My fiance and I are planning on a small destination wedding in Bali. His mom, my dad, and our friends are all on board/excited for the trip. We've already sent out RSVPs and a few people have already booked tickets. My mom consistently tries to persuade me out of Bali because she is afraid we/the wedding party will be robbed, mugged, or abducted at some point during the trip, that all of her friends don't think we should get married there, and that some extended family members will not be able to make it. I've tried countless ways to address her travel safety concerns, but it's been a month of constant worrying regardless of what I say to help her feel better.
Am I being unreasonable? What else can I say? Most people who are coming to the wedding have traveled extensively, and do not have the same concerns as my mom does (she has only ever traveled to Hawaii once in the past 25 years). We're not asking for any financial help with the wedding, and we understand that not everyone will be able to come. My fiance and I both have small immediate families and a small group of very good friends, and we're perfectly happy with that group.