I'm a MOB, and hubs and I are hosting what is shaping up to be a lovely wedding/reception for our only daughter and her FI, whom we love like our own son. So what's the problem with that?
They are very nice people, but live a much simpler, more frugal lifestyle and see things differently.
It seems that the reception we are planning is just too upscale/nice for the other family. Nobody has directly asked them for any money, by the way, but FSIL has asked them how, if at all, they would like to help or be involved. They are willing to contribute, but only if their contribution goes towards things that they approve of.
After touring many venues (in THEIR hometown, not ours, I might add) with the bride, groom and other mother, and comparing prices (all would be within a few hundred dollars bottom line of each other) the bride and groom liked one venue the best because it had the most character.
Now, snide remarks are being made to the groom about that choice and other things as well. Making my daughter out to be a high maintenance bridezilla (she's not, by the way, she just wants everyone to be happy).
They are willing to host a rehearsal dinner, but unwilling to invite the out of town guests. Wedding party only. The groom needs to handle this one, right?
At the moment, my blood is boiling. WHY is is considered acceptable to criticize and make snide remarks about something being too nice, when if it were the other way around and we were criticizing something they planned as not being good enough we would be considered totally snobbish and rude?
Wedding planning is NOT starting off very well
Thoughts or advice, anyone?