Hi Ladies...I'm feeling pretty numb. A month ago FI lost his job. (He was working 40 hours plus going to school in another state). In the few weeks after that he was acting pretty depressed, and my parents were angry at him because they felt that he should be bouncing right back and job searching.
My parents (who were paying for our wedding) called me at the beginning of last week to tell me that they are no longer behind us getting married and will no longer be paying for our wedding (STDs have already gone out). They have cancelled all the vendors and hotel blocks. The most amazing thing is that they think FI & I am being immature and manipulative because I have said that I/we are hurt.
I am at such a loss for what to do. I don't want to push forward and keep the same wedding date just to prove a point, but I feel like postponing is letting them dictate our lives. I am just trying to wrap my head around the idea that if we do push on with our current date (aka start from scratch with 8 months to plan) my family may not be there to celebrate with me.