My fiance and I just got engaged three months ago, and our wedding isn't even til next year.
Three out of the four of our parents (FI's mom, and my mom and dad) are hinting about how much they want grandchildren, which graduated to flat-out asking when we think we'll have kids, which graduated into them discussing/planning where the kids will be spending birthdays and holidays and who's getting the kids when.
I know they were semi-joking, but it actually got to the point that I was feeling mega stress. I'm seeing this future of our parents competing with each other over who gets to see our kids and when, trying to guilt-trip us about not being able to see both sides of the fam at holidays (or goodness forbid, staying home for the holidays), etc etc etc. Thank God for both FI and his dad, who are the chillest people ever born and immune to all of this nonsense.
I know they're excited and I'm so happy they are! But like -- maybe press the chill button for a sec. We ain't even having kids til a year and nine months from now at the earliest!
Vent over -- sorry! It was a weird weekend.