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smokeybailey

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Seriously? Seriously?
Posted by jasmineh7777[/QUOTE]

Methinks you are riding on the same train.

wadingmoose

Sucrets, I've always been a big fan of yours.  I was actually more shocked that you were misreading what I was saying today and even when I tried to clear it up, you didn't seem to actually read what I was saying.  That IS unusual for you.

alixzafiris

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Methinks you are riding on the same train.
Posted by smokeybailey[/QUOTE]

Can we dubb her carriage the trying-too-hard-caboose?

mandysmear

Yeah so LVB and TR just moved right up on my awesome list!

MeaghanandMichael

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[QUOTE]i flame meaghan for agreeing with the herd that i'm a biitch, when she's stated she likes me and that liking my posts was one of the reasons she started posting on this board to begin with. groupthink confirmed.
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]

I think that you can be a biitch about babies and dresses. If you look at the thread where I said this recently on SB you will see that I prefaced saying that with something along the lines of, "I think Daff is hilarious and I wouldn't take anything she says about your dress personally because she is biitchy about all of them." I deifnitely never ever said, "I hate Daff, she sucks and is a biitch," because that is just not true.

sucrets4

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[QUOTE]It has nothing to do with disagreeing with me on something. I have disagreements with people all the time. Doesnt' make me like them any less. However being a biitch does. There's a difference in calling people out and just being  a biitch. And I'm not exactly saying it has to do with your baby, I was using that as a timeline.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

Well, I suppose it was my bad for ever being nice.  Because people who have always been a bitch since day 1 get the "well, that's how she's always been and how she is, so it's okay."

smokeybailey

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Can we dubb her carriage the trying-too-hard-caboose?
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]

yes, we can.

AmoroAgain

Well, Andersonville was more because the rest of the Confederacy was starving too, and they figured- why feed the enemy when they couldn't even feed themselves?  Not saying it was right, just, that's how it was.

Also, what the hell happened to LVB?  I don't know what it is, but I loooooooove it.

alixzafiris

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[QUOTE]Thanks, LVB and Alix.  It's because I started actually calling people out on stuff instead of just ignoring things and joking around.  I'm allowed to do that and it has NOTHING to do with my baby, nor have I ever blamed it on that.  And you're allowed to not like me b/c I disagreed with you on something once. *eta - 2 weeks before I had Em (<strong>I'm guessing that's when it was based on what you said; I honestly don't care enough to remember</strong>).
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

I also am not blaming it on you having a baby, nor can I pinpoint when it happened, but I think LVB was spot on. And the latter part of your post perfectly demonstrates that. There's flaming, and then there's every other post in every other thread just having an overtly bitchy tone to it, which is what people are picking up on.

wadingmoose

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Well, I suppose it was my bad for ever being nice.  Because people who have always been a bitch since day 1 get the "well, that's how she's always been and how she is, so it's okay."
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]


Erm.  No.

jasmineh7777

No, I wouldn't really say I'm part of either crown anywhere. But the whole "in crowd" talk is ridiculous. If expressing my opinion equates to trying to hard then sure.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Well, I suppose it was my bad for ever being nice.  Because people who have always been a bitch since day 1 get the "well, that's how she's always been and how she is, so it's okay."
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

I'm sure I'll get flamed for bandwagoning, but OH SNAP.

georgia_bride09

[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I have NEVER said anything like that seriously. I could care less over who likes me and who doesn't, I don't need to win the approval of anyone.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

You've "joked" about wanting to be "one of the cool kids" on several occasions, and honestly, if you're even joking about something so lame, then there's probably some truth to it. Why else would you bring it up?

goheels05

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:02a213ee-8b40-4b72-a183-4a7441e1a7fd">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : But not like that. I certainly know that things sucked all over, and there were lots of deaths and disease and crap everywhere. I've done my reading. I also know that for every person who died on the battlefield in the Civil War, two people died of disease. But all I'm saying is, at least the Confederate POWs in Union camps GOT food, even if it was full of worms. And when I see pictures like this one (linked in case people don't want to look) it makes me think of other death camps: <a href="http://www.spartacus.schoolnet.co.uk/USACWandersonv.jpg" rel="nofollow">http://www.spartacus.schoolnet.co.uk/USACWandersonv.jpg</a>
Posted by sarah0725[/QUOTE]


Agreed, but I still felt it needed to be said. 

That picture is horrifying.

eastunder1

Could someone make a flowchart of some sort that clearly defines our new "at war" groups and sub groups?  I need to study my opinions before deciding which one to join.  

Also, if there will be mascots representing each board, that is important too.  I like birds.  Is either side represened by fowl?

lilgina64

i think the divide may be caused by a number of regs saying how much they love other somewhat newish regs because the newish regs are ragging on a bunch of people the regs obviously don't get along with.
Also, I think it's BSC to think that the whole SB v E thing is legitimately to make others feel bad.

SarahSmile23

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[QUOTE]<strong>When I started reading, I was glad that SS and co didn't come over here to defend themselves. And then she did</strong>. It's all so fucking petty. The 'original' group, Bec, Cew and Heels (until today) just leave well enough alone and stay on 'their' board. Roxy and Mery, the only thing that comes to mind is 'thou dost protest too much" It's coming across as very foot stompy.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

i defended myself? from what? what are you smoking? i pointed out that amoro's flame didn't make sense. oh, and that every FFF these days degenerates into the same old shiit, with people crying on an online message board because some people who used to primarily post on only ONE online message board have decided that they prefer a different online message board. i don't feel the need to "defend" myself on here. i honestly think this is all really funny. some people take the internet REALLY seriously.

nda_roxybabe

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:0a26b4b9-e8be-48b1-ab15-c04511ec04a7">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]You've "joked" about wanting to be "one of the cool kids" on several occasions, and honestly, if you're even joking about something so lame, then there's probably some truth to it. Why else would you bring it up?
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

I got flamed for it once my p2 and since they I have joked about it because I'm taking a stab at her flame. A lot of people have made jokes about sitting at the cool kids table and eating lunch in the bathroom.

wadingmoose

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:1abd2132-bcd3-470f-a65f-e936a244be7c">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Could someone make a flowchart of some sort that clearly defines our new "at war" groups and sub groups?  I need to study my opinions before deciding which one to join.   Also, if there will be mascots representing each board, that is important too.  I like birds.  Is either side represened by fowl?
Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]


All I know is I think I seriously missed a thread somewhere about something.  Can anyone give me a link?

louisvillebride21

Nothing really happened to me. I'm generally nice (or I think I am) when others can be harsh. I don't like picking on newbs for the simple fact they are new. But I can only take so much of the petty ass 'she started it, foot stomping, whiny' shiit that's been going on the past month or so.

sucrets4

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:b78f7a5b-b849-4fc3-bb7c-303efd5dade4">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I also am not blaming it on you having a baby, nor can I pinpoint when it happened, but I think LVB was spot on. And the latter part of your post perfectly demonstrates that. There's flaming, and then there's every other post in every other thread just having an overtly bitchy tone to it, which is what people are picking up on.
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]

Links? (j/k, but examples would be nice)

Where, aside from this post, have I been drastically different from usual?  I rarely post anymore, at least it's significantly less than I used to.

And honestly, I remember the night that I called LVB out on something.  I don't remember what it was, but she was pissed and hasn't liked me since. 

mandysmear

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:7b5bce40-65fb-4ec1-84bd-48ec3fc656e5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I just want to say that I feel for people who have to deal with things like death of a loved one, dealing with terminal illness, etc.  I think it's completely understandable that those things would cause pain, stress, anger, sadness, and a whole host of emotions ranging a pretty comprehensive spectrum.  But there are resources and help available for people dealing with those things (ETA: also not saying that these things work for everyone or make the problems go away completely either).  Not saying that anyone who has mentioned it is NOT taking advantage of that help, but I know sometimes things like that get forgotten. So what I'm trying to say in a roundabout way, is I agree with Moose that the term "free pass" makes me feel icky.  "Understandable" works a little better for me, but perhaps that is when someone should look at taking advantage of resources available. And, as a disclaimer--this is BASED ON the stuff with P2 and what Mandy wrote about in this post.  I have no idea what they're doing/did to cope and of course everyone has bad days where they're going to be foul no matter what.  I'm really directing this more towards anyone who said anything about a "free pass" for anyone than at P2 and Mandy, even though that's what it seems. And?  Now the soapbox is free for the next person. 
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

I missed this and I agree.  I did have a therapist when I went through that difficult part in my life.  I started seeing her 2 weeks after I found out my mom was terminal.  It made a world of a difference.  I was 19 and oh so lost. 

alixzafiris

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f47e8bdf-b8bf-44ce-9c07-58fa533dc2ab">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]i think the divide may be caused by a number of regs saying how much they love other somewhat newish regs because the newish regs are ragging on a bunch of people the regs obviously don't get along with.
Posted by lilgina64[/QUOTE]

I think I'm going to need a cliffs version of this please? I've read it three times now and I'm stumped. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-embarassed.gif" border="0" alt="Embarassed" title="Embarassed" />

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : i defended myself? from what? what are you smoking? i pointed out that amoro's flame didn't make sense. oh, and that every FFF these days degenerates into the same old shiit, with people crying on an online message board because some people who used to primarily post on only ONE online message board have decided that they prefer a different online message board. i don't feel the need to "defend" myself on here. i honestly think this is all really funny. some people take the internet REALLY seriously.
Posted by SarahSmile23[/QUOTE]
I didn't mean that against YOU specifically (that was my bad, because you were the one that stuck out to me-honestly because of your picture). I just meant that when all this stupid shiit has been going on, you guys haven't run over here to even comment on that. I think that is the...mature? way to go. Can't argue with someone who won't argue back. And then just as I was thinking that it was cool you all didn't come over, here you (and Heels) showed up. I just personally think if people would stop defeding the move or protesting the crap people (on each board) are saying about the other, this whole thing would die.

eastunder1

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[QUOTE]i think the divide may be caused by a number of regs saying how much they love other somewhat newish regs because the newish regs are ragging on a bunch of people the regs obviously don't get along with.
Posted by lilgina64[/QUOTE]

They don't know that we know that they know. 

Rosie109

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:5484e122-80c3-44fa-b748-cf39a8cce86d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I think I'm going to need a cliffs version of this please? I've read it three times now and I'm stumped.
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]

<div><span style="color:#000000;font-family:Times;font-size:medium;line-height:normal;" class="Apple-style-span"><div style="font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:10px;background-color:initial;background-image:none;background-repeat:initial;background-attachment:initial;-webkit-background-clip:initial;-webkit-background-origin:initial;color:#1f1f1f;font:normal normal normal 11px/14px Arial, sans-serif;text-align:left;">Substitute "regs" with "rags" and its actually kind of funny. </div></span></div>

salt78

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:41c626ed-59b7-4ab3-9fca-994aa3ee1ce1">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]:::shrug::: Roxy's finally a part of an in-crowd, of course she's going to defend it.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]

<div>I effing love you.</div>

danieliza1127

Hahaha, me too Alix!  Gina, I have no idea what you were trying to say!

arbolita

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:16860fb6-1bb2-48dc-9a41-f16c69618475">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : All I know is I think I seriously missed a thread somewhere about something.  Can anyone give me a link?
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]


I still don't know what that "trader joe's" thread everyone was talking about the other day is.  I miss the days where if people were referring to posts on other boards, they'd link them.  SB might be two clicks away, but I really don't want to open every post on that board in order to find why it's being talked about here.

alixzafiris

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:1df42d26-1ce7-4177-84c3-19ec3642a297">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : They don't know that we know that they know. 
Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]

YOU'RE NOT HELPING MY GENERAL CONFUSION HERE!