Anyone else really miss flame-fest Friday? In the spirit of it, how about we share things that the lovely ladies of the etiquette board think are proper, but that we personally disagree with.
For me: cocktail hour seating. I don't think it's rude to not have a seat for every single person for a cocktail hour. Some seats, yes, but not for everyone. And I don't get the "people need to park their bags and coats" argument- do you not have coat check? People don't need a place to sit and eat during the cocktail hour because you shouldn't be serving knife and fork required food. Your shoes should be comfortable enough to mingle in. And if somehow able bodied people hog all the chairs, there's nothing wrong with someone who needs a seat asking for one.
I don't chime in with this advice in threads because there's clearly a consensus here that seats are a must, but in honor of Friday this is my vent.