TK Community,
I really need your help.
It's 86 days til my wedding - my Fiance, being in the armed forces is deploying and we're trying to do this quickly.
My wedding venue package includes a cake from a local baker. She's telling me that to do flavors or Gluten Free (which many of my family is), it will cost a lot more. On top of this, she is 100% insisting that Fondant be used.
I'm just going to say this.... I. Hate. Fondant. It's tacky. However, she sent a not so nice email stating that 100% she HAS to use Fondant. Capital letters and all....
Help? How do I handle this situation?
I'm not a bridezilla and I don't want to sound mean but really? It's required???? and Why the extra charge if the cake is supposed to be part of the package?
Re: The Fondant & Food Allergy Argument
I wouldn't blame you for going elsewhere, but one last ditch effort with her would be to see if she's willing to do the gluten-free cake recipe as cupcakes and just have them simply decorated with frosting. Unless of course you're extremely set on having a showcase cake or something. But maybe she'd be willing to do that - from a decorating standpoint, I think it's a lot easier so she might be willing.
O.k. - go for a rough-iced buttercream design - that'll get rid of the fondant factor - your ace in the hole is going to be asking the question "Is the fondant Gluten Free"???
The one question is - is your reception outdoors - this would be the only reason I can think of that fondant might be a "must" because it is more temperature sensitive...
As for the pricing, yes, gluten free is going to cost you more because the ingredients and extra protocols cost extra (value of ingredients and time)... Specialty flavors, not so much as long as you aren't demanding impossible time-sensitive ingredients (mango-peach filling with fresh strawberries and raspberries to adorn the outside...
If you can't work with the baker, I'd recommend talking to the venue about getting a credit for the cake portion and find one that you can work with even if it costs you more.
Gluten free cakes don't always hold up as well as standard cakes, although places are getting better. This may be why the baker is so insistent on fondant, although I agree its not great stuff.h Our baker makes cakes that look like fondant, but use butter cream icing. A good baker can easily do that...which makes me think this baker might not be that skilled, or it's a gluten-free/temperature issue.
It is hard to make a good tasting Gluten Free Cake. Question, she is probably insisting on Fondant for one of two reason.
1. She doesn't feel comfortable doing butter cream because it is harder to work with, especially decorating
2. If your reception will be outside during the summer, butter cream won't hold up nearly as well as Fondant will. Butter Cream will melt on a warm summer day and then look bad and then that comes back to her that a cake she did ended up looking bad.