In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:923c70a9-dfba-47ff-999b-1381a53487d8">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]I just get pissed off about the curse words on TK thing. This is a WEDDING forum. Most of the people on here are grown adults (all of them should be in my opinion, but I'm not going to launch into a teen wedding tirade) and as such, should be able to use whatever foul, indecent, an unladylike language we so choose. Posted by ThankfulSnail[/QUOTE]
<div>Speak for yourself. I'm a goddammned fucking lady. </div>
I understand completely. I'm not exactly fond of my sister either. She was much worse before she got married, but now she's just so indifferent it's kind of infuriating.
Snail, I would also have a long discussion about how money will be handled in the future (regarding shared financial obligations INCLUDING SAVING), and I think if he manages to get his shiiit together in the 30 days, that he should have another 30 days to show that he's capable of sticking to the shared financial obligation plan as well before you truly move forward with anything.
Angel, I'm sorry your sister is a bitchface gutterslut.
Snail, I don't know your FI but I'd say he knows you mean busines from that reaction. I hope I'm right! As others have said, you should be so proud of yourself! You are one strong woman.
Wrigley - I KNOW! My dress is at home and everything. It hasn't been home in MONTHS. My alterations lady is amazing. She didn't charge me for pressing my dress and gave us an extra discount because we were so nice and easy to deal with. We already had a discount from my aunt recommending her to us. She did my mom and grandma's dress too. She didn't charge grandma for sewing her special bra (breast cancer survivor) into the dress for her. Sweetest lady ever.
Sorry that got long, I just really love my seamstress.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:4a4f8a98-7f03-4ea1-83b2-7803db0cbe6a">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : I really, really love this term. Posted by Holly4212011[/QUOTE]
<div>Makes me smile every time someone busts it out</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:ce0b8151-295b-4a93-a2c2-959d5fbb34b6">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Speak for yourself. I'm a goddammned fucking lady. Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE] Believe me, I don't honestly think a few f-bombs make a person any less a lady. I was speaking for what I imagine was their reasoning in censoring those words. I imagine that all the people who make these decisions think like kristin#s and drink mint juleps all day long. It's the abundance of mint juleps that causes the IT wonkiness, I tell ya.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:54b47ebb-9158-4beb-a645-3f013fdf9374">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE] I just feel like it's a major affront to the privacy of the kid. I've always thought similarly in reference to naked babies in TV commercials, before the advent of the internet. Like, nobody asked the kid if they wanted their private parts splashed all over the place. I'd feel really violated if I grew up and learned that photos like that of me were shared. And I'm especially disappointed in this person, I thought she was better than that. Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
H and I just had this conversation earlier this week. No naked pics. And really not a whole lot of regular pics for that matter. H said it's weird to document someone else's entire life on the internet for all to see. And I totally agreed with his point. I wouldn't want my whole life story, in pictures, broadcast all over. Just no.
Our conversation started because of H's friend's wife's (ha!) FB post. She's about 25 weeks and it was a weird shot from the the crotch up (never seen such a thing before). Anyway, the balls were on full display with a supposedly cute caption saying "Yup we're definitely having a boy!" This couple makes me sick.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:0951bafb-7291-4e8f-a931-57f2e8dab466">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Believe me, I don't honestly think a few f-bombs make a person any less a lady. I was speaking for what I imagine was their reasoning in censoring those words. I imagine that all the people who make these decisions think like kristin#s and drink mint juleps all day long. It's the abundance of mint juleps that causes the IT wonkiness, I tell ya. Posted by ThankfulSnail[/QUOTE]
<div>I bet after a few mint juleps Kristin#s drops some eff bombs too. Girl's got some hidden spunk.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:e7103c39-c121-4bc9-bd89-b76455615307">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]Snail, I would also have a long discussion about how money will be handled in the future (regarding shared financial obligations INCLUDING SAVING), and <strong>I think if he manages to get his shiiit together in the 30 days, that he should have another 30 days to show that he's capable of sticking to the shared financial obligation plan as well before you truly move forward with anything.</strong> Angel, I'm sorry your sister is a bitchface gutterslut. Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE] I think this is probably a very reasonable plan. But it's also a very scary plan. I don't know if I can put off some of the planning stuff we have left for much beyond 30 days, and if we decide to postpone, I'm going to owe a lot of money to a lot of people... not to mention, FI hasn't told his mom what's going on yet, so I'm kind of having to still get some wedding stuff done that she's on me about during our hiatus.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:e237a3ad-237b-4235-a67c-177665716824">Re:Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]J, that's exactly what she is. So many people with FI/H problems lately, is there something in the water? Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]
<div>I think people are more open with them. Since the E board has gone "soft" it's also gotten more supportive.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:55740336-e70d-4281-95c8-cb0985364881">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]Mint juleps are awesome! I wouldn't mind drinking those all day. Muni, we should switch between mimoasas and mint juleps at the pool. Posted by ArynBaker[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:a4e22038-3eec-459e-b4ad-ede238981dc5">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]bitchface gutterslut. Love it. Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE] I thought the same thing.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:bcb8daab-2e12-4ee3-a170-0cdd0943bc4c">Re:Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : I think people are more open with them. Since the E board has gone "soft" it's also gotten more supportive. Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE] Agreed. TK doesn't really have a marital issues board like TN does, so it defaults to the chatty threads.<div> </div><div>I think.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:260f3909-d0d8-40ae-a349-3db8c639d318">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]So many people drinking tonight. I, on the other hand, am having a bowl of cereal. I am the wild and crazy type. Posted by Holly4212011[/QUOTE]
<div>I was treading the thought of having a bowl of cereal with my glass of wine, and quickly nixed the idea. The wine won. </div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:119a3cce-cb19-457d-88b6-594981a2f30f">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]Muni, I found the pictures and I love them. :) I get really into singing too so who knows what kind of crazy faces the photographers will catch on me. Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
<div>Thanks (: I can't wait to see yours too :P</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:c0872b8b-98c9-4e44-aa8e-8e96c376bbde">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : I was treading the thought of having a bowl of cereal with my glass of wine, and quickly nixed the idea. The wine won. Posted by heb557[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:92c39088-c2d4-4386-b2b0-160ee733d0f5">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]Tracy, that is disgusting. Who thinks that is okay?!? Or "cute"? Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
Right? I really can't stand her updates. I've hidden her from my news feed so I can still go in when I need a good laugh. I mentioned this one before but she also announced the pregnancy at probably 2 weeks from our calculations. Profile pic was her holding the pee stick (still wet I'm sure) over her bare midriff, her hands doing that overdone heart thing. But it was inspired by Pinterest so I guess that makes it cute?
She also update every time she threw up. Every.single.time. Not even kidding.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:91669aa5-48e2-4ab1-8557-e3408606bf9b">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Wine is my kind of dinner. Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]
<div>I consider myself a "new" wine drinker. I only used to drink beer, now mostly just wine. My "tastes" are still adjusting so i'm mostly white wine for now, starting to adjust to red. Random, I know.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_too-early-for-evening-thread-i-dont-care?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3395bc59-d335-47ab-acc4-31cd6f7e5126Post:24e57032-764d-4512-8e71-f0ff0eb77f15">Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Right? I really can't stand her updates. I've hidden her from my news feed so I can still go in when I need a good laugh. I mentioned this one before but she also announced the pregnancy at probably 2 weeks from our calculations. Profile pic was her holding the pee stick (still wet I'm sure) over her bare midriff, her hands doing that overdone heart thing. But it was inspired by Pinterest so I guess that makes it cute? She also update every time she threw up. Every.single.time. Not even kidding. Posted by tracym77[/QUOTE]
<div>ewwwww. Don't these people ever think about the fact that everything they post on FB is on the INTERNET FOREVER.</div>
Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care.
Angel - I'm really sorry you're having to deal with this. I'm here if you ever need to talk.
Snail - I think you acted incredibly strong tonight. It takes a lot to do that. I hope it all works out for the best.
[QUOTE]I just get pissed off about the curse words on TK thing. This is a WEDDING forum. Most of the people on here are grown adults (all of them should be in my opinion, but I'm not going to launch into a teen wedding tirade) and as such, should be able to use whatever foul, indecent, an unladylike language we so choose.
Posted by ThankfulSnail[/QUOTE]
<div>Speak for yourself. I'm a goddammned fucking lady. </div>
Angel, I'm sorry your sister is a bitchface gutterslut.
Everything the light touches is my kingdom.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : I really, really love this term.
Posted by Holly4212011[/QUOTE]
<div>Makes me smile every time someone busts it out</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Speak for yourself. I'm a goddammned fucking lady.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]
Believe me, I don't honestly think a few f-bombs make a person any less a lady. I was speaking for what I imagine was their reasoning in censoring those words. I imagine that all the people who make these decisions think like kristin#s and drink mint juleps all day long. It's the abundance of mint juleps that causes the IT wonkiness, I tell ya.
[QUOTE] I just feel like it's a major affront to the privacy of the kid. I've always thought similarly in reference to naked babies in TV commercials, before the advent of the internet. Like, nobody asked the kid if they wanted their private parts splashed all over the place. I'd feel really violated if I grew up and learned that photos like that of me were shared. And I'm especially disappointed in this person, I thought she was better than that.
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
H and I just had this conversation earlier this week. No naked pics. And really not a whole lot of regular pics for that matter. H said it's weird to document someone else's entire life on the internet for all to see. And I totally agreed with his point. I wouldn't want my whole life story, in pictures, broadcast all over. Just no.
Our conversation started because of H's friend's wife's (ha!) FB post. She's about 25 weeks and it was a weird shot from the the crotch up (never seen such a thing before). Anyway, the balls were on full display with a supposedly cute caption saying "Yup we're definitely having a boy!" This couple makes me sick.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Believe me, I don't honestly think a few f-bombs make a person any less a lady. I was speaking for what I imagine was their reasoning in censoring those words. I imagine that all the people who make these decisions think like kristin#s and drink mint juleps all day long. It's the abundance of mint juleps that causes the IT wonkiness, I tell ya.
Posted by ThankfulSnail[/QUOTE]
<div>I bet after a few mint juleps Kristin#s drops some eff bombs too. Girl's got some hidden spunk.</div>
Angel, no clue. Maybe we'll get lucky and they'll all realize how fucking fabulous we are, shape up, and stop being shitty assholes.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]Snail, I would also have a long discussion about how money will be handled in the future (regarding shared financial obligations INCLUDING SAVING), and <strong>I think if he manages to get his shiiit together in the 30 days, that he should have another 30 days to show that he's capable of sticking to the shared financial obligation plan as well before you truly move forward with anything.</strong> Angel, I'm sorry your sister is a bitchface gutterslut.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
I think this is probably a very reasonable plan. But it's also a very scary plan. I don't know if I can put off some of the planning stuff we have left for much beyond 30 days, and if we decide to postpone, I'm going to owe a lot of money to a lot of people... not to mention, FI hasn't told his mom what's going on yet, so I'm kind of having to still get some wedding stuff done that she's on me about during our hiatus.
[QUOTE]J, that's exactly what she is. So many people with FI/H problems lately, is there something in the water?
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]
<div>I think people are more open with them. Since the E board has gone "soft" it's also gotten more supportive.</div>
[QUOTE]Mint juleps are awesome! I wouldn't mind drinking those all day. Muni, we should switch between mimoasas and mint juleps at the pool.
Posted by ArynBaker[/QUOTE]
<div>EXCELLENT plan.</div>
[QUOTE]bitchface gutterslut. Love it.
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]
I thought the same thing.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : I think people are more open with them. Since the E board has gone "soft" it's also gotten more supportive.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]
Agreed. TK doesn't really have a marital issues board like TN does, so it defaults to the chatty threads.<div>
</div><div>I think.</div>
[QUOTE]So many people drinking tonight. I, on the other hand, am having a bowl of cereal. I am the wild and crazy type.
Posted by Holly4212011[/QUOTE]
<div>I was treading the thought of having a bowl of cereal with my glass of wine, and quickly nixed the idea. The wine won. </div>
We're Married!! And I couldn't be happier!
[QUOTE]Muni, I found the pictures and I love them. :) I get really into singing too so who knows what kind of crazy faces the photographers will catch on me.
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
<div>Thanks (: I can't wait to see yours too :P</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : I was treading the thought of having a bowl of cereal with my glass of wine, and quickly nixed the idea. The wine won.
Posted by heb557[/QUOTE]
<div>Wine is my kind of dinner.</div>
[QUOTE]Tracy, that is disgusting. Who thinks that is okay?!? Or "cute"?
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
Right? I really can't stand her updates. I've hidden her from my news feed so I can still go in when I need a good laugh. I mentioned this one before but she also announced the pregnancy at probably 2 weeks from our calculations. Profile pic was her holding the pee stick (still wet I'm sure) over her bare midriff, her hands doing that overdone heart thing. But it was inspired by Pinterest so I guess that makes it cute?
She also update every time she threw up. Every.single.time. Not even kidding.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Wine is my kind of dinner.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]
<div>I consider myself a "new" wine drinker. I only used to drink beer, now mostly just wine. My "tastes" are still adjusting so i'm mostly white wine for now, starting to adjust to red. Random, I know.</div>
We're Married!! And I couldn't be happier!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Too early for evening thread? I don't care. : Right? I really can't stand her updates. I've hidden her from my news feed so I can still go in when I need a good laugh. I mentioned this one before but she also announced the pregnancy at probably 2 weeks from our calculations. Profile pic was her holding the pee stick (still wet I'm sure) over her bare midriff, her hands doing that overdone heart thing. But it was inspired by Pinterest so I guess that makes it cute? She also update every time she threw up. Every.single.time. Not even kidding.
Posted by tracym77[/QUOTE]
<div>ewwwww. Don't these people ever think about the fact that everything they post on FB is on the INTERNET FOREVER.</div>