Just went to a family wedding. Bride and Groom paid for the wedding themselves, I believe. It was a very small reception, maybe 50 people.
They had a bait and switch cash bar- 1st hour free, then changed to cash bar during rest of reception. . .including pop and iced tea, etc. We had to pay for non alcoholic drinks too ><
Everyone was bitching about the cash bar, and since it was such a small reception everyone basically meant all family. The father of the groom was really pissed and really embarrassed.
Moral of he story- CASH BARS ARE NEVER OK!
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