So I've only been at my job 3 months and my boss started inviting herself to my wedding, what I thought was jokingly, about a month ago. I tried to dodge it at first with dumb answers like "oh, are you walking me down the aisle" or things like that just because I thought she was joking. It's now a week before the wedding and she is still talking about it, and now she is even grilling a co-worker of mine for the address (this co-worker is my bff that has worked there a shorter time than me). To make things even more weird, she straight up said she is skipping the ceremony and only coming to the reception. I tried to be like "oh you're just trying to use me for free food" and she didn't get the hint. This is getting so uncomfortable because she's my boss that I see everyday so I can't dodge her for the next week but like she was never invited / given an invite / I've never even brought the wedding up to her lol. Please help!!
Also we're having like 100 people at the wedding so it's not small, but the seating chart is already done and the food is ordered at this point....