KPP's?

kikibaby

I vowed for awhile not to participate in FFF, and I'm mad at myself for getting back into it recently.  I was actually just thinking this morning that I didn't want to do it anymore.

Moneypenny424

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPP's? : I'm pretty sure that's a reg under another SN, no?
Posted by Brie2010[/QUOTE]

Ooopsie!  Yep, that's me.  I was signed in under the real name last night to pull up my wedding checklist for a friend :). 

Trifury2007

(no graphic)

I worry that this marriage will end for the same reasons my first did.  I know it is irrational and H and I talk about it but I still worry.

temerityjane

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[QUOTE]I vowed for awhile not to participate in FFF, and I'm mad at myself for getting back into it recently.  I was actually just thinking this morning that I didn't want to do it anymore.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

Word. I get so mad at myself when I do participate.

mwhitson14

I'll own up to one I submitted but didn't see posted:

crfische

MP! I knew that name was familiar.

And YES, that makes sense coming from you.

FutureMrsFezz

Mine:

http://theknotpostsecret.tumblr.com/post/731808139

Le sigh.

crfische

Whit! Your lawn guy looks like Miguel from Passions? THATS AWESOME.

Fezz. That's sad, homeslice.

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPP's? : Oh gosh, I hate, hate, hate, hate my nose with passion. I hate my facial profile. I already have lines in places I should not have. It's depressing.
Posted by Champagne Supernova[/QUOTE]

I knew a girl in high school who felt that she'd only be pretty if she "fixed" her crooked nose.  She got a nose job when we were sixteen.  And she was pretty afterward, but she really looked almost too perfect, almost Barbie-like.  Sometimes our "flaws" are really what make us unique, as cliche as that sounds.

vallyhoo

this was off to a slow start but great idea Fische!

kikibaby

That's so sad, Fezz

FutureMrsFezz

Fishy- Yeah, I get more mad than anything.  I'm actually sad and frustrated for my poor Mom.  Meh

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]Baystate, your secret is mine, except with singing.  I love to sing and I've been in choirs my entire life, but I'm afraid to sing in front of people in the car or at karaoke because I don't want to be told that I actually really suck.
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

YES.  I totally feel the same way.  I sang in choir for years but I was always too terrified to get up and sing by myself.  One time a friend made me do karaoke.  I was scared out of my mind, but I had a blast and I got a lot of compliments!  Go to a bar with a bunch of friends and sing with them at first, then just go for it.  It's a lot of fun. 

Brie2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPP's? : Word. I get so mad at myself when I do participate.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I mean, partially I don't want to be flamed, but also, I just never feel good after I participate.  I flamed Matt's Penguin a few weeks ago for copying my blog, and even though my feelings are true and valid and whatnot, I still feel bad about it because I'm sure she wasn't malicious about it.  It just bugged me.  I usually just stay out of it.

mandapanda78

Crap, I can't get the graphics to work for me on my work laptop, but I'd love to confess that I'm still mad at one of my husband's uncles for borrowing money from my husband at the wedding and never paying it back. 

His wife was also the one who kept threatening to open all of my wedding presents to deprive me of the pleasure since my husband opened one of her presents at her wedding when he was three. 

And, separate but related, I really want to know what his grandparent's beef with him is. They're profoundly passive aggressive towards us and it makes H feel horrible. 

georgia_bride09

I can't see the graphic for Fishy's and thus it is still a secret to me.

I've got one, and I'll probably be accused of kicking a dead horse, but whatevs.

I PPH the new E. I think SB is super puppies and rainbows and cliquey and huggy and kissy, and I only miss one or two exclusive SBers. 

I also like FFF, but definitely think the every other week format is better than the every single week format.

I also think all the KPS's about board drama are stupid. E is either accused of being boring as hell or Drama City. Damned if we do, damned if we don't.

Huh. I guess I had three. And none about my personal life.  

vallyhoo

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[QUOTE] I PPH the new E. I think SB is super puppies and rainbows and cliquey and huggy and kissy, and<strong> I only miss one or two exclusive SBers</strong>.  I also like FFF, but definitely think the every other week format is better than the every single week format. I also think all the KPS's about board drama are stupid. E is either accused of being boring as hell or Drama City. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. Huh. I guess I had three. And none about my personal life.  
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

georgia_hoo back in full effect.

georgia_bride09

All you KPS linkers, I can't see. Please describe said secret, or someone else can. I'm not picky.

mwhitson14

FISCHEY. That's Jesse Metcalfe from Desperate Housewives!

But yes. He's hot. And he owns his own business. He does the hotel lawns and he does ours cheap.

MattsPenguin

Glad to know everyone's feelings about FFF.  I don't like to participate (and admire those who don't get involved), but if I do I end up feeling really bad afterwards.  Nothing good ever comes of my participation in FFF.

Why does E do it again?

MattsPenguin

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[QUOTE]All you KPS linkers, I can't see. Please describe said secret, or someone else can. I'm not picky.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

Ditto.

georgia_bride09

georgia_hoo.v2.

temerityjane

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[QUOTE]Glad to know everyone's feelings about FFF.  I don't like to participate (and admire those who don't get involved), but if I do I end up feeling really bad afterwards.  Nothing good ever comes of my participation in FFF. Why does E do it again?
Posted by MattsPenguin[/QUOTE]

Because E likes to put on their big bad biitch pants, but likes to have a "safe" zone to do it, like we're playing freeze tag and FFF is base and you don't have to take full adult responsibility for your words because if someone defends themselves, you have the trump card of saying "YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG." So people use FFF to reiterate their brilliant thoughts about something that happened and was beat to death earlier in the week, or whip out some blindsiding crap about someone that they've been harboring without a peep until it was "safe" to say it.

kikibaby

georgia- I think I agree with your feelings, but what is PPH? 

MissLeahM

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[QUOTE]Fishy- Yeah, I get more mad than anything.  I'm actually sad and frustrated for my poor Mom.  Meh
Posted by FutureMrsFezz[/QUOTE]

My family is actually in that situation at the moment.. I have really important family members missing my wedding, but its for the best. C'est la vie

Onward and upward...

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crfische

akhensley81

MP, I'm with you. I always lurk on the entire FFF thread and I always want to participate... but when I do, I either a) get the shiit flamed back out of me and I back off, or b) I get totally guilty and sulk about how lame I am.

georgia_bride09

Tee hee, whittlz. He's also Miguel on Passions. Or was, I should say.

arbolita

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[QUOTE]Glad to know everyone's feelings about FFF.  I don't like to participate (and admire those who don't get involved), but if I do I end up feeling really bad afterwards.  Nothing good ever comes of my participation in FFF. Why does E do it again?
Posted by MattsPenguin[/QUOTE]


Because many people are too chickenshit to tell others what they think of them at the time of a post, so they decide to "save it" for FFF because it's more acceptable when it's posted there.

temerityjane

Arbolita said it in tinier words than me.