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vallyhoo · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:2a786ebd-8838-41e8-bbf4-172a9a13c594">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : OMG MY KITTEN IS STUCK IN A TREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

And if your kitten is stuck up a tree or your kitchen IS on fire, don't post on a message board anyway.

YWIA.

danieliza1127 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:e1140478-63aa-46c4-a927-d2f88a871f38">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I am surprised you are still saying this. I think a ton of us (not all, sure) cross post all the time. I think it is immature to drag your feet and say you won't participate in a fun thread just because you are mad you have to leave your comfort zone.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

I'll give you that. I know it's lame that it bugs me, but it does.

Yes you do cross post but not nearly enough to make E what it used to be. It's dead here now.

wadingmoose · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:abaa415a-a4d3-4822-9dae-0818bc01d33a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : And if your kitten is stuck up a tree or your kitchen IS on fire, don't post on a message board anyway. YWIA.
Posted by vallyhoo[/QUOTE]

Oh. So what you're sayin' is I'm doin' it wrong. Gotcha.

So. How about Whit's husband, huh? What a jackass.

crfische · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:abaa415a-a4d3-4822-9dae-0818bc01d33a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : And if your kitten is stuck up a tree or your kitchen IS on fire, don't post on a message board anyway. YWIA.
Posted by vallyhoo[/QUOTE]

No, in true E fashion, you should post about what you SHOULD do because your kitten is in a tree and your kitchen is on fire. Then, you wait for at least 5 responses and do what the majority say.

And I like ET&F day. It's more accurate.

missy68 · May 2010

liz, I went to counseling with an MSW with my ex, I went without him, I went to my minister both with and without him, and he NEVER.SAW.THE big picture.

As far as my divorce went, I stayed for 4 years, because I didn't want to be the failure in my family. I knew after 6 months I'd made a bad decision.

He was controlling, only saw black and white, argumentative, never let an argument die, and I spent an evening in the hospital because of his emotional abuse.

The day he found out I was going to separate, he cut off my phone, hid the computer cords, changed the password to get into the computer, etc. When I did return to the house (after buying a new phone with a new number), he wanted me to pay half the cancellation fee. Then decided he'd have a sheriff at the house when I left to make sure every item that left, I could prove was mine. The next 2 nights I slept on the couch, with my purse under my head so he couldn't take my car keys. My grandmother's silver went to school with me along with a coin collection he knew about.

I moved out 2 days later with my father and a team of "moving & security* experts. Tell me that was the easy way out.

EDIT: I spent too long writing. The subject's changed. Never mind me...

mandapanda78 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:2a786ebd-8838-41e8-bbf4-172a9a13c594">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : OMG MY KITTEN IS STUCK IN A TREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

<div>Totally appropriate use of caps and excessive punctuation. I'm on my way and I'm bringing a ladder!</div>

goheels05 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:1fd29b52-5b1e-47eb-9b0c-9c8d06bbf3f6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Why, because some people said her humour wasn't what some people think as funny? Seems a little silly. And I don't care what board you post on at all...I <strong>thought</strong> you were a part of that conversation about not wanting the drama that is here. You hardly post here anymore either.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

Well, you thought wrong.

People have said far worse to cew. Anyway, I can't talk for cew. If she wants to share why she left, that's up to her, I really shouldn't even comment. All I meant was I don't understand why people who don't think she is funny giveashit if she doesn't post here.

wadingmoose · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:4b48c7d2-cadb-4953-993a-a60d010f1a8b">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Totally appropriate use of caps and excessive punctuation. I'm on my way and I'm bringing a ladder!
Posted by mandapanda78[/QUOTE]

Oh. So I should get a kitten and a tree?

Nebb · May 2010

I have to flame the painfully excessive amount of fucking baby talk going on, on this board. I totally get that some of the posters are pregnant/have babies but come on! The second one of them posts the discussion veers to "how is your pregnancy" or "zomgg!! your baby is so cute!! lets talk about babies!!".

lizstill13 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:8da97ceb-6b5d-4c5f-996e-17ada7c56f2f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Easy assumption to make. Do you actually know what the issues are? Do you know what they've tried to do to solve them? I guarantee my friends and family really have no clue what my ex and I tried to save our marriage. Most don't even fully know why we divorced.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

I was just saying that's what I thought Shelly meant by "easy". In most cases I would say that divorce is a valid option because the marriage can't be saved, no matter what the 2 people involved just aren't the same anymore. But in some cases I truly think 1 person has given up and 1 person has no idea what happened or why their spouse left. And instead of the one leaving saying "This is what's botherin me, let's talk about it" they just file for divorce. In SOME cases, definitely not all.

georgia_bride09 · May 2010

[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No, in true E fashion, you should post about what you SHOULD do because your kitten is in a tree and your kitchen is on fire. <strong>Then, you wait for at least 5 responses and do what the majority say.</strong> And I like ET&F day. It's more accurate.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

But not before you decide you only like half the answers and complain about the others being rude. :)

pumpkinpumpkin · May 2010

Well, you thought wrong.

Yah, and I ADMITTED it when I said, "thought". FUUCK YOU. You're off your rocker bitchy lately. And no, it's not me. It seems the only time you post here is to biitch at me. Hope you're enjoying it.

MeaghanandMichael · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:2903c09f-fba6-493d-8fa4-0aa05238cdb9">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'll give you that. I know it's lame that it bugs me, but it does. Yes you do cross post but not nearly enough to make E what it used to be. It's dead here now.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

To be fair, SB has not exactly been hopping except for a few nights lately... admittedly work has taken over my life and I have not been around much either, but in general the boards are dead. Even my local, which is one of the most active boards on TK, has not had a decent post in weeks.

mandybear7 · May 2010

MISSCOURTNEY. I know she's been flamed here the past two Fridays, but she's still posting, and it's still ridiculous.

goheels05 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:ae92ba21-a862-4880-b083-f87b53014dba">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Hahahahaha, so true! Heels, also Betrothed doesn't post here anymore. Anyway, sorry if I lumped you in, I don't remember specifically who in that post said those things but it was definitely several people, not just one.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

No biggy. I gots love for ya.

goheels05 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:05c5e76e-62d1-4140-93fc-aeef0a04ce1f">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Well, you thought wrong. Yah, and I ADMITTED it when I said, "thought". FUUCK YOU. You're off your rocker bitchy lately. And no, it's not me. It seems the only time you post here is to biitch at me. Hope you're enjoying it.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

HAHAHAHAHA kind of like when you went apeshit on me even after I admitted I was wrong in our last little spat? Hi, hippo, here's your crate.

No, I don't just post here to bitch at you. In fact, I have you blocked. I unblocked you when I realized you were talking about me.

J&K10910 · May 2010

Gosh, I'm excited for the NEXT FFF now that I'm banned from working over time for the forseeable future. I might have something to contribute.

salt78 · May 2010

I flame psichick. Because she sucks in general.

Now I shall wait patiently for her to come in here and "I'm rubber, you're glue" me.

wadingmoose · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:550f55b0-8839-43de-a48d-f3b543f7d86a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]liz, I went to counseling with an MSW with my ex, I went without him, I went to my minister both with and without him, and he NEVER.SAW.THE big picture. As far as my divorce went, I stayed for 4 years, because I didn't want to be the failure in my family. I knew after 6 months I'd made a bad decision. He was controlling, only saw black and white, argumentative, never let an argument die, and I spent an evening in the hospital because of his emotional abuse. The day he found out I was going to separate, he cut off my phone, hid the computer cords, changed the password to get into the computer, etc. When I did return to the house (after buying a new phone with a new number), he wanted me to pay half the cancellation fee. Then decided he'd have a sheriff at the house when I left to make sure every item that left, I could prove was mine. The next 2 nights I slept on the couch, with my purse under my head so he couldn't take my car keys. My grandmother's silver went to school with me along with a coin collection he knew about. I moved out 2 days later with my father and a team of "moving & security* experts. Tell me that was the easy way out. EDIT: I spent too long writing. The subject's changed. Never mind me...
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

::hugs:: Missy. That sounds awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

lizstill13 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:550f55b0-8839-43de-a48d-f3b543f7d86a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]liz, I went to counseling with an MSW with my ex, I went without him, I went to my minister both with and without him, and he NEVER.SAW.THE big picture. As far as my divorce went, I stayed for 4 years, because I didn't want to be the failure in my family. I knew after 6 months I'd made a bad decision. He was controlling, only saw black and white, argumentative, never let an argument die, and I spent an evening in the hospital because of his emotional abuse. The day he found out I was going to separate, he cut off my phone, hid the computer cords, changed the password to get into the computer, etc. When I did return to the house (after buying a new phone with a new number), he wanted me to pay half the cancellation fee. Then decided he'd have a sheriff at the house when I left to make sure every item that left, I could prove was mine. The next 2 nights I slept on the couch, with my purse under my head so he couldn't take my car keys. My grandmother's silver went to school with me along with a coin collection he knew about. I moved out 2 days later with my father and a team of "moving & security* experts. Tell me that was the easy way out. EDIT: I spent too long writing. The subject's changed. Never mind me...
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

This is not what I was referring to at all. I am talking about the people, like shelly said, that are 24 and already married and divorced and engaged/married again. They didn't even want to try, like a 7 year old who can't figure out the math problem and just goes outside to play instead of working to figure it out. (Bad analogy, I know). I'm not saying it's easy, but it happens entirely to much to think that a lot of people want to work at it when they can just give up and go play.

pumpkinpumpkin · May 2010

If we're all over the OB/clique drama, then why are we still talking about it? I was enjoying the chatter of SB without the stupid No Kids!!!!!! posts and OB bullsh!t. Now it's on this board too. Back to Flowers and DIY, I guess. --Bec

Sorry Heels, I was thinking of this exact comment, I thought it was from you. I WAS WRONG.

pumpkinpumpkin · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:667745a2-d8e2-4a4f-b90a-4070aef2ef51">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : HAHAHAHAHA kind of like when you went apeshit on me even after I admitted I was wrong in our last little spat? Hi, hippo, here's your crate. No, I don't just post here to bitch at you. In fact, I have you blocked. I unblocked you when I realized you were talking about me.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

boofuckinghoo. Really. You think that bothers me?

EDIT: How did you know I was talking about you anyway, if you have me blocked and all. Because even where my comment was quoted, it wasn't talking about you...I used your name in a generalization. That =/= talking about you.

wadingmoose · May 2010

Staying with my husband would've been infinitely easier than going through a divorce and starting my life over. I didn't believe that until I actually got divorced. I thought like you did.

I was very, very wrong. Only I did everything I possibly could to fix it first. THEN I went for the "easy way out." You have no idea.

J&K10910 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:9815406a-3cd7-423c-857f-8833b5cbdad2">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame psichick. Because she sucks in general. Now I shall wait patiently for her to come in here and "I'm rubber, you're glue" me.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Can I sit on your couch with you? I've disliked her since she insulted me during one of my pathetic job hunting advice posts.

sarabellam · May 2010

Hugs to you, Missy. I'm going to generalize here, but divorce isn't the easy way out for the vast majority of the people who go through it. Mine was relatively easy, and I still feel like a failure sometimes.

I know, I'm doing it wrong. Back to your regularly scheduled FFF.

mandysmear · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:1fd29b52-5b1e-47eb-9b0c-9c8d06bbf3f6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Why, because some people said her humour wasn't what some people think as funny? Seems a little silly. And I don't care what board you post on at all...I thought you were a part of that conversation about not wanting the drama that is here. You hardly post here anymore either.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

FFF starts way too early. Still catching up. But, this is what I was thinking when I read that about Cew. She has it in her head that I hate her or something. When all I said MONTHS ago was that I didn't think she was that funny and I didn't get the cew love. That does not mean I hate her. I don't even dislike her. I just never loved her.

So, there's my take on it. I can't speak for anyone else, but if thats why she doesn't post her, yes it's pretty silly. East (and I'm sure lots of others) doesn't like me, doesn't mean I'm going to switch boards.

goheels05 · May 2010

Someone who didn't know I had you blocked told me.

pumpkinpumpkin · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:394d5b1e-089d-4978-8993-3e374afca6de">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Someone who didn't know I had you blocked told me.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

Told you what? I didn't say anything?? And why would they tell you? This is retarded.

lizstill13 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:b5e25353-bd8d-4a28-8e4a-eeb13a219539">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Staying with my husband would've been infinitely easier than going through a divorce and starting my life over. I didn't believe that until I actually got divorced. I thought like you did. I was very, very wrong. <strong>Only I did everything I possibly could to fix it first.</strong> THEN I went for the "easy way out." You have no idea.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

Exactly, you did everything to try to fix, I'm talking about the couples that DON'T do a damned thing to try to fix it. That's when I say they are taking the "easy" way (in quotations because I don't think it's actually the easy way) out.

And you're right, I don't have an idea, and I'm not talking about your situation. Just like shelly said, "I'm generalizing", that it must be easy for some people. Not always, but some. I'm making almost the exact same comment and I'm the one getting flamed for it.

mandybear7 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:47795220-dfbd-4d45-9266-8394d797d322Post:9815406a-3cd7-423c-857f-8833b5cbdad2">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame psichick. Because she sucks in general. Now I shall wait patiently for her to come in here and "I'm rubber, you're glue" me.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

I also find it strange that she often types long and high and mighty sounding posts, but can't be bothered to capitalize. Just an observation.

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