That is the question! I am having an intimate wedding of 100 guests, there is absolutely no wiggle room on that number. It took a lot of cutting and some heated discussions to finally get it down to that number.
The problem is, I have been reading that you also have to feed your photographers, videographer and DJ. When I contacted the event coordinator at the venue and asked her about the meals for them she said you have to put them into the quest count. Which would mean I would have to cut 4 more of my family and friends so that I can offer a meal to them.
I just felt like I am already paying for their photo/video/DJ services for the day (which is very expensive) so why would I also have to cut my own guest list and pay for them to eat too?
Is this mandatory to do? Would I be a bad host not to feed them? I am so stressed over this, I really don't want to cut anymore of my friends or family!
Any input would help! Thanks!