My fiancé and I are having a small wedding around 10 people. We are then going to a steakhouse afterwards for a nice meal. Unfortunately the whole time that we've been planning my future mother-in-law has not been very supportive. She is very unhappy that we're having a small wedding and I hear that constantly. Tonight we were talking to his brother and his brother's fiancé who just got engaged last week. They were talking about how they're having 150 people wedding at a country club and about her ring which is 2.2 karats. She's very bridezilla and it has only just begun. She was talking about how she had seven weddings to go to next year. Among them was ours. Then my future mother-in-law said oh they're not really having a wedding it is More of a family get together.
I was caught off guard and didn't know how to respond but felt hurt. Am I wrong to feel this way and how would you ladies have handled the situation???