Hey , I'm so sorry you r going thru this. Not seeing you on mother's day bc mother in law more important. Nonsense . Sounds like the gf is a chip off old block of mom. Sounds like sons gf is a well....brat. idk best advice other than talk to your soon about how you'd like to be with him more , or make plans to take walks, lunches , etc things that don't break the bank. Invite son and gf or if gf doesn't come just son. Start to do all you can to make effort to be with son away from this so he can make sure it's what he wants . You are his mother , you deserve to be held high
July 12
Re: What's a dream wedding or dream vow renewal theme for you?
Incidentally, we're also planning a trip next month to celebrate being together for 10 years total. We like traveling together, so we're definitely going to prioritize that over renewing vows that don't expire anyway.
My "dream wedding theme"? Getting married. It's a wedding, not a child's birthday party. Getting married is all the theme I need.
My "dream vow renewal theme"? I really don't envision myself going into a marriage to do a renewal, and certainly not before maybe the 20-30 year mark, so I got plenty of time to see if I feel differently about "themes" if there is a renewal at all. To the best of my knowledge, vows don't expire and my state doesn't require me to renew them like my drivers license, so pretty sure I'll be all set and not need to worry.