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RachNRich

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Sounds a lot like what jessjo said not long ago... just sayin'.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

I'd be lying if I said that wasn't the first name the popped into my head.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]~psichick recently posted something in a dead thread that was actually mature and succinct and I agreed with it.  Not a flame, but since I've had at it with her a few times, it was surprising.
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

Sucrets, I saw a couple of her other posts on other boards and most of them seemed, like, normal and shiit. Like she was all helpful and non-douchey. I was confused. Then I wondered if she just acts like an buttface on E to get a rise out of people.

This is my first flame, but here goes: For some reason, terbear bugs me. I can't remember the exact posts, but the way she comes off just doesn't sit right with me. It started when she had two (!) different posts bragging about how much she busted her FI to his guy friends on NYE about his embarrassing grooming habits at home. I just thought that wasn't cool.

tlv204

Damnit damnit damnit~!!!!!!!!!! guys. I'm finally off work on a Friday, and I forgot that you weirdos have started doing FFF in the mornings for some reason, and I actually went to work out and missed it AGAIN. I don't think I've been present for a FFF since August

And now I can't even think of any flames. Boo.

buddhagouda

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[QUOTE]Kiki likes to start shiit and will swear up and down that's not what she meant.  Just because you put "just sayin'" at the end of a sentence doesn't make it better. 
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Let's try it. I HATE fishy and east with seven violently burning passions, just sayin'. 

</div>

JK10910

But it DOES sound like what JessJo was saying.  Not that I agree, or disagree.  But it's true that that's what JessJo was saying.  I don't really see how that is trying to start shiit.

kkchisholm

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Sounds a lot like what jessjo said not long ago... just sayin'.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

I was thinking that too.

agk0125

I haven't been around enough to have any flames, so I'm just going to pop in to say Hi.

Holla!

bbyckes

J&K, it happens a lot.  Like in the Festivus thread before Christmas.  Everyone was listing their non-TK related grievances and then Kiki chimes in with something along the lines of, "awww, I thought we were going to be about TK"  Nebb called her out for it and she retreated.  I also think the ricks comment is evidence of that too (although this has been hashed out to death).

Kati0105

 seven violently burning passions

You should probably get that checked out.  Just sayin'

kate51485

I don't think the 'just sayin' is any worse or more passive aggressive than some of the stuff bby says. 

kikibaby

I'm not accusing Jessjo, her name just came into my head when I first read it.  She's the only person I know of who has ever talked smack about Rach's FI.  And, she said pretty much the exact same thing backwards Fish did.

RachNRich

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[QUOTE] seven violently burning passions You should probably get that checked out.  Just sayin'
Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]

DED!

bbyckes

I also think jessjo would have just pm'd the hell outta everyone and not discussed it openly in the thread.

bbyckes

I wish we could retire the phrase passive aggressive on this board.  It's entirely overused.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]I'm not accusing Jessjo, her name just came into my head when I first read it.  She's the only person I know of who has ever talked smack about Rach's FI.  And, she said pretty much the exact same thing backwards Fish did.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

Actually a LOT of people were concerned about Rach's relationship when she posted last week or whenever. Then she came back with a follow up and we were all assured, mostly. But Jessjo was the one who was the most passionate about Rich's doucheyness.

RachNRich

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[QUOTE]Kiki likes to start shiit and will swear up and down that's not what she meant.  Just because you put "just sayin'" at the end of a sentence doesn't make it better. 
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]

I think you're way off base with this....just sayin'.

And, no, I don't think jessjo would PM'ed everyone rather than making an AE. That doesn't mean she is backwards fish, but I doubt she would have gone the PM route to tell me how douchey she thinks my FI is.

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually a LOT of people were concerned about Rach's relationship when she posted last week or whenever.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Uh yeah, I was just getting ready to say this.  Several people expressed concern about Rich the other week when it came up in depth.

RachNRich

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually a LOT of people were concerned about Rach's relationship when she posted last week or whenever. Then she came back with a follow up and we were all assured, mostly. But Jessjo was the one who was the most passionate about Rich's doucheyness.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Yes, a lot of people were concerned, but few came out and called him a "diick"---I think that's the difference. There was lots of "red-flag" posts and "I don't like Rich right now" posts.....but not so many "He's a diick" or "He's an asss"....

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Actually a LOT of people were concerned about Rach's relationship when she posted last week or whenever. Then she came back with a follow up and we were all assured, mostly. But Jessjo was the one who was the most passionate about Rich's doucheyness.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Ah, ok, this may have been when I was out of town- I was MIA for about a week. 

bbyckes

I don't think jessjo is backwards fish either, but she has been known to pm people - and I wasn't referencing jessjo discussing your relationship with Rich. 

I just think it doesn't really matter what someone who can't speak as themself thinks about your relationship.  Plus, people who you are familiar with said as much in the thread the other day.  It just seems pointless to rehash that again.

JK10910

Oh Rach, I missed your F/U on that.  I was wondering how everything went. 

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yes, a lot of people were concerned, but few came out and called him a "diick"---I think that's the difference. There was lots of "red-flag" posts and "I don't like Rich right now" posts.....but not so many "He's a diick" or "He's an asss"....
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]

Semantics.  Some try to say things nicely and others are more blunt about it.  Just sayin'.  ;)

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE] I just think it doesn't really matter what someone who can't speak as themself thinks about your relationship. 
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]

Agree 100%.  Don't give credibility to someone not even brave enough to post as themselves.

RachNRich

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[QUOTE]I don't think jessjo is backwards fish either, but she has been known to pm people - <em>and I wasn't referencing jessjo discussing your relationship with Rich.</em> <strong> I just think it doesn't really matter what someone who can't speak as themself thinks about your relationship.  Plus, people who you are familiar with said as much in the thread the other day.  It just seems pointless to rehash that again.</strong>
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]

I wasn't aware that you weren't referencing it---whoops. I still doubt she woulda gone the PM route if the things backwards fish said were what she wanted to say---I highly doubt she'd PM Roxy and call her out for posting here whilst not being engaged yet.

I dont think it matters what anyone (including an unidentified person) thinks either, I just find it interesting to have an AE/Troll drop my name, my FI's name---and take off. If one is going to stick around to make shitty comments, one should continue to stick around to answer questions.

SarahPLiz

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[QUOTE]SarahPLiz annoys me and I can't figure out why.
Posted by Brie2010[/QUOTE]

Sorry, Brie.

vallyhoo

I do not miss Marie2009 one bit.

RachNRich

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[QUOTE] just think it doesn't really matter what someone who can't speak as themself thinks about your relationship.  Plus, people who you are familiar with said as much in the thread the other day.  It just seems pointless to rehash that again.
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]

andplusalso, backwards fish made comments about you and Roxy.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think both of you made an attempt to clear-up backwards fish's statements, no? So, others can -- but I shouldn't?

danieliza1127

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[QUOTE]If one is going to stick around to make shitty comments, one should continue to stick around to answer questions.
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]

Actually, the whole point of a FFF thread is so you can say shitty things and NOT have to stick around and explain them or be flamed for them.

MeaghanandMichael

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[QUOTE]I do not miss Marie2009 one bit.
Posted by vallyhoo[/QUOTE]

Well don't you just stink for bringing the memory of that sucktastic poster back.

JK10910

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[QUOTE]I do not miss Marie2009 one bit.
Posted by vallyhoo[/QUOTE]

Oh, I forgot about her.  I agree.  I'm on your bandwagon, Vally.  Though that should come as a surprise to absolutely not a single person here.