Is there a nightime thread? If not, here it is!!

barbie92

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[QUOTE]Hi Barbie - we're talking sex lives in here tonight.  How ya doing?
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]

Oh sounds like a great topic to me!
Mine however suckss right now.

Ciaram22

Mostly for me it was just to try to get baby out.

louisvillebride21

Guess what ya'll? We'll probably get flamed to high heaven tomorrow. Someone is going to get their panties in a bunch about 'over sharing'. Psht. There's some board on the Nest where they have Friday sex confession thread about the previous week. Taht would never fly here. Board personalities are so fickle.

mixtapehearts

I feel like scheduled sexytimes might work very well with us, because 1) i'm anemic and therefore tired constantly, so I turn him down more than I should, and 2) ONce FI starts his clerkship and hospital rounds, he'll be the tired one. I feel like setting a time would be exciting and give us something to look forward to.

kellyjellybelly

I don't get why people care what other people share.  It's not like we're all posting pics of our lady bits.  Don't want to read about other people's sex lives - don't read it.

louisvillebride21

I think I peaked early. I've always been extremely curious and open about sex (even though H is only my 2nd). I was all about smut stores and porn and basically anything that can be done between just 2 people. And now there's nothing that I want to do that I haven't.

Loopyseven

bummer it didn't work Ciara.  I'm so excited for you. 

 My friend who is pregnant with triplets hit 33 weeks today.  I'm so thrilled for her.  She's been on hospital bedrest for 9 1/2 weeks now with pre-term contractions happening on and off.  

WildRumpus

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[QUOTE]Guess what ya'll? We'll probably get flamed to high heaven tomorrow. Someone is going to get their panties in a bunch about 'over sharing'. Psht. There's some board on the Nest where they have Friday sex confession thread about the previous week. Taht would never fly here. Board personalities are so fickle.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]


You're probably right, but it's not like we've gone into full kama-sutra mode. I tend to think people are way too tight (that's what she said) when it comes to talking about sex anyway.

kellyjellybelly

I would say I've told H to just go ahead and not wake me up, but I know some people would have a major problem with that

barbie92

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[QUOTE]I feel like scheduled sexytimes might work very well with us, because 1) i'm anemic and therefore tired constantly, so I turn him down more than I should, and 2) ONce FI starts his clerkship and hospital rounds, he'll be the tired one. I feel like setting a time would be exciting and give us something to look forward to.
Posted by mixtapehearts[/QUOTE]
We have tried to do this, but so far it hasn't worked out too well. I get the anemic/tired all the time thing and that totally sucks.

Birdie1483

As long as my FMIL doesn't figure out how to venture over here from my local, I'm all good!

Ciaram22

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[QUOTE]bummer it didn't work Ciara.  I'm so excited for you.   My friend who is pregnant with triplets hit 33 weeks today.  I'm so thrilled for her.  She's been on hospital bedrest for 9 1/2 weeks now with pre-term contractions happening on and off.  
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
I can't imagine being on hospital bed rest. Just having to be on modified bed rest at home was bad.

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]I would say I've told H to just go ahead and not wake me up, but I know some people would have a major problem with that :)
Posted by kellyjellybelly[/QUOTE]
HA! I WANT to be woken up! But I wouldn't have a problem with it either if I didn't want to wake up.

Loopyseven

H is my 2nd too.

kellyjellybelly

Yeah Jill, I grew up in a house where sex was never discussed, it was almost made out to be something to be ashamed of.  If we have kids, obvs I don't want them to be little whores, but it is a perfectly natural thing.  I don't see anything wrong with discussing it.  

WildRumpus

Oh yeah, I just remembered one of Rick's cousin-in-laws used to post here. And one of my sister's co-workers lurks too *waves*

LDYGTR13

Hey ladies...I see we're talking about the horizontal mambo. Sweet.

Ciaram22

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[QUOTE]I would say I've told H to just go ahead and not wake me up, but I know some people would have a major problem with that :)
Posted by kellyjellybelly[/QUOTE]
There was a thread about this somewhere the other day.

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is there a nightime thread? If not, here it is!! : Really?  I wouldn't figure you'd get flamed for oversharing.  I'd expect some comments about "maybe you don't get any because you're always knotting.  I feel sorry for your husbands."  But I wouldn't expect flames. 
Posted by bree4305[/QUOTE]
Oh, some get uptight about the whole 'why are you being so personal on the interwebs???

barbie92

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[QUOTE]Yeah Jill, I grew up in a house where sex was never discussed, it was almost made out to be something to be ashamed of.  If we have kids, obvs I don't want them to be little whores, but it is a perfectly natural thing.  I don't see anything wrong with discussing it.  
Posted by kellyjellybelly[/QUOTE]
My family is really open about sex.  I really enjoy that we are all so open, but I know it took some time for my FI to get used to it.

WildRumpus

Kelly, same here. My mom is an RN, so I basically got the "this is how it works" talk, but there was NO discussion of sex or birth control, which is just irresponsible parenting IMO. I took the initiative to be informed before doing anything.

kellyjellybelly

I know Ciara, and I thought some people were incredibly condescending in that thread.  H gets home several hours after I got to be normally, and I get up several hours before he does, so since I like my sleep, I always tell him to just push the dogs off the bed and be quiet so he doesn't wake me up.  

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is there a nightime thread? If not, here it is!! : There was a thread about this somewhere the other day.
Posted by Ciaram22[/QUOTE]
I think it was about the KPS that said it was rape.

Loopyseven

There was a KPS about someone who woke up while their H was mid-deed and they were upset about it happening without their knowledge.

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]I know Ciara, and I thought some people were incredibly condescending in that thread.  H gets home several hours after I got to be normally, and I get up several hours before he does, so since I like my sleep, I always tell him to just push the dogs off the bed and be quiet so he doesn't wake me up.  
Posted by kellyjellybelly[/QUOTE]
Are you talking about him doing himse of you? Cause if it's you...how the hell don't you wake up? No judging at all, just can't fathom!

Ciaram22

I knew I'd seen it somewhere I just couldn't remember.

Birdie1483

One of the first threads I ever participated in was a long one about dildos and all that jazz. I thought it was a really good discussion, but people got their panties in a bunch and a few "things that shall not be mentioned" were made because of it.

LDYGTR13

My patents never talked about sex either. I got the talk from my older brother when I was 18. He spelled out words on an upwords board and told me to tell him when he spelled out a word I didn't know. I think masturbation was the only one I needed clarification on. :-/

mkrupar

I think I said it in the thread, but the roles were reversed for us. Well he started it, and we finished, but he didn't remember any of it because apparently he wasn't really awake. It's a funny story we talk about now. Speaking of KPS. I haven't checked it in a while.

kellyjellybelly

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[QUOTE]There was a KPS about someone who woke up while their H was mid-deed and they were upset about it happening without their knowledge.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]
I would never judge someone for being upset about it.  I just think to TELL people that they should be upset about things they clearly said they were not is judgemental and condescending. :)