Have you seen this dad?

mkrupar · February 2012

I never go through my friends list to see who defriended me. Now if there was a mass defriending, and I realized that every knottie I knew defriended me, that would leave me scratching my head.

Stackeye210 · February 2012

I don't even know how many friends i have on facebook so I'd never know if I were defriended.

Birdie1483 · February 2012

WE'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO TALK ABOUT FB HERE GUYTHS

Rosie109 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_have-you-seen-this-dad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:b156b234-d9e2-4ff1-b52f-429e73e9a869Post:7f526ac4-f0c3-4a57-8b94-9b779a44a62f">Re: Have you seen this dad?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Have you seen this dad? : Truest statement of the thread.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

WHERE THE FvCK HAVE YOU BEEN HOE.

[Deleted User] · February 2012

I'd never know if I was defriended because I rarely check, and I forget who I'm friends with anyway unless I talk to them a lot.

Also, this is probably more of a confession, but it annoys me how often people tell posters to go to counseling. Mostly because it didn't work for me, so in my head I have the irrational thought that it won't work for them. Even though I know that's dumb.

specialk84 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_have-you-seen-this-dad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b156b234-d9e2-4ff1-b52f-429e73e9a869Post:79298404-e95c-41ca-bdd0-b4f6d6d483e8">Re: Have you seen this dad?</a>:
[QUOTE]WE'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO TALK ABOUT FB HERE GUYTHS
Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

<div>But I was going to tell you how much I like your profile picture! If I knew how to whistle, I would have. It's very nice.</div>

crfische · February 2012

Special, I was pissed at some IRL friends and I generalized it, I guess. because that's what I do. I call groups of people morons. Keep up!

specialk84 · February 2012

Heather, there are some comments that are so blatantly stupid, there's only one way to take them: at face value.

Perhaps if you're so awful at communicating, you should work on that.

louisvillebride21 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_have-you-seen-this-dad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b156b234-d9e2-4ff1-b52f-429e73e9a869Post:b49802dd-4c95-431a-94d5-b4d260462434">Re: Have you seen this dad?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Have you seen this dad? : WHERE THE FvCK HAVE YOU BEEN HOE.
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]
Lol last time I was here, it didn't get the biggest welcome. So I took a break.

baystateapple · February 2012

Seshat, honestly, I felt the same way until about two years ago when I finally found an awesome counselor who DID help. The party line of "oh just go to counseling, it will fix it" used to drive me up a wall, because I'd tried several times and hadn't gotten anywhere. And now I'm one of those annoying people who recommends counseling all.the.time. Because it has really done a lot for me. But I do understand where you're coming from.

Birdie1483 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_have-you-seen-this-dad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b156b234-d9e2-4ff1-b52f-429e73e9a869Post:0d4e9bc7-4d2c-4c62-8cb3-6fe2b08e0133">Re: Have you seen this dad?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Have you seen this dad? : But I was going to tell you how much I like your profile picture! If I knew how to whistle, I would have. It's very nice.
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

Thanks <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" />

specialk84 · February 2012

Gotcha, Fish.

[Deleted User] · February 2012

Oh I don't hold it against anyone or anything, bay. It's just a twinge of annoyance then I get over it. Because it's totally irrational since I know it does help others. I think my brain is just broken in that respect.

mandapanda78 · February 2012

Another caveat of counseling- you have to WANT it to work. Just going doesn't do much. This is in addition to finding the right counselor for you. So again, not a cure-all.

Birdie1483 · February 2012

I can understand that Sesh. I've personally never been to counseling, and sometimes I wish I had when I was younger. I think it could have helped me. But I get why it would annoy you if it didn't help you. I get annoyed when people say stuff like "oh just smile and you'll be happy!" or that if you're happy life is ok. No, sometimes life fuucking sucks and you're sad.

HeatherMKR · February 2012

I'm pretty I said that I understand where you guys are coming from. I obviously did not make clear what I meant.

I know when I'm outnumbered.

crfische · February 2012

What manda said.

Habs2Hart · February 2012

Fish - STOP IGNORING THE QUESTION.

You are getting called out for not saying who is dependent on their H's in the party lines thread.

specialk84 · February 2012

When I was younger and just starting therapy, my parents had to take me to eleven different therapists before we found one who worked for me. I feel guilty about this, but she was the only one not covered by our insurance. I had to go 2-3 times a week for a few years, and I just feel awful at how much money my parents spent.

She did really help me, though. I genuinely think I would not be here today if I had never walked into her office.

baystateapple · February 2012

Truth, Manda.

My current therapist (mine, not our joint counselor, although he's cool too) is amazing. I seriously love him to death and when he fully retires (he only works one day a week now) I don't know how I'll ever be able to find someone like him again.

[Deleted User] · February 2012

That's true about finding one who works for you. My childhood shrink was awesome. I remember a lot about her, but I was also young and not really equiped with the ability to deal with it. I tried agian when I was older and that woman was such a raging bitch that I walked out and never looked back.

mandapanda78 · February 2012

special, I don't know your parents but I will say this as a parent: money means NOTHING when compared to your child's well being. I'm sure they think it was money well spent.

crfische · February 2012

Yeah, I saw that habs and answered the question. But thanks.

Habs2Hart · February 2012

I totes missed that. Sorry.

specialk84 · February 2012

I get that, Manda, but it's still something I feel guilty about.

crfische · February 2012

STOP YELLING AT ME!!

musicalsunlight · February 2012

Damn I'm late to this. I've only read the last page but that dad is a fuucking moron.

StephBeanWed61502 · February 2012

Okay, I'm only about halfway through this thread, and the video is blocked here so I can't watch it, but what I'm getting is the teenager talked smack about her parents on FB so dad made a YouTube video about it and shot her laptop.

The thing that strikes me, is why is she getting punished for this at all? Assuming she was actually doing her chores, who cares if she happens to bitch about them to her friends? Maybe I was raised by a weird hippie, but I don't think I even would've gotten in trouble for this, let alone had my personal belongings destroyed. I think it's crazy that dad is so worked up about this in the first place, and using a gun on someone's belongings is downright abusive to me. I've done volunteer legal work for victims of domestic violence, and nearly every woman who came to me had a story about how "at first he only destroyed my belongings." Dad's behavior just screams red flags to me, regardless of whatever his daughter did.

mkrupar · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_have-you-seen-this-dad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b156b234-d9e2-4ff1-b52f-429e73e9a869Post:d23ab870-f06b-4d71-b1e9-e593cbd3c0b5">Re: Have you seen this dad?</a>:
[QUOTE]Okay, I'm only about halfway through this thread, and the video is blocked here so I can't watch it, but what I'm getting is the <strong>teenager talked smack about her parents on FB</strong> so dad made a YouTube video about it and shot her laptop. The thing that strikes me, is why is she getting punished for this at all? Assuming she was actually doing her chores, who cares if she happens to bitch about them to her friends? Maybe I was raised by a weird hippie, but I don't think I even would've gotten in trouble for this, let alone had my personal belongings destroyed. I think it's crazy that dad is so worked up about this in the first place, and using a gun on someone's belongings is downright abusive to me. I've done volunteer legal work for victims of domestic violence, and nearly every woman who came to me had a story about how "at first he only destroyed my belongings." Dad's behavior just screams red flags to me, regardless of whatever his daughter did.
Posted by StephBeanWed61502[/QUOTE]

I think talked smack would be an understatement to what this girl wrote, but you got the general gist.

TiffannieF · February 2012

Sorry ladies I also can't read this entire thread...but ya I don't think publicly humiliating your daughter is productive or healthy at all.

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