Deleted thread?

alixzafiris

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[QUOTE]I don't like harry potter. Rpatz was in it?! No wonder you're obsessed wtih twilight.  He's a day younger than me.  Did you know that?
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

In fact... I did know that. But I'm a creepy obsessive stalker.

laurenclaire1386

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Agreed. I'm feeling this mentality on both "sides," and it gets pretty black and white in here real quick. Also, I think a GBCK is clearly in the eye of the beholder. If someone says they're leaving, then everyone else tacks 5<strong>+ pages onto it to say goodbye, how is that the original person's huge dramatic creation?</strong> I think GBCKing in general is looked down on as overly dramatic, <strong>so it's a no-win no matter how you do it.</strong>
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]
If you've been on these boards for a length of time, you know what kind of reaction you'll get by saying you're leaving. From people who like you and people who don't. You can't not know what kind of reaction starting a thread like that will get. I don't buy it.

No, it's not. Just leave. And then no one talks about it.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]FFS Dani, get your panties out of a twist.  No one reported it; KA deleted it.  Talk it up with her.  And from my understanding, at least one of the two mods was in that thread, so big shock no one emailed/PMed you to tell you about it.  Don't play dumb.  <strong>And don't bother going on an E witchhunt for whoever told KA; you would never guess who did it.</strong> Georgia, here's a newsflash for you.  Don't you suppose if I wanted to keep it a big secret, I wouldn't have chosen a SN that has to do with tax, made a post about bridesmaidzilla, or referred to my husband by his real name? Try hard much? I'm incredibly flattered that you all care so much though.  ::blows a kiss::
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]
this whole censorship thing is getting out of hand. wtf. I get deleting a thread because someone's personal info is in there, or because there are threats. but deleting a thread just because someone doesn't like what it says is super lame. way to be lame, KA.

mandysmear

Alix, only 21 more books in 2010!  You so got this! 

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]The last time I rolled my eyes so hard at a thread it was useless banter between P2 and Heels . . . . it was so annoying then and really made the knot - NOT fun.  Now it's round 2 with Amoro and "marriedfilingjointly" and it's making the knot - NOT fun.  There's only one common denominator in this equation.  Just sayin.  I'll see you lovely ladies in a few days when this bullsh*t dies down again........it's such wasted drama and the boards were getting along just fine when the (CALL OUT SITE) yes, I said it, was deleted.  Until now.  That was a great week.    I'll be on facebook. 
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

Is this a GBCK?

Stackeye210

Does it look like a GBCK?  I'll be back in a few days when people stop talking about Heels.  I think it's stupid and a waste of reading time.  I could care less who is where.

marriedfilingjointly

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : And then you came back, with a different SN saying, "My SN was deleted at my request.  Here's my email for those who want to stay in touch. Peace out." But.  Then you came back.  Which is just stupid.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]


So what?  Why do you care if people wanted to keep in touch with me?

and the different SN was the first SN I made before I even knew what the boards were.  The join date on it is like September 07, about a week after I got engaged.  It's not like I made a new SN to say goodbye.  I don't understand what your problem is. 

Celles

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Agreed. I'm feeling this mentality on both "sides," and it gets pretty black and white in here real quick.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

I think the boardwar has become a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

squirrly

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : No I didn't.  <strong>Go back and look at it.</strong>  I started a thread to encourage others to report the KPS callout site.  Squirrly, see above. 
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

Tough to do.  Since posts have been edited/removed in that thread.  What you see isn't what was originally written.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : I only care in so much as I care about anything dramatic around here.  We're here for entertainment so when someone makes a HUGE deal about leaving the Knot and everyone begs them to stay, etc etc and then that someone comes back immediately with a new SN and gives out their e-mail, and then comes back again with a different SN and only PMs people with her real identity, I mean come on, the whole thing is ridiculous.  Of course it's going to be talked about!  For the same reasons we talk about everything that goes on around these boards, it's entertainment, it's drama, it's something to talk about.  You know that Heels, you've been around long enough to know why this would be talked about.  If it was me or Mandy or some other long term reg that did what you did, you guys would all be talking about it too.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]
don't mind me, dani, I'm just humping your leg. it's best to just let me finish.

alixzafiris

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[QUOTE]Alix, only 21 more books in 2010!  You so got this! 
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

I need to update it! I only need fourteen more (and seven of those will be Harry Potter re-reads!).

#I'mmachamp

AmoroAgain

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Your "what happened Friday" thread was hardly ignoring me.  Nice try though. And I didn't say you "fight with" me every day. 
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

You just keep reading what you want to. 

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : If you've been on these boards for a length of time, you know what kind of reaction you'll get by saying you're leaving. From people who like you and people who don't. You can't not know what kind of reaction starting a thread like that will get. I don't buy it. No, it's not. Just leave. <strong>And then no one talks about it.</strong>
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

Not necessarily. I've seen TJ's supposed GBCK mentioned often in the past week, and when bbycakes stopped posting she got talked about A LOT here for quite awhile after, and people were looking for her on other boards and posting links where she'd been spotted. People couldn't stop wondering if she was really gone or not.

So yeah, the best way for some to try to avoid a negative reaction is to just disappear. But some can't avoid it. And if you want to keep in touch with people you don't know on FB, then giving people a heads up makes sense.

georgia_bride09

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : I think the boardwar has become a self-fulfilling prophecy. 
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

Just like Trelawney's prophecy about Voldemort and Harry/Neville...

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]Does it look like a GBCK?  I'll be back in a few days when people stop talking about Heels.  I think it's stupid and a waste of reading time.  I could care less who is where.
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

Hon, calm down. This aint worth all that. Don't let all this get to you. EVERYONE can see how lame it is, but it shouldn't ruin the rest of the conversations.

AmoroAgain

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : So what?  Why do you care if people wanted to keep in touch with me? and the different SN was the first SN I made before I even knew what the boards were.  The join date on it is like September 07, about a week after I got engaged.  It's not like I made a new SN to say goodbye.  I don't understand what your problem is. 
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]
I didn't say you made a new SN to leave, but if you were trying to leave quietly, as you claim, well then, coming back to hand out your email address isn't exactly a quiet way to go. 

mandysmear

well leave it to stacks to be dramatic.    (kidding)

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Not necessarily. I've seen TJ's supposed GBCK mentioned often in the past week, and when bbycakes stopped posting she got talked about A LOT here for quite awhile after, and people were looking for her on other boards and posting links where she'd been spotted. People couldn't stop wondering if she was really gone or not. So yeah, the best way for some to try to avoid a negative reaction is to just disappear. But some can't avoid it. And if you want to keep in touch with people you don't know on FB, then giving people a heads up makes sense.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

Lets see:
Bbycakes=asshat=lots of drama and discussion

TJ=some thinks awesome, some think not-asshat=general..w.here did she go? end of story.

BIG difference.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]Does it look like a GBCK?  I'll be back in a few days when people stop talking about Heels.  I think it's stupid and a waste of reading time.  I could care less who is where.
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

I was trying to make a joke given the thread topic. Apparent fail.

And I hope that's not true, Celles.

mandysmear

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : don't mind me, dani, I'm just humping your leg. it's best to just let me finish.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

oh my god.  lala.  i love you.

Stackeye210

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:b70b96e4-f258-42ba-b252-56ff68b2e24d">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Hon, calm down. This aint worth all that. Don't let all this get to you. EVERYONE can see how lame it is, but it shouldn't ruin the rest of the conversations.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

I heart you.  I just hate when I read a post and then my teeth start clinching and my head starts hurting.  This is only the second time during my knot existence. 

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:97398f17-5ce0-49f2-9b3e-311a196bad4b">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Lets see: Bbycakes=asshat=lots of drama and discussion TJ=some thinks awesome, some think not-asshat=general..w.here did she go? end of story. BIG difference.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
Yeah. That's what I've been trying to organize into a coherent thought. Thanks.

Stackeye210

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:a7935601-3df2-481a-8a43-dab5f1a0aed0">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : I was trying to make a joke given the thread topic. Apparent fail. And I hope that's not true, Celles.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]


I'm sorry.  I was being stabby.  My apologies.  However, looking at it in joke form is pretty hilarious!  :) 

mandysmear

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:390e172f-5d92-457a-869a-c988aa514913">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : this whole censorship thing is getting out of hand. wtf. I get deleting a thread because someone's personal info is in there, or because there are threats. but deleting a thread just because someone doesn't like what it says is super lame. <strong>way to be lame, KA.</strong>
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

what else is new?  unless you're up her ass you don't mean shiit.  the favourtism is a little ridiculous actually.

mandapanda78

It took at least a week for TJ's disappearance to come up in discussion. Even for those of us who realized she'd gone and probably wasn't coming back. 

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : I heart you.  I just hate when I read a post and then my teeth start clinching and my head starts hurting.  This is only the second time during my knot existence. 
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

I heart you too. That's why I think you need to stick around. :D

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:97398f17-5ce0-49f2-9b3e-311a196bad4b">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : Lets see: Bbycakes=asshat=lots of drama and discussion TJ=some thinks awesome, some think not-asshat=general..w.here did she go? end of story. BIG difference.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

But that's what I'm saying. It's still talked about regardless. That's the point I was trying to make. There's no quiet way to disappear from this place.

AmoroAgain

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:b5593b01-6c18-4b42-9f88-e0c66107f773">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : But that's what I'm saying. It's still talked about regardless. That's the point I was trying to make. There's no quiet way to disappear from this place.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]
There is loudn and quieter.  Guess which one most people do?

louisvillebride21

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_deleted-thread?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:16831542-a159-4363-9af7-2761289f067bPost:39b325e5-ec51-4f39-8a64-ee4b877d9db4">Re: Deleted thread?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Deleted thread? : There is loudn and quieter.  Guess which one most people do?
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

Except for the 'loudn' part, exactly ;)

georgia_bride09

This thread is only the 2nd time I've heard of TJ's departure. You know who I miss? Moose. Where the eff is that chick?

You know somebody who was cool way back in the day? a_schaal. I wonder what she's up to.