FFF

Bubbalub

Teej you have such a great way with words and I agree with your assesement of Heels. I don't really care one way or the other but she really did, in the last few months, seem to pull the robes of martyrdom on with many a post which got old, fast.

I read more than I post but I definitely find it interesting how people evolve and change on the boards, sometimes for the good, sometimes not. IMHO, of course.

I don't really have anyone specific to flame today. I'm too wrapped up in my wedding (3 weeks! WTF? How did that happen?) to worry about anyone else. [/self-absorbed]

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:ad0f538e-5f79-420b-bfb0-03230339b81a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]re: The callout site. I've found the responses to the call outs to be even more ridiculous than the call outs themselves. The back and forth between people, oh my god. If someone says something about you, do you really need to make your point back with a picture with text on it? Do you really need to make a point back at all?
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

Jinx. I rolled my eyes pretty hard when aprovencher wrote over the one that was clearly directed at Missy.

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:0ff8d6fc-adad-4df3-a4a9-9769f015c641">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh, aprovencher is annoying me with her writing over and resumbmitting every call out. Even those that don't specifically relate to her.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
She annoys me, period. The first post I remember of hers was titled something like "embarrasing sex stories." I love you all, but I don't want to know any specifics of your sex life. It was not a good first impression, and that's just what I think of every time I see her.

alixzafiris

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:ba334985-5636-4aab-8cde-dd92fc850989">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE] get over yourselves, you're not as popular as you think.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

Pshaaw. Speak for yourself ;)

But I agree. And I think it's so dumb that people [read: heels & co] get all up in arms about the callouts as soon as it's about them but the rest of the time it's all "if they stopped paying attention to it, it'd go away" or "who cares what some nobody who won't give their identity thinks about you?"

salt78

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:07535e24-37ce-481f-9b53-ab244684e4f5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Jinx. I rolled my eyes pretty hard when aprovencher wrote over the one that was clearly directed at Missy.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

<div>I just thought that was weird. </div>

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:127ab021-24aa-4807-b0f9-faafa93ef490">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Has that happened?  I don't think it has at all.  I get the impression that the consensus is that it's not OK for anyone to be called out on that stupid site (although I fully confess to looking at it).  But I do think that if someone admits that a call-out hurt their feelings, a lot of people are going to chime in about how that person's call-outs are disgusting.  For the people who've ignored them, answered back, or made a joke out of them, I just think people don't need to let the called-out person know "hey, it's disgusting that someone said that."  So they don't.  But I wouldn't read that as anyone saying it;s okay for the call-out to have been made in the first place. Man, that was convoluted. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
I'm talking about this:
<a href="http://kpscallout.tumblr.com/post/1020137431" rel="nofollow">http://kpscallout.tumblr.com/post/1020137431</a>
and I've also seen other posts that stick up for heels. just seems like overkill to me.

Bubbalub

OWN, here's the link to the "disgusting" call out:
http://kpscallout.tumblr.com/post/1020137431

I just don't care enough. I agree with PPs about the constant responding to the call outs. Seriously, do you know these people in real life? No, then just take it with a grain of salt that they are a farking moron and let it go.

Of course, that is coming from someone who probably would be hurt a bit by a call out as well. But I would try really hard to just let it go, as much as I enjoy a good "debate" (argument).

temerityjane

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:07535e24-37ce-481f-9b53-ab244684e4f5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Jinx. I rolled my eyes pretty hard when aprovencher wrote over the one that was clearly directed at Missy.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

I don't mean just aprovencher, though she is by far the most ridiculous, especially with her replies saying "I DON'T CARE" and "YOU LOSE"

Uh, when I don't care about things, I don't do a furious google image search, download the image, go to picnik, put words on the image, download and save the new image, then email the image to a call out site.

Just saying.

But everyone. I know that catches a lot of people in it - Belle whatever demanding to know who wrote one about her (I have no idea who she is, but looked at her magnifying glass - she posts on like, 80 boards. Why only ask on E), Jill, everyone who has made a post about how "apparently someone said this about me!" Everyone.

We all read the call out site. No one is lending it any credence. Stop making it a THING.

laladypoet

and for the record, I did think that the heels call-outs were incredibly mean-spirited. but the more she over-reacted to them, the worse they got. she should've ignored the situation and I have a feeling they would've died off and she wouldn't have left.

ohwhynot

Oh, lala and bubbalub:  I didn't see that.  Well, I saw it but I didn't make the connection to your post, Lala.  My bad.

salt78

I wish I had a large group of people following me around to defend my honor all the time. Life would be so much easier.

alixzafiris

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:ad0f538e-5f79-420b-bfb0-03230339b81a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]re: The callout site. I've found the responses to the call outs to be even more ridiculous than the call outs themselves. The back and forth between people, oh my god. If someone says something about you, do you really need to make your point back with a picture with text on it? Do you really need to make a point back at all?
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

See now I think this is a bit ridiculous, personally. Having been in the position where I could do this, I decided sure, I'll show this moron that calling me ugly is about the same as calling me unintelligent. I'm just going to laugh at it. I mean, really?<em> (I totally don't mean this in a vain way but come on. It's like telling Fische she's not compassionate or Lala that she sucks at one-liners or TheSun that she's not fuucking gorgeous, kwim?)</em>

It's a typical human response. When you're slandered against, you're going to be like "Uh, wtf?" and then want to respond.

That being said, I do think the dozens of back and forths between Aprov and ... whoever... are getting old. Fast.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:4d753616-d459-4777-b9ac-edbbc23ab6db">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I don't mean just aprovencher, though she is by far the most ridiculous, especially with her replies saying "I DON'T CARE" and "YOU LOSE" Uh, when I don't care about things, I don't do a furious google image search, download the image, go to picnik, put words on the image, download and save the new image, then email the image to a call out site. Just saying. <strong>But everyone. I know that catches a lot of people in it - Belle whatever demanding to know who wrote one about her (I have no idea who she is, but looked at her magnifying glass - she posts on like, 80 boards. Why only ask on E), Jill, everyone who has made a post about how "apparently someone said this about me!" Everyone. We all read the call out site. No one is lending it any credence. Stop making it a THING.</strong>
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

AGREED.

I barely know who that Belle chick is. But hey, I guess she's "heard" about us over on SB and assumes we hate her?

kikibaby

I have nothing specific today.  You're all a bunch of dirty pirate hookers.  GBCK.

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:b89dac26-c8ca-4569-8ffd-4a66847b43f6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh, lala and bubbalub:  I didn't see that.  Well, I saw it but I didn't make the connection to your post, Lala.  My bad.
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
 CHECK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WRECK YOURSELF!
::z snaps::

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:b63e560f-07cb-4225-8710-c580f703304e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I wish I had a large group of people following me around to defend my honor all the time. Life would be so much easier.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
AND a theme song. that'd be the tits.

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:2e1efb60-97e4-4e34-960b-73021bcf11c0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : AGREED. I barely know who that Belle chick is. But hey, I guess she's "heard" about us over on SB and assumes we hate her?
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Wait, Belle made a post on E wanting to know who made the secret about her? If so, I'm going to need a link, or a thread title.

ohwhynot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:13283993-f593-40cd-8169-58211020cf7f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF :  CHECK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WRECK YOURSELF! ::z snaps::
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

That would have had more credence coming from the un-be-weave-able lady. 

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Who are you, LC, Lala? It's called "I want to know..."

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_want-13

WHO'S TALKING CRAP ABOUT ME OMG!

temerityjane

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:2246c17e-8c49-4bb1-9e0e-dd525e69e4bd">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Wait, Belle made a post on E wanting to know who made the secret about her? If so, I'm going to need a link, or a thread title.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_want-13" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_want-13</a>

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:2246c17e-8c49-4bb1-9e0e-dd525e69e4bd">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Wait, Belle made a post on E wanting to know who made the secret about her? If so, I'm going to need a link, or a thread title.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]
same here.
also, I will need a reminder of who the hell belle is.

ricksang

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:84d9cf7b-0328-4482-bbae-576547ae6433">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That call out was really weird. I noticed a few times that she would criticize people for being... well, like how she used to be. As though she expected everyone else to "grow up" because she was ready to, or something. I loved your response of, "you may have changed, but I haven't changed at all." And you know what? If she's at a point in her life where she's over the boards and doesn't want to associate with most people here, that's totally fine. Even though her board expectations were completely unfounded.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

HUH?How exactly AM I? I criticized a couple of people on SB for calling others names when referring to politics. That is it. I usually don't criticize people.  I am constantly on TK when I am not at school.  I also never said I was grown up (I laughed for about 5 mins last night b/c someone said Duty), nor did I ever say I didn't want to associate with the boards. What expectations do I have? Please enlighten me because I would like to know what I want.

Lala you said that 90% of the Tea Party was racist, of course I am going to take offense. I can't decipher what you mean. I can only read words that you type on a message board .If you didn't mean it that way, then okay!  BUT, I am over it. I haven't mentioned it in quite a while. I didn't realize it was still preplxing you.

 
I love how people say I have changed just because I get bitchy sometimes. I might be a really nice person but I can be bitchy sometimes too, or is that not allowed?

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:fbb1a2df-5217-4898-8b50-f8e8dacff341">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That would have had more credence coming from the un-be-weave-able lady. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
come get you some free hot water.

JessAndTrav

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:aac78ad4-274a-4a9c-85b3-1c64099675f3">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I have nothing specific today.  You're all a bunch of dirty pirate hookers.  GBCK.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

OMG, KIKI. Stop making everything about you. :)

laurenclaire1386

Thank you Mery and TJ. Belle must have been wearing her crazy pants that day.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:b9c2a12c-ed73-44f0-b514-0831da424e3a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : HUH?How exactly AM I? I criticized a couple of people on SB for calling others names when referring to politics. That is it. I usually don't criticize people.  I am constantly on TK when I am not at school.  I also never said I was grown up (I laughed for about 5 mins last night b/c someone said Duty), nor did I ever say I didn't want to associate with the boards. What expectations do I have? Please enlighten me because I would like to know what I want.
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]

I was talking about Heels. I have nothing bad to say about you at all. (And I don't even think what I said about Heels was bad.)

kikibaby

Sorry Jess, INEEDSOMELOVEANDATTENTIONBECAUSEIFEELINSECUREDUETOMYADULTBRACES!

laladypoet

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:b9c2a12c-ed73-44f0-b514-0831da424e3a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Lala you said that 90% of the Tea Party was racist, of course I am going to take offense. I can't decipher what you mean. I can only read words that you type on a message board .If you didn't mean it that way, then okay!  BUT, I am over it. I haven't mentioned it in quite a while. I didn't realize it was still preplxing you.   I love how people say I have changed just because I get bitchy sometimes. I might be a really nice person but I can be bitchy sometimes too, or is that not allowed?
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]
well, you know, I made a support group and they said that the only way for me to get over it is to confront the issue, so hopefully I can move on. ;)
also, yeah, I made an overgeneralization. or is that not allowed?

salt78

Ricks' sig picture makes me smile.

MVJP10

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:0ff8d6fc-adad-4df3-a4a9-9769f015c641">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh, aprovencher is annoying me with her writing over and resumbmitting every call out. Even those that don't specifically relate to her.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

This and I like sparklies as much as the next girl but all the AWing of her swarovski jewelry and custom made headpieces and blue champagne is over the top!