FFF

ohwhynot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:87bcd42a-60e5-4c80-8390-673e49d69fa6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I know we're all STILL talking about SB, but I flame desiree16 for thinking that the bride & groom shouldn't be counted in a head count, and that they should eat for free. Ridiculous.
Posted by mrs.jesse[/QUOTE]

Oh good one.  So silly.
Also, Kristenandwhatever, for writing "Maybe she is preggos." Ugh.

pinkpinot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:b05fd249-217d-4e91-86b5-2d011b09fa71">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I wonder what she meant by "plantation themed".   Maybe dalmation plantation? P.S. I really wanted to make a joke about the KKK and wearing white to a wedding or something, but I wasn't sure about saying something incredibly offensive as a joke.
Posted by MattsPenguin[/QUOTE]

Uh I flame MattsPenguin for this entire post.

AmoroAgain

Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing.  We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was.  Then hey, things are fine.  But pretending that's not what they're doing?  Lame.

sucrets4

I flame p2 for acting like a child because her husband forgot to meet her.  I'm sure it wasn't intentional and to keep on being pissed at him and picking unrelated fights for TWO DAYS just reeks of immaturity.

I mean, it's not like he just went through chemo or anything, sheesh.

http://www.cancer.org/docroot/MBC/content/MBC_2_3x_Chemobrain.asp

emarston1

I flame the ercky007 for asking if it was acceptable to put a tip jar out and have the guests help out with the bartending gratuity.

mandysmear

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a0f14a67-66ad-4cf5-ba0f-1703b5821d24">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame Mag for being 1000 times less fun since she's been pregnant.  Seriously, who died and made you the appointed defender of SB? 
Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]

::snort::

georgia_bride09

[QUOTE]I flame Alix's new sig. It's a little creepy looking! Like she's a character in Avatar or something.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

I like it. It reminds me of Braveheart.

danieliza1127

Didn't SB have a version of FFF this week?  Then why are we flaming SB stuff here?  Come on peeps.

Kati0105

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:bf0e3570-aaf4-4f61-9f1e-e293d8a15f3e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I still think she is just as fun and I definitely don't think she is trying to act like a defender of SB.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

Ehh every post I see from her these days is an angry defense of something.  Although actually I'd say the same of you too.  Why is everyone so angry?

MattsPenguin

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:5a0b33a8-7d79-4f63-a6ab-f7d07fbcf861">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Uh I flame MattsPenguin for this entire post.
Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]

Yeah, sorry looking back on it, not so good.  Random things pop into my head sometimes.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

I flame people who were flaming LauraLaur earlier this week. The girl is lonely because her husband is away for long periods of time and works a volunteer position which can call him out at a moment's notice. Everyone saying, "well you knew that when you married him" was not helpful. No shiit, she knew that. That doesn't mean it hasn't been hard for her.

nda_roxybabe

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f5c269eb-47a5-4b6d-b318-bb5bbbe45614">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing.  We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was.  Then hey, things are fine.  But pretending that's not what they're doing?  Lame.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

I don't see anyone doing that (Yes, I know what Nebb said) but really, we've more than welcomed anyone who wants to post. Your logical for SB trying to be AFSB is flawed.
Don't you think if someone really wanted a all inclusive group they'd start an OB? Everyones smart enough to realize this a public place, people can go where they please.

jasmineh7777

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f5c269eb-47a5-4b6d-b318-bb5bbbe45614">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing.  We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was.  Then hey, things are fine.  But pretending that's not what they're doing?  Lame.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

I really don't think that's what they're doing. Besides Nebb's comment, I can't think of anyone else ever saying "Stay out of our clubhouse!"

AmoroAgain

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:ac75e0f6-2b4e-4193-b207-a0730ed26608">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame p2 for acting like a child because her husband forgot to meet her.  I'm sure it wasn't intentional and to keep on being pissed at him and picking unrelated fights for TWO DAYS just reeks of immaturity. I mean, it's not like he just went through chemo or anything, sheesh. <a href="http://www.cancer.org/docroot/MBC/content/MBC_2_3x_Chemobrain.asp" rel="nofollow">http://www.cancer.org/docroot/MBC/content/MBC_2_3x_Chemobrain.asp</a>
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]
So, he gets free passes forever because he had chemo.  Your idea= suck.

salt78

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:c029fc09-8cd9-4ddf-813e-09f70bb6b74f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yeah, sorry looking back on it, not so good.  Random things pop into my head sometimes.
Posted by MattsPenguin[/QUOTE]

<div>Think before you post.</div>

mandysmear

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f5c269eb-47a5-4b6d-b318-bb5bbbe45614">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing.  We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was.  Then hey, things are fine.  But pretending that's not what they're doing?  Lame.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

I am going to have to agree on this.  That's the feeling I get too. 

danieliza1127

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:e3ec09ee-415f-4a4d-b1c6-3fb1c2c37f30">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Ehh every post I see from her these days is an angry defense of something.  Although actually I'd say the same of you too.  Why is everyone so angry?
Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]

And so quick to defend people?

I thought it was amusing yesterday when ShellyD posted in Amoro's thread quickly coming to Nebb's defense, and then once Squirrly logically explained that someone who got defriended on FB has just as much a right to talk about it as the person who did the defriending, she was all "oh yeah, I see your point" and "oh I dont' have the energy for this".  Come on people, get a grasp on the situation before blindly jumping to someone's defense.

FutureMrsTR

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:5b039fda-754c-49eb-aed5-c13b0c606812">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame people who were flaming LauraLaur earlier this week. The girl is lonely because her husband is away for long periods of time and works a volunteer position which can call him out at a moment's notice. Everyone saying, "well you knew that when you married him" was not helpful. No shiit, she knew that. That doesn't mean it hasn't been hard for her.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

THIS.  I had forgotten about that, but that really bothered me.  A lot of people were telling her this was only her problem and I really don't think it was.  There was a lot of good advice, too, but some was just harsh.

Kati0105

I know I'm doing it wrong, but I'd like to cosign everything Amoro has said so far in this thread.

nda_roxybabe

I thought Amoro saying Nebb was ridiculous for getting upset about the FB thing is crazy because if that had happened to her she would have flipped out.

mandysmear

I'll be sure to remember that if my husband ever gets cancer, I can NEVER get mad at him again. 

::eyeroll::

sucrets4

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:5e944ca5-f9b8-4103-9cc8-4971e5ff181f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : So, he gets free passes forever because he had chemo.  Your idea= suck.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

Free passes 10 years from now?  No.  But I think he should be cut some slack.

Also, I more flame her reaction.  What adult picks fights that are unrelated just because they're pissed in general?  It's called communication.

alixzafiris

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:b9063eef-0cbe-4507-96d3-6208adcd1b8a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame Alix's new sig. It's a little creepy looking! Like she's a character in Avatar or something.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

IT'S MY ENGLISH PRIDE DAMMIT!

<em>*stamps foot*</em>

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

While I can see Mandy and Amoro's point, getting mad at your husband for standing you up is one thing (and totally justifiable). Holding it over his head for 2 days+ is over-the-top.

wadingmoose

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:d1486d47-8d1b-4fbe-9bff-b362a22a7777">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Didn't SB have a version of FFF this week?  Then why are we flaming SB stuff here?  Come on peeps.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]


whew, it's not just me then.  I'm SURE I came to E.  I even checked at the top of the board a couple of times.  Yep.  It's E.

FutureMrsTR

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:25fea380-8ee6-487f-b5de-e3d629f4a4ef">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I don't see anyone doing that (Yes, I know what Nebb said) <strong>but really, we've more than welcomed anyone who wants to post.</strong> Your logical for SB trying to be AFSB is flawed. Don't you think if someone really wanted a all inclusive group they'd start an OB? Everyones smart enough to realize this a public place, people can go where they please.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

That comment right there seems to imply that someone would need to be welcomed or given permission to post.

SarahSmile23

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:f5c269eb-47a5-4b6d-b318-bb5bbbe45614">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, I think they should just be honest about what they're doing.  We want SB to an all-inclusive, impenetrable group like AFSB was.  Then hey, things are fine.  But pretending that's not what they're doing?  Lame.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

I flame amoro for not knowing what the fuuck all-inclusive means. This above flame doesn't make sense.

AmoroAgain

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:ce9013dd-d4f6-443c-8fa2-4a14afc7e98e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : And so quick to defend people? I thought it was amusing yesterday when ShellyD posted in Amoro's thread quickly coming to Nebb's defense, and then once Squirrly logically explained that someone who got defriended on FB has just as much a right to talk about it as the person who did the defriending, she was all "oh yeah, I see your point" and "oh I dont' have the energy for this".  Come on people, get a grasp on the situation before blindly jumping to someone's defense.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

But she HAD to Dani, to prove her loyalty!! *eyeroll*

Yet another reason why there's something going over there.  I really don't care, I don't want to be part of that group, but don't pretend about your purpose.  That just implies that you think we're stupid enough to flal for it.

sucrets4

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:12224299-a858-4d31-87ac-ccb953658fa8">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I'll be sure to remember that if my husband ever gets cancer, I can NEVER get mad at him again.  ::eyeroll::
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

Right.  Because that was clearly the point of my post. 

danieliza1127

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-36?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d7860f92-8453-49fc-9aba-580bebadb515Post:a63542e8-5f25-4567-bc2a-a5877227197d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I thought Amoro saying Nebb was ridiculous for getting upset about the FB thing is crazy because if that had happened to her she would have flipped out.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

If what happened?  All that happened is someone said "Nebb unfriended me and I was sad because I like her".  The person who got unfriended has just as much right to talk about it as Nebb does to not talk about it.  If you don't like it, don't be FB friends with knotties.  Nothing else personal was revealed.