I was curious as to if anyone getting married in a Christian Church was having the same issue. My fiance and I just moved in together mainly to save for the wedding as we don't expect nor anticipate any financial help from our families. We both had houses and thought it silly to pay 2 mortgages when we could save money for the wedding. Additionally we are both full time students Anyway, now we are being told that we may not be able to have our wedding in the church because we live together. Is this common at every Christian Church?? I was raised and am a member at the Church we are looking into but now it seems we will need to find an alternative. I'd still like to get married in a church though. Any ideas?? Or similar problems??