What's everyone's opinions on the bride and groom cake cutting ceremony, particularly the part where more often than not I've been to weddings where the bride and groom take a jab at smashing the cake into their loved one's mouth rather than delicately feeding them a bite.
We've decided to have some fun with cake samples and practice our "smash" to decide what level we are most comfortable with. The last wedding I was at the bride ended up with strawberry filling all over the top of her white dress, and that's not something I'm comfortable with. However, I don't want to disappoint our guests and skip the tradition if it's still the norm (is it?).