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I think there's room for compromise. I don't really agree with the whole ''you only get one wedding'' in the sense that once you sign papers, you're done and you can't have a reception a few weeks or… (View Post)

From a guest's perspective, I think it's rude to show up at a wedding empty-handed. Guest etiquette also exists, and while gifts (and cards) are never an obligation (in theory), bringing one is polit… (View Post)

Ask them. It's free. ;) But if you want to make it more special, why not write down a personal letter to each of them, telling them what they mean to you and why you feel lucky to have them in your l… (View Post)

I don't see why other types of relationships couldn't be celebrated. If they're not monogamous, a marriage doesn't make sense. It doesn't mean they do not want to celebrate their unconventional relat… (View Post)

In my area it's the norm to offer cash gifts rather than boxed gifts. Some couples use the money to pay off the reception cost, some others use it toward their honeymoon, or a house downpayment, or a… (View Post)