So I'm who's all having a personal attendant. I was planning on having my little brother's girlfriend (will be wife someday). If they were engaged or married I would have had her as a bridesmaid, but since they aren't I planned on personal attendant. Do people have personal attendants anymore? She'd be there to help decorate (we can't decorate until the day of), take care of vendors and be my go to person the day of.
I wanted to ask her in person, but she is in France until early next year (we are getting married September 2016). Sending something is out of the questions because she is always on the move. Would it be cheesy to send an e-mail?