I'm looking for anyone with knowledge in how to involve and yet not involve the Catholic Church in our wedding. My fiance's family is not religious, Tom and I are not religious, but my entire family is Catholic. We have no desire to involve God or the Catholic Church in our wedding but to appease my side of the family we are trying to figure out a way to ... I honestly don't know what. Does anyone know if there is some sort of blessing I can ask for from the Church or something so my side of the family is apeased? Thank you for any help/insite you can give, and please don't bible thump me, I have a family of 52 that already does that.