do it up, get it outta your system.
i judge this creepy guy @ work, he is actively trying to get fat and eats a 1lb family microwave lasagna or pasta everyday at lunch and its so freaking gross. i just dont getting purposely trying to be unhealthy at all.
Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge
As for a confession I really hate H's car that he adores. I want to sell it and stop sinking money into it. Our newest repair bill is a little over a thousand dollars. I'd rather buy a new car that gets better MPG but H loves his explorer. Men.
[QUOTE]my only TK confession right now would be that i refuse to comment on any thread created by a certain poster. and i judge people who dress inappropriately in any situation.
Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]
you have to name names
[QUOTE]my only TK confession right now would be that i refuse to comment on any thread created by a certain poster. .Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]
Well now you have to say who. Or at least PM me. Because I'm nosy and want to know.
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The grievance may be with myself since I am not good with those types of situations. Im not good with the whole compassion thing. I feel bad so many people are having really difficult things going on in their lives, yet I also miss the old days when the board wasnt so heavy.
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Anyway, they are all tired of him and were saying they wouldn't be surprised if he died choking on his own vomit since he lives alone and people hardly ever go over there anymore. My confession? When they said that, I didn't care, it didn't make me sad like it did them. Then I felt bad that I didn't care. I don't want him to die, but I don't feel like I should waste my time worrying about it. It made me realize I probably need therapy or something because I have no empathy for some people.
Yesterday she left again at 3:30. to go get her daughter a 'Welcome Home' cake & balloons. Her daughter was in FL for two weeks!! I hear about her daughter (whom I used to work with) at least 20 times a day. Drive me crazy.
[QUOTE]In Response to AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : Has he said why he is actively trying to be fat? I'm just curious.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]
nope, just that hes trying to gain weight. hes pretty short too, it makes no sense to us
She didn't air anything in public, she didn't ask for help in public, it was all private. She just needed to find someone.
Do not mess in the affairs of dinosaurs because you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.
I love you Missy. Even though you are not smart enough to take online quizzes to find out really important information. ~cew
Hey, has anyone heard from LTZ? The last I saw from her was the crazytrain thread where nothing was making sense. I like her and I want her to come back...
[QUOTE]I have a grievance with people thinking Ang's thread last night was weird. She needed some help, sought it where she knew she'd probably find the people she needed, and got it. She didn't air anything in public, she didn't ask for help in public, it was all private. She just needed to find someone.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]
<div>i agree. if someone needs help, and she sounded seriously upset, who cares where they get it or how they ask for it. </div>
[QUOTE]My grievance is that I feel like SB has turned into the self-help group therapy session board as of late. The grievance my be with myself since I am not good with those types of situations. Im not good with the whole compassion thing. I feel bad so many people are having really difficult things going on in their lives, yet I also miss the old days when the board wasnt so heavy.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
I actually am a very compassionate person, but I have a similar problem. I don't feel like people on the board know me very well a lot of times, and when they post abotu a problem I think they probably don't want me (personally) to post a response--I mean, why would you want sympathy or advice from someone you really don't know? I get worried that it makes me seem unsympathetic, when I am not.
[QUOTE]well hopefully this doesn't start a tk war but stacie + luciano or whatever it is. it REALLY bothered me when she was going to get rid of her dog for chewing her shoes and that whole flame fest. but i got over it as a lot of people seemed to, and then recently i saw her being a biitch to someone on the threads and i'm forever annoyed by her.
Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]
She's a dumb cvnt. TK war averted.
[QUOTE]I judge my cousin and her immediate family. Hardcore. She lost an arm in a car accident a few years ago after rolling her VW Bug across the freeway. She was underage and drunk and damned lucky that no one else was hurt. I recently found out that the family's "official" story is that she was driving home from the library, fatigued from pulling an all nighter, and lost control of the vehicle. This boldfaced lie makes the volumes of self-congratulatory "God saved her for his special purpose!" BS that they keep spewing even more annoying than it already is.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]
I judge this too. I also <strong>really</strong> hate drunk drivers
[QUOTE]I judge my cousin and her immediate family. Hardcore. She lost an arm in a car accident a few years ago after rolling her VW Bug across the freeway. She was underage and drunk and damned lucky that no one else was hurt. I recently found out that the family's "official" story is that she was driving home from the library, fatigued from pulling an all nighter, and lost control of the vehicle. This boldfaced lie makes the volumes of self-congratulatory "God saved her for his special purpose!" BS that they keep spewing even more annoying than it already is.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]
I, angrily, judge this too. I really don't have the words to convey how pissed I am that people are like this.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : I actually am a very compassionate person, but I have a similar problem. I don't feel like people on the board know me very well a lot of times, and when they post abotu a problem I think they probably don't want me (personally) to post a response--I mean, why would you want sympathy or advice from someone you really don't know? I get worried that it makes me seem unsympathetic, when I am not.
Posted by arwo[/QUOTE]
I can relate to this. I have a degree in psychology and I'm a damned good listener IRL, but online? Not so much. There's only so much you can say if you aren't religious enough to sincerely offer up "thoughts and prayers," and "vibes" is so overused that it's basically meaningless. It's not that I don't care. It's just that I often don't know what to say that hasn't already been said.