So my fiancé and i had planned on doing a cash bar at our reception because we couldn't afford to pay for the alcohol but our venue has a bartender regardless. When my fiances mother found out she got really upset because they don't want alcohol to be there for religious reasons and don't want alcohol present at all. So, reluctantly, we decided that there would be no alcohol at the reception at all. After telling my family, they were upset for the opposite reason. My family enjoys a glass of wine with their meals and sees nothing wrong with having it at the reception. My mom would like it there and my fiancee family doesn't...and they are both very strongly wanting their side. It is stressing me out more than anything else and I don't want this to be how we start our wedding or our life together; I really don't know what to do!!