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salt78

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[QUOTE]SALT, ::sob:: PLEASSSSSSSEEEEEEE ::hiccup::: DON'T GOOOOOOOOO!! I'll jump off a building, I swear I will!!
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm sorry. But don't worry...I will post all my pertinent contact information here so that you may find me/steal my identity/sign me up for porn emails. </div>

Celles

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Would photoshop be okay? I'm sophisticated, you know.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Only if it isn't funny.  I don't I can handle sophisticated <em>and</em> funny from you at the same time. 

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]I'm not sure if Nebb has always been that way and we just notice it because she isn't around to shoot the shiit and talk about cool stuff anymore, or if she really just got more biitchy.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
I really, honestly don't think she's changed. she's moved to another board that she likes better, that's all.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

What TJ said. ^

I like Heels. I do. I also do think she toned it down a lot in the last few months. Despite her proven and unproved AEs, I don't think she'd been using them in the past few months or creating new ones. So I believe her that KPS or something changed the way she wanted to relate to people on the boards. That doesn't mean anyone else changed, at all, and apparently she was upset about that.

If you have to leave, leave, but I do think a lot of the persecution was in her head. She "left" E and became a frequent, well-liked poster over on SB. Which is good enough for a lot of people who became discouraged and upset over here.

Specifically, I think the exact way she GBCKed was a bit over the top. That's all.

FutureMrsTR

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[QUOTE]TJ, you're ruling FFF today. Tiara or sash? (I'd pick the tiara) More sparkles.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

Damnit, Georgia, you can't say "sparkles" in an FFF thread!  You know what will happen!

Celles

... I don't think I can handle ...


(I will sell souls for a working edit button.)

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Let's start using Nebb as both a noun and a verb. Please.

laladypoet

also, here's something that I remember from a couple weeks ago--ricks hinted at something like "lala doesn't like the tea party, she sucks."
and I think that's just crap. I'm not the only one who doesn't like the tea party.
I guess it's just annoying that I didn't even know she had a problem with me, so it was kind of surprising.

salt78

Here you go. 

temerityjane

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I really, honestly don't think she's changed. she's moved to another board that she likes better, that's all.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I don't think it's a matter of it being a board she likes better, but a matter of having a back up. I don't think she's changed, but I think she's more comfortable acting like a whack job because if people on E got pissed at her, she's comfortable knowing she has OTHER friends. Like those chicks who won't break up with a dude until they're sure they have someone else waiting in the wings.

To be fair, that's not just true of Nebb. A couple of people who spend most of their time on SB have acted the same way, I think. As long as they get to be in the "in crowd" somewhere, they don't care about burning bridges.

alixzafiris

Did someone mention Twi-I-mean-beatlejuice?

Kidding, kidding.

I flame Fischeh. Because she's never been flamed before and it's like, an initiation. So eat my flames you hoor.

There.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]But I also think that Heels was very convinced about how much other people dislike her, how much "E" was thinking about her, and how much thought people as a whole were dedicating to her. I think she blew every little thing out of proportion, which made her an attractive target for what is likely just one or two dedicated assholes. I think that a lot of people have had a lot worse said about them, and I think that Heels has said a lot worse herself. Neither of those things require that Heels not care about what was said about her, but they DO make Heels look ridiculous.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]


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not only that, but it annoyed me that her attitude seemed to be, "Well, *I* changed and became a nicer person, so the world should change with me. and don't touch me, or you'll turn into solid gold."

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]also, here's something that I remember from a couple weeks ago--ricks hinted at something like "lala doesn't like the tea party, she sucks." and I think that's just crap. I'm not the only one who doesn't like the tea party. <strong>I guess it's just annoying that I didn't even know she had a problem with me, so it was kind of surprising.</strong>
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

That call out was really weird. I noticed a few times that she would criticize people for being... well, like how she used to be. As though she expected everyone else to "grow up" because she was ready to, or something. I loved your response of, "you may have changed, but I haven't changed at all." And you know what? If she's at a point in her life where she's over the boards and doesn't want to associate with most people here, that's totally fine. Even though her board expectations were completely unfounded.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE] I think she's more comfortable acting like a whack job
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]
I guess I just don't think she's acting like a whack job.

AmoroAgain

I think you're just too nice OWN.

Celles

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[QUOTE]Here you go. 
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Salt, you are all kinds of win.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That call out was really weird. I noticed a few times that she would criticize people for being... well, like how she used to be. As though she expected everyone else to "grow up" because she was ready to, or something. I loved your response of, "you may have changed, but I haven't changed at all." And you know what? If she's at a point in her life where she's over the boards and doesn't want to associate with most people here, that's totally fine. Even though her board expectations were completely unfounded.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
do you mean ricks? or heels? I hadn't noticed ricks saying anything about how she's "grown up." but then again, I'm not nearly as observant as most people.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : do you mean ricks? or heels? I hadn't noticed ricks saying anything about how she's "grown up." but then again, I'm not nearly as observant as most people.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I mean Heels. When she yelled at you for being insensitive to depressed people or something. Which happened a year ago and she's been bottling it up? It was odd.

AmoroAgain

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[QUOTE]Look, I don't think Heels was wrong for leaving. The way she did it was WAY AW though. And I don't think Heels was "wrong" for having her feelings hurt by what was said about her. But I also think that Heels was very convinced about how much other people dislike her, how much "E" was thinking about her, and how much thought people as a whole were dedicating to her. I think she blew every little thing out of proportion, which made her an attractive target for what is likely just one or two dedicated assholes. I think that a lot of people have had a lot worse said about them, and I think that Heels has said a lot worse herself. Neither of those things require that Heels not care about what was said about her, but they DO make Heels look ridiculous. I think she painted a portrait of herself as the ever-persecuted Heels, and in that way, continued to bring stuff down on herself long after no one else really gave a shiit. She was such a Nebb about the whole thing.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

You explain it oh so well.

laladypoet

and in general, here's something that's been annoying: these call-outs, and kps thingies, that go back and forth in an "I KNOW WHO YOU ARE, YOU JUST PROVED IT" type of way? annoy the shiit out of me. it's like people think they're so special that only a few tiny people dislike them, so anything negative said MUST be from them. when in reality, there's such things as lurkers and people who are nice to you but don't like you, and all that. get over yourselves, you're not as popular as you think. for every person that likes me, I bet there's two that think I suck balls. it's the internet.

heels did that a lot and it bugged. especially since she and I and some others were blamed for the elizabeth taylor bio a looooong time ago, which we had nothing to do with. so she should know how annoying it is.

and finally, when did heels become "untouchable" in call-outs? it's "disgusting" to call her out, but ok for others to be called out? when exactly did she walk on water?

georgia_bride09

I don't think Nebb is a whack job. I just wonder why she ALLEGEDLY hates E, but shows up once a week and then is shocked when she's not fawned over, or even noticed much. That's kind of like sticking your hand in a hornet's nest. You know what'll happen but you stick it in anyway.

andy71781

I was quite suprised at Heels leaving.  It seemed almost impulsive to me.  She must have spent a great deal of time on this to just decide one day to leave because of something somebody posted on a different site?  That seems odd to me.  I think there was something else going on and I don't think she's totally gone. 

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I mean Heels. When she yelled at you for being insensitive to depressed people or something. Which happened a year ago and she's been bottling it up? It was odd.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
yeah, that was weak. I don't even remember what she's talking about, but I know I've said similar things that she's laughed at in the past.

vallyhoo

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[QUOTE] for every person that likes me, I bet there's two that think I  suck <strong>neon</strong> balls. it's the internet.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

fixed it for you.

temerityjane

re: The callout site.

I've found the responses to the call outs to be even more ridiculous than the call outs themselves. The back and forth between people, oh my god. If someone says something about you, do you really need to make your point back with a picture with text on it?

Do you really need to make a point back at all?

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]I don't think Nebb is a whack job. I just wonder why she ALLEGEDLY hates E, but shows up once a week and then is shocked when she's not fawned over, or even noticed much. That's kind of like sticking your hand in a hornet's nest. You know what'll happen but you stick it in anyway.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]
but did she ever say she "hates" E?
I remember once, I went and posted on SB and someone asked me why I was posting there since I "hate" them. which I never said in the least. I was just being grouped in with E in general.
just want to make sure the same isn't happening to her.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : fixed it for you.
Posted by vallyhoo[/QUOTE]
you're my lucky penny.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Oh, aprovencher is annoying me with her writing over and resumbmitting every call out. Even those that don't specifically relate to her.

ohwhynot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-42?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:08c0a309-7e01-476a-90bd-ea2d4015a52dPost:ba334985-5636-4aab-8cde-dd92fc850989">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]and in general, here's something that's been annoying: these call-outs, and kps thingies, that go back and forth in an "I KNOW WHO YOU ARE, YOU JUST PROVED IT" type of way? annoy the shiit out of me. it's like people think they're so special that only a few tiny people dislike them, so anything negative said MUST be from them. when in reality, there's such things as lurkers and people who are nice to you but don't like you, and all that. get over yourselves, you're not as popular as you think. for every person that likes me, I bet there's two that think I suck balls. it's the internet. heels did that a lot and it bugged. especially since she and I and some others were blamed for the elizabeth taylor bio a looooong time ago, which we had nothing to do with. so she should know how annoying it is. <strong>and finally, when did heels become "untouchable" in call-outs? it's "disgusting" to call her out, but ok for others to be called out?</strong> when exactly did she walk on water?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

Has that happened?  I don't think it has at all.  I get the impression that the consensus is that it's not OK for anyone to be called out on that stupid site (although I fully confess to looking at it).  But I do think that if someone admits that a call-out hurt their feelings, a lot of people are going to chime in about how that person's call-outs are disgusting. 

For the people who've ignored them, answered back, or made a joke out of them, I just think people don't need to let the called-out person know "hey, it's disgusting that someone said that."  So they don't.  But I wouldn't read that as anyone saying it;s okay for the call-out to have been made in the first place.

Man, that was convoluted. 

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]Oh, aprovencher is annoying me with her writing over and resumbmitting every call out. Even those that don't specifically relate to her.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
YES. NESTTHIS.