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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:4c9c8b5d-816f-4e35-b5f2-ec87ec861f20">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]Are we talking about Sesh's thread?  She said something here.  First post from this morning's SB Good morning thread. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_good-morning-244_.0">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_good-morning-244_.0</a>
    Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]

    I think she mentioned it earlier this week too that she was not looking forward to today because of it or something?
  • Well that was one time she mentioned it, but I know she mentioned it another time this week as well. It was when she found out about the potluck earlier this week.
  • ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    [QUOTE]Well that was one time she mentioned it, but I know she mentioned it another time this week as well. It was when she found out about the potluck earlier this week.
    Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

    <div>Yeah, that's the one I'm thinking of. I can't find it though.</div>
  • Hmm well that one was a couple weeks ago. I distinctly remember it this week haha. I suck at searching! How do you use google to search does anyone know?
  • ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    [QUOTE]Hmm well that one was a couple weeks ago. I distinctly remember it this week haha. I suck at searching! How do you use google to search does anyone know?
    Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>"________" site: <a href="http://www.theknot.com">www.theknot.com</a></div><div>
    </div><div>I think. I tried a few things but got nothin'.

    </div>
  • LDY - if you're still here - make sure if you end up with a gap in insurance coverage that the issue the meds are for doesn't become a preexisting condition and get excluded from your future coverage.  Cobra or some kind of contingency coverage may be required to maintain coverage through your gap period to avoid having anything categorized as preexisting.  
    A friend of ours had asthma, but not bad.  He had a preexisting clause that it wouldn't be covered for 12 months (or something) so he just didn't go to the doctor for it for 12 months cause he still had an inhaler from before.  Then he ran out, went to the doctor, and found out his 12 months didn't start till he was "re-diagnosed" or something weird.  I don't remember the specifics, but it was weird.
  • OH! I JUST REMEMBERED A FLAME!

    Snippy and someone on SB started morning threads with titles similar to "No morning thread yet?" It made me eye-rolly - just start it. Don't make it seem like you're saying "No thread yet? Seriously? I guess I have to do it for you." - I realize it's a stretch, but it's just kind of annoying to me. 
  • I'm going to die if it got eaten. Or it could have been on the proboards, but my browser didn't save that link. This is impossible.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:97f26b0c-9f1e-49a2-a0f4-9a1d22bd7c35">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : F'real.  That's what booze is for.
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]



    Okay. I now see your point. This is a true story. And I'm off to a margarita tasting! (no, I really am).

    Thanks for letting me flame you Snippy, even if I misunderstood your point!

    Margaritas.... I love them.
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  • Is aguysview the douche that came back to yell at us because they're in the military and we didn't validate them?  If so, he's popped back up on SB, just as douchey as ever.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:cff8647c-92dc-4215-b0fa-15bf9fd1390a">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wfl-and-money-talk_.1">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wfl-and-money-talk_.1</a> I think that is the scrimp/splurge thread someone mentioned above. Sesh's mentions, "We don't buy food unless we have nothing left..." That doesn't sound all that bad until you see her refer to not really having the money to actually buy food in other threads.
    Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]



    Seshs H does landscaping and they have a huge year round garden that they get lots of fresh produce.

    I know Sesh is very frugal but I am certain she is not starving.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:cff8647c-92dc-4215-b0fa-15bf9fd1390a">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wfl-and-money-talk_.1">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wfl-and-money-talk_.1</a> I think that is the scrimp/splurge thread someone mentioned above. Sesh's mentions, "We don't buy food unless we have nothing left..." That doesn't sound all that bad until you see her refer to not really having the money to actually buy food in other threads.
    Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]



    Seshs H does landscaping and they have a huge year round garden that they get lots of fresh produce.

    I know Sesh is very frugal but I am certain she is not starving.
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  • marateamaratea member
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    I think people are far overreacting to Sesh's comments about food. I think it's something she talks about a lot, sure, but from what I gather, she is not starving.

    And LDY, if you paid attention, you'd know that even Sesh points out that she doesn't have the best eating habits. She's said it before. So you lecturing her about adding chicken or vegetables to ramen probably isn't going to change anything.
  • LDYGTR13LDYGTR13 member
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    edited May 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:76e3d6ff-360b-4db6-879d-a291e7cb4853">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think people are far overreacting to Sesh's comments about food. I think it's something she talks about a lot, sure, but from what I gather, she is not starving. And LDY, if you paid attention, you'd know that even Sesh points out that she doesn't have the best eating habits. She's said it before. So you lecturing her about adding chicken or vegetables to ramen probably isn't going to change anything.
    Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]
    I obviously didn't pay attention well. Thanks for pointing that out! I'm just saying that you can find cheap food options. From what I gathered from her posts she was complaining about not having food. Just reacting to what I had seen. Food's rather important. I didn't realize I was lecturing...I thought it was a suggestion. 
  • Whether or not Sesh is starving, I think the moral of the story is that it gets old to listen to people complain about how much their life sucks all the time. 

    Exhibit A: MissySue.
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    [QUOTE]Now we're getting into dead horse territory, but saying "I can't even feed myself" makes it sound like you're goddamned destitute and living on tea and crackers. 
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
    Yes. Exactly. This is what I was referring to. You say these things - this is what people read - people think you can't afford food. Does that make sense? 
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:a20671b6-e80d-41be-93dd-d83d5e01b07c">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]Is aguysview the douche that came back to yell at us because they're in the military and we didn't validate them?  If so, he's popped back up on SB, just as douchey as ever.
    Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

    That asshat was trolling the schit out of Wedding Woes earlier in the week, but I think they finally just started ignoring him there.

    And no, aguysview was the guy who thought his FI was cheating because his friend told him that he saw her having lunch with some dude and she told him she was with a female friend at the mall or something when she was supposedly at her secret dude lunch, so he chased her down a hallway to steal her cell phone.
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  • marateamaratea member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF :<strong> I obviously didn't pay attention well. Thanks for pointing that out!</strong> I'm just saying that you can find cheap food options. From what I gathered from her posts she was complaining about not having food. Just reacting to what I had seen. Food's rather important. I didn't realize I was lecturing...I thought it was a suggestion. 
    Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]
    I can't tell if you're being serious or sarcastic here, but either way, you sound like a condescending something-or-other here. Like 'oh, well bless your heart' *pats head* kind of thing.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:58cfc1ca-9893-400f-993f-02939f0bbc09">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : o.O
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    And yes, I'm aware I remember that thread way too well.  That troll seriously got under my skin when he was over here.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:0a18a3ff-4580-4c63-ae11-aff42751890e">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That asshat was trolling the schit out of Wedding Woes earlier in the week, but I think they finally just started ignoring him there. And no, aguysview was the guy who thought his FI was cheating because his friend told him that he saw her having lunch with some dude and she told him she was with a female friend at the mall or something when she was supposedly at her secret dude lunch<strong>, so he chased her down a hallway to steal her cell phone.
    </strong>Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]

    .....the F*CK??
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  • I didn't know they had a garden.  Well okay then.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I can't tell if you're being serious or sarcastic here, but either way, you sound like a condescending something-or-other here. Like 'oh, well bless your heart' *pats head* kind of thing.
    Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]
    Promise I wasn't being condescending...I was thanking you. 
  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That asshat was trolling the schit out of Wedding Woes earlier in the week, but I think they finally just started ignoring him there. And no, aguysview was the guy who thought his FI was cheating because his friend told him that he saw her having lunch with some dude and she told him she was with a female friend at the mall or something when she was supposedly at her secret dude lunch, so he chased her down a hallway to steal her cell phone.
    Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]

    That's got to be a troll -- why else come into the reveal thread on SB and say that you've reported us all?

    I do like the timing of showing back up on what's seemingly become TK AE Day.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:90b1dc2c-3fc0-4bf8-a1c2-541a3d49562d">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : .....the F*CK??
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

    Apparently he accused her of cheating and demanded to see her cell phone, and she said no and left the apartment, so he chased her out into the hallway and grabbed it from her.  I think he put a less horrific spin on it than that, but that's pretty much what I took away from it.
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  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    edited May 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:90b1dc2c-3fc0-4bf8-a1c2-541a3d49562d">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : .....the F*CK??
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

    And grabbed her IIRC.

    edit: yeah steph beat me to that one.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:745e90fd-b07d-435d-ab34-117555fe0e09">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]I didn't know they had a garden.  Well okay then.
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

    I didn't think it was year round. I thought she just said this morning that there was a draught and she hoped they would come back.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:745e90fd-b07d-435d-ab34-117555fe0e09">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]I didn't know they had a garden.  Well okay then.
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

    I just mean that I take "We dont buy food unless we have to" at face value. I also think Seshs family hunts?  (I could be confusing her with someone else tho).  But I think she has a freezer full of meat and stuff too.  So I took her comment about the potluck as her joking around that they dont spend money (or a lot of money) on their own food because they dont have to, so why would they spend money on a potluck.

    But whatever.  People on these boards have WAY worse money problems that are off limits so I dont get the flame, unless its just that she talks about it too much, and Ill just agree to disagree on that point.
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    [QUOTE]Nebb, I was trying to go back and look but got distracted, but she referenced it a couple of different times.  It stuck out to me, which is why I remember it so clearly.  She said, specifically, that she doesn't eat full meals because they can't afford it, and that she can't afford to feed herself.  I'm pretty sure she brought it up in the thread you guys had about things you skimp on and things you splurge on, and she said that they can't afford food.
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
    Why would you flame someone for this? This is something that should not be in a FFF.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-93?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f4f6df05-86b0-4cd0-911d-0d39fb72c929Post:0a18a3ff-4580-4c63-ae11-aff42751890e">Re: FFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That asshat was trolling the schit out of Wedding Woes earlier in the week, but I think they finally just started ignoring him there. And no, aguysview was the guy who thought his FI was cheating because his friend told him that he saw her having lunch with some dude and she told him she was with a female friend at the mall or something when she was supposedly at her secret dude lunch, so he chased her down a hallway to steal her cell phone.
    Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ah that's right.  I have a terrible knot memory.</div>
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  • Day late and a dollar short, but crnflk, did you seriously just THANK Snippy for letting you flame her?

    And did no one else see that?

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