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ill natured women...

When I see someone venting out on these different boards theknot has, it doesn't surpise me that the same women who reply back to these vents just have negative harsh comments...Being frank and upfront with people you really don't know isn't the way to go...can you honestly say that you would reply the same way if you were face to face? Just because you're behind a computer doesn't give you the right to spew out such hateful comments.. Sure, you can be truthful and direct, but you don't need to add sarcasm to cruel words...

I don't condone fighting with fists or any other body part to solve a problem, but if someone hits you, I doubt you'd be standing there quietly showing a peace sign with your fingers while you're taking a beating...You better f*cken believe you're gonna end up at the hospital if you pull that sh*t with me..

I see sby's everywhere...

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    [QUOTE]When I see someone venting out on these different boards theknot has, it doesn't surpise me that the same women who reply back to these vents just have negative harsh comments...Being frank and upfront with people you really don't know isn't the way to go...can you honestly say that you would reply the same way if you were face to face? Just because you're behind a computer doesn't give you the right to spew out such hateful comments.. Sure, you can be truthful and direct, but you don't need to add sarcasm to cruel words... I see sby's everywhere...
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
    I see it's time for the monthly "You're all so mean" flaming.  Pardon me while I go get my marshmallows and graham crackers...

    Ah, that's better.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to ill natured women... :  Don't let the door hit you on the way out.  The assprints are really hard to clean off.
    Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

    <div>This. </div><div>
    </div><div>Really, you post this to the very boards you're whining about. Somebody call the whaambulance.</div>
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  • edited June 2010
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:6222fa19-6104-423b-a105-ad1d2547730c">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to ill natured women... You are not The Chosen One, destined to show us the error of our ways.  Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

    Again..you prove my point....and "error of our ways?" ...thank you for reestablishing what I'm saying..
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  • Sby's? I googled and I got Space Battleship Yamato, which I'm guessing is not what you're talking about?
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    [QUOTE]Sby's? I googled and I got Space Battleship Yamato, which I'm guessing is not what you're talking about?
    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

    lol..yeah..but that's funny though..
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  • I think PPs interpreted it perfectly. Yes, I talk to people on these boards the same way I talk to them in real life. When someone has a situation I can sympathize with, then I will be more than happy to commiserate and offer support.

    I do not, however, IRL or otherwise, stay silent about bad behavior, bad manners, entitled attitudes, or unwarranted poor me pity parties. I wll call my best friends out on it the same way I call strangers out on it. Sometimes people need a reality check, even me, and I appreciate all the posters here who have provided that to me in the past.

    So yes, you are whining about how "mean" people can be. Too bad. This is who we are and we aren't going anywhere. You are also not the first person to tell us this after they got all mad about something that was said.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : lol..yeah..but that's funny though..
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
    I was legitimately asking. What's sby?
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  • What was the point of this post?
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  • I don't know what an SBY is either, Laurenclaire.  But I have a hunch that I am one. 
  • Oh yuck. This is ridiculous. Jesus. Get over yourself. You are not going to change the world with your little rant. All you're going to do is further convince us that you are a gigantic bag of ass. Congratulations. Mission accomplished.

    And what the fuuck is a SBY?
  • OWN, I'm sure I fall into the SBY category as well. But I'm really genuinely curious. Google has failed me.
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  • OP is just upset that no one will "ban" BP with her.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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  • Oh, I didn't realize she was that chick.
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    edited June 2010
    OP, you can go be internet friends with this lady and live in the world of puppies and rainbows and bad ideas:
    http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ever-think-before-insulting-someone
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    [QUOTE]I think PPs interpreted it perfectly. I do not, however, IRL or otherwise, stay silent about bad behavior, bad manners, entitled attitudes, or unwarranted poor me pity parties. So yes, you are whining about how "mean" people can be. Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

    So you don't stay silent about bad behavior, bad manners, attitudes....again..you're proving my point about the reason behind my post...And if you consider what I'm posting as whining, that's silly to me..I'm stating how cruel comments and sarcasm are not the way to go...
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : So you don't stay silent about bad behavior, bad manners, attitudes....again..you're proving my point about the reason behind my post...And if you consider what I'm posting as whining, that's silly to me..I'm stating how cruel comments and sarcasm are not the way to go...
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
    Well, please enlighten us on the way to go. Tell us how to post. Seriously. I'd love to hear your input.
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    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]
    what google fail? naah can't be true :P i took a peek at your bio and your dress is breathtaking!!!  :)
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  • Clearly I've been doing it wrong all these years.  Please OP, show me the way.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Well, please enlighten us on the way to go. Tell us how to post. Seriously. I'd love to hear your input.
    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

    This is what I'm saying...You don't need to be cruel or sarcastic when someone comes to these boards and has a problem that people might not relate to..that people might not understand..Try to be more openminded..that's all I'm saying..I'm not whining or ranting..honestly, it's funny how posts can go completely off the path..lol
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : So you don't stay silent about bad behavior, bad manners, attitudes....again..you're proving my point about the reason behind my post...And if you consider what I'm posting as whining, that's silly to me..I'm stating how cruel comments and sarcasm are not the way to go...
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]

    I said nothing about cruel comments. In your OP, you said that frankness and honesty were not the way to respond to posts on these board. I'm sorry, but if you came here to get lied to (dishonest replies), then you came to the wrong place. Why would you post on an international board full of strangers if you don't want someone to be honest with you? You can lie to yourself all day long, without the interference of others.

    I don't think anyone should be silent about bad manners, bad behavior, and entitled attitudes. Silence and commiseration only validate those awful things.

    Like I said, I have been given a reality check or 2 here over the time I have been posting, and I really appreciate it.
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  • Aw thanks! I'm really excited to wear it.
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  • Not just google, but urban dictionary has nothing, either (it says sby = sombody).  OP, I know you're here:  what's an sby?  Why do you see them everywhere? 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : This is what I'm saying...You don't need to be cruel or sarcastic when someone comes to these boards and has a problem that people might not relate to..that people might not understand..Try to be more openminded..that's all I'm saying..I'm not whining or ranting..honestly, it's funny how posts can go completely off the path<strong>..lol</strong>
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]

    Were you really laughing out loud just then? Because if so, that's just weird.
  • edited June 2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I said nothing about cruel comments. In your OP, you said that frankness and honesty were not the way to respond to posts on these board. Posted by SarahPLiz[/QUOTE]

    ah ok..then I do apologize because what I meant was that cruel/sarcastic comments are not the way to go...but being truthful and direct is fine..but without the mean ill spirited comments..
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : This is what I'm saying...You don't need to be cruel or sarcastic when someone comes to these boards and has a problem that people might not relate to..that people might not understand..Try to be more openminded..that's all I'm saying..I'm not whining or ranting..honestly, it's funny how posts can go completely off the path..lol
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
    Sarcasm =/= cruelty.  You need some thicker skin.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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  • She did the same thing on WW, told everyone to leave and focus on the topic at hand and not be so mean.
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    [QUOTE]She did the same thing on WW, told everyone to leave and focus on the topic at hand and not be so mean.
    Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

    Its a good thing I don't post on WW. I would be crushed if she told me I wasn't welcome because I have ADD and can't stay on task.
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    [QUOTE]She did the same thing on WW, told everyone to leave and focus on the topic at hand and not be so mean.
    Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

    Umm..yes I did say not to be mean to people..I don't see how this makes me wrong..I don't understand what point you're trying to make here?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Umm..yes I did say not to be mean to people..I don't see how this makes me wrong..I don't understand what point you're trying to make here?
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
    Here's her point: You are obnoxious because fo this stupid crap.  You are not the board mom.  You don't get to tell people how to respond.    If you don't like the way people around here respond you leave.  You don't tell people to change their ways to accommodate you.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : This is what I'm saying...<strong>You don't need to be cruel or sarcastic when someone comes to these boards and has a problem that people might not relate to</strong>..that people might not understand..Try to be more openminded..that's all I'm saying..I'm not whining or ranting..honestly, it's funny how posts can go completely off the path..lol
    Posted by qtxvixen[/QUOTE]
    One period will suffice to end a sentence.

    If it's a serious problem, then no I'm not sarcastic. I'll refer you over to the Snarky Brides board for a post titled "How to break off my engagement" or something like that. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_call-off-engagement" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_call-off-engagement</a>
     I was really nice to the OP because it's a serious problem. I've never gone through that situation, so I can't relate to it directly, but I'm not incapable of being empathetic or sympathetic. I do, however, reserve the right to be sarcastic as I see fit. And I see fit when an OP is being a ridiculous douche.
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