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You told the kid to leave the cats alone, specifically because they don't like strangers, and he didn't listen. He's old enough to know better. You have nothing to apologize for. If yo… (View Post)

Laura is not responsible for Ken's behavior, so I don't think it's fair to be mad at her because he turned out to be a jerk. That said, it sounds like either she's not willing to … (View Post)

While it doesn't show the healthiest attitude, he made the remark about himself, not you or either of your kids. I get why it would make you a bit uncomfortable, but saying it's "adjac… (View Post)

For most events, I'd side with your partner. This is an exception. Your late wife's family is grieving, and they should be allowed to do so in a way that is comfortable for them. Especially… (View Post)

Aside from the whole racist element, I find it concerning that your boyfriend knows what a huge, sensitive issue this is for you but still reacted as negatively and dismissively as he did. Yes, he ap… (View Post)