they do?

I do not understand how they do not jive.

I am simply stating that each couple sets their limits. There are lots of people on this post that are totally find with their SO going to strip clubs. I wanted to make sure that my opinion was just that, not a comment that all females should think how I do.

My second comment was a response I have heard from male friends on the subject. They say I should not care because they view it as "no big deal". Which I understand and they can go and have as much fun as they would like. However, when my SO uses this argument I then say, if it is no big deal then don't go because it is a big deal to me.

Once again my opinion on this only applies to my SO. Every other person can do whatever, and I agree with you, I do not care about them.

ashley8918 · April 2015

MagicInk said:
I'd be willing to put down some cold hard cash that this Mr. Smelly pussy kept me from sexually assaulting someone has now sexually assaulted and probably raped someone.

Oh someone who deserved it of course. A stripper or hooker or a drunk girl or a girl in a short skirt at a bar. Not a nice girl. He'd never rape one of them. But some slut who had it coming.

And then I'm sure he told his bros and they fist bumped him cause yo that skank had it coming. And I'm sure he's told the story to good girls who giggle uncomfortably but they aren't sure why they're uncomfortable because they look down on strippers and hookers and drunk girls too. Because those girls should know better.

And no one calls him a rapist. Just a douchebag. A few people stop hanging out with him. But hey...those girls...they should know better right?

Okay, so obviously I find this whole, "stank vag is worse than rape thing abhorrant, buuuutttt..... I laughed so hard at the bolded that coffee came out of my nose.

littlepep · April 2015

ashley8918 said:

MagicInk said:
I'd be willing to put down some cold hard cash that this Mr. Smelly pussy kept me from sexually assaulting someone has now sexually assaulted and probably raped someone.

Oh someone who deserved it of course. A stripper or hooker or a drunk girl or a girl in a short skirt at a bar. Not a nice girl. He'd never rape one of them. But some slut who had it coming.

And then I'm sure he told his bros and they fist bumped him cause yo that skank had it coming. And I'm sure he's told the story to good girls who giggle uncomfortably but they aren't sure why they're uncomfortable because they look down on strippers and hookers and drunk girls too. Because those girls should know better.

And no one calls him a rapist. Just a douchebag. A few people stop hanging out with him. But hey...those girls...they should know better right?
Okay, so obviously I find this whole, "stank vag is worse than rape thing abhorrant, buuuutttt..... I laughed so hard at the bolded that coffee came out of my nose.

Sorry I couldn't resist.

MadHops21 · April 2015

So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.

VulgarGirl · April 2015

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.

Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.

redoryx · April 2015

MagicInk said:

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.
Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.

Not only that, it's far easier to romanticize the personality of someone you don't really know. It's like when you have a crush on someone you only see from afar but then when you actually get to know them you realize, nope, so not interested.

MadHops21 · April 2015

redoryx said:

MagicInk said:

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.
Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.
Not only that, it's far easier to romanticize the personality of someone you don't really know. It's like when you have a crush on someone you only see from afar but then when you actually get to know them you realize, nope, so not interested.

Grass is always greener.

FI actually friended a pornstar on MySpace back in the day. I thought it was hilarious. And I think there are some girls from his HS that are in some porns. It's more laughable than anything. Porn is just funny on video. Seeing someone sexual in your face and space is different for me.

wandajune6 · April 2015

MadHops21 said:

redoryx said:

MagicInk said:

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.
Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.
Not only that, it's far easier to romanticize the personality of someone you don't really know. It's like when you have a crush on someone you only see from afar but then when you actually get to know them you realize, nope, so not interested.
Grass is always greener.

FI actually friended a pornstar on MySpace back in the day. I thought it was hilarious. And I think there are some girls from his HS that are in some porns. It's more laughable than anything. Porn is just funny on video. Seeing someone sexual in your face and space is different for me.

My bff did porn for years. She started out stripping and found that she made more money doing porn. For years, she would headline at strip clubs as a porn star as well. It was great for her. She had a MySpace back in the day and would use it for marketing all the time. Endless guys would connect to her and try to flirt. It was a bit of a joke but there were tons of guys who would show up at the club to see her and would reference her page.

She's actually a big part of why I don't mind strip clubs. In part because I spent a lot of time in the back room of them when she was working and in part because I got to know strippers. Most of them were there to make money not because they were interested in the men there. The goal was to make money. Sure, you might find girls who had problems that lead to bad decision-making but most just wanted to pay for school, take care of their family, or just make some extra money. My friend still laughs about women who think they'll lose their man to a stripper. She would never date a guy who would waste hard-earned money on something that frivolous.

MadHops21 · April 2015

wandajune6 said:

MadHops21 said:

redoryx said:

MagicInk said:

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.
Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.
Not only that, it's far easier to romanticize the personality of someone you don't really know. It's like when you have a crush on someone you only see from afar but then when you actually get to know them you realize, nope, so not interested.
Grass is always greener.

FI actually friended a pornstar on MySpace back in the day. I thought it was hilarious. And I think there are some girls from his HS that are in some porns. It's more laughable than anything. Porn is just funny on video. Seeing someone sexual in your face and space is different for me.
My bff did porn for years. She started out stripping and found that she made more money doing porn. For years, she would headline at strip clubs as a porn star as well. It was great for her. She had a MySpace back in the day and would use it for marketing all the time. Endless guys would connect to her and try to flirt. It was a bit of a joke but there were tons of guys who would show up at the club to see her and would reference her page.

She's actually a big part of why I don't mind strip clubs. In part because I spent a lot of time in the back room of them when she was working and in part because I got to know strippers. Most of them were there to make money not because they were interested in the men there. The goal was to make money. Sure, you might find girls who had problems that lead to bad decision-making but most just wanted to pay for school, take care of their family, or just make some extra money. My friend still laughs about women who think they'll lose their man to a stripper. She would never date a guy who would waste hard-earned money on something that frivolous.

I'm not saying strippers are bad people or will go to hell or anything. It's a job and it's entertainment, it pays the bills and supports their families.

I'm just not comfortable with sex so openly for FI to be around it. I would never lose my FI to a stripper, I just think don't like it. That's all. Doesn't mean I don't want anyone to go to them, if it's your thing, then go for it. I'm not trying to hold anyone back from doing it. It's just a me thing.

redoryx · April 2015

MadHops21 said:

wandajune6 said:

MadHops21 said:

redoryx said:

MagicInk said:

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.
Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.
Not only that, it's far easier to romanticize the personality of someone you don't really know. It's like when you have a crush on someone you only see from afar but then when you actually get to know them you realize, nope, so not interested.
Grass is always greener.

FI actually friended a pornstar on MySpace back in the day. I thought it was hilarious. And I think there are some girls from his HS that are in some porns. It's more laughable than anything. Porn is just funny on video. Seeing someone sexual in your face and space is different for me.
My bff did porn for years. She started out stripping and found that she made more money doing porn. For years, she would headline at strip clubs as a porn star as well. It was great for her. She had a MySpace back in the day and would use it for marketing all the time. Endless guys would connect to her and try to flirt. It was a bit of a joke but there were tons of guys who would show up at the club to see her and would reference her page.

She's actually a big part of why I don't mind strip clubs. In part because I spent a lot of time in the back room of them when she was working and in part because I got to know strippers. Most of them were there to make money not because they were interested in the men there. The goal was to make money. Sure, you might find girls who had problems that lead to bad decision-making but most just wanted to pay for school, take care of their family, or just make some extra money. My friend still laughs about women who think they'll lose their man to a stripper. She would never date a guy who would waste hard-earned money on something that frivolous.
I'm not saying strippers are bad people or will go to hell or anything. It's a job and it's entertainment, it pays the bills and supports their families.

I'm just not comfortable with sex so openly for FI to be around it. I would never lose my FI to a stripper, I just think don't like it. That's all. Doesn't mean I don't want anyone to go to them, if it's your thing, then go for it. I'm not trying to hold anyone back from doing it. It's just a me thing.

I find that reason a little confusing: Sex isn't a part of stripping, but it is a part of porn. So you're okay with him watching people have sex on camera but you aren't okay with him watching a live person dance naked?

MadHops21 · April 2015

redoryx said:

MadHops21 said:

wandajune6 said:

MadHops21 said:

redoryx said:

MagicInk said:

MadHops21 said:
So anyway...

Minority here: Hate strip clubs. Never been to one, FI knows my position on them of him going and how crush I'd be, so he respects that. He even told me before we started dating that he didn't like the idea of paying for something he can get for free (porn, girlfriends, etc).

He doesn't go to parties that include strip clubs, which makes me happy. He watches porn frequently, like twice a day, and I'm okay with that. It's something about seeing it in person and potentially knowing the person that bothers me. Some random person on the internet is totally fine with me.
Because you wouldn't know anyone who does porn? You could (or he could) potentially know the girl getting fucked on camera.
Not only that, it's far easier to romanticize the personality of someone you don't really know. It's like when you have a crush on someone you only see from afar but then when you actually get to know them you realize, nope, so not interested.
Grass is always greener.

FI actually friended a pornstar on MySpace back in the day. I thought it was hilarious. And I think there are some girls from his HS that are in some porns. It's more laughable than anything. Porn is just funny on video. Seeing someone sexual in your face and space is different for me.
My bff did porn for years. She started out stripping and found that she made more money doing porn. For years, she would headline at strip clubs as a porn star as well. It was great for her. She had a MySpace back in the day and would use it for marketing all the time. Endless guys would connect to her and try to flirt. It was a bit of a joke but there were tons of guys who would show up at the club to see her and would reference her page.

She's actually a big part of why I don't mind strip clubs. In part because I spent a lot of time in the back room of them when she was working and in part because I got to know strippers. Most of them were there to make money not because they were interested in the men there. The goal was to make money. Sure, you might find girls who had problems that lead to bad decision-making but most just wanted to pay for school, take care of their family, or just make some extra money. My friend still laughs about women who think they'll lose their man to a stripper. She would never date a guy who would waste hard-earned money on something that frivolous.
I'm not saying strippers are bad people or will go to hell or anything. It's a job and it's entertainment, it pays the bills and supports their families.

I'm just not comfortable with sex so openly for FI to be around it. I would never lose my FI to a stripper, I just think don't like it. That's all. Doesn't mean I don't want anyone to go to them, if it's your thing, then go for it. I'm not trying to hold anyone back from doing it. It's just a me thing.
I find that reason a little confusing: Sex isn't a part of stripping, but it is a part of porn. So you're okay with him watching people have sex on camera but you aren't okay with him watching a live person dance naked?

Yes.

VulgarGirl · April 2015

So I'm wondering anti-strip club people, what about plays that feature nudity?

I've been in a few plays where I have been butt ass naked on stage. Way more naked then I have ever been swinging around a pole.

Would that acceptable or would you not see those plays or insist your SO not see those plays? Is it just the context of a strip club or is it the (near) naked lady? (I never did full nude, topless only, I know others who work in bikini bars depending on their state laws)

MadHops21 · April 2015

MagicInk said:
So I'm wondering anti-strip club people, what about plays that feature nudity?

I've been in a few plays where I have been butt ass naked on stage. Way more naked then I have ever been swinging around a pole.

Would that acceptable or would you not see those plays or insist your SO not see those plays? Is it just the context of a strip club or is it the (near) naked lady? (I never did full nude, topless only, I know others who work in bikini bars depending on their state laws)

I don't know anyone personally that has modeled for art nude, or starred in a play nude, or anything like that, but I would see it. Me and FI have been to Aruba and I have commented on another chick's ass to him because she was fit and had a nice body, but it's just the strip club that bothers me and the reputation that guys I know give it.

FI was working on a car the other day and me and his buddy were sitting next to the car, all 3 of us talking. Said buddy was talking about some strip club near the Indiana border, saying how FI will go there for his bachelor party and his past experiences with strippers and the sex they've had and so on. I personally don't know anyone that has gone to a strip club without leaving with a chick's number or hooking up with her. Yes, that's prostitution, but that's my experience, hence my feelings towards them.

If I was in another state with different friends, then I would probably feel different and more relaxed with them. I almost guarantee it since I'm fine with sending FI pics of ladies I find attractive or pointing out a sexy lady at the beach. Just not comfortable with strip clubs.

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