(Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.)

AllAboutTheBenjamin · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : You're right, I didn't answer his call. Truthfully, I wasn't super available (at sleep, at work with no reception), but I don't feel like he tried very hard either. At that point, I had been trying to reach him for 3 or 4 days to ask him about being in our wedding. I wasn't mad he didn't get back to me right away - we usually just go back and forth with phone tag until it works. <strong> I guess really I just feel a little disappointed to hear the news from her rather than him, ya know?</strong>
Posted by cbvcru67[/QUOTE]

No not really.

sleepyb · May 2012

Im irrationally irritated that now that I have a FI, I'm going to have to start spending some holidays away from my parents. We are super close. FI texted yesterday to say his mom wants to have lunch on Mother's Day and I got cranky (not with him - just internally). Called my mom to tell her I hate her for being such a great mom that I don't want to have to split up my time between her and my FILs. She couldn't stop laughing.

LetsHikeToday · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : You're right, I didn't answer his call. Truthfully, I wasn't super available (at sleep, at work with no reception), but I don't feel like he tried very hard either. At that point, I had been trying to reach him for 3 or 4 days to ask him about being in our wedding. I wasn't mad he didn't get back to me right away - we usually just go back and forth with phone tag until it works. I guess really I just feel a little disappointed to hear the news from her rather than him, ya know?
Posted by cbvcru67[/QUOTE]
So you expected her to wait to post about it on FB until you and your brother stopped playing phone tag? I think you should take it as a compliment that she texted you because it shows she cared enough for you to know.

amys325 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]Im irrationally irritated that now that I have a FI, I'm going to have to start spending some holidays away from my parents. We are super close. FI texted yesterday to say his mom wants to have lunch on Mother's Day and I got cranky (not with him - just internally). Called my mom to tell her I hate her for being such a great mom that I don't want to have to split up my time between her and my FILs. She couldn't stop laughing.
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]

Didn't you start splitting up the holidays before you got engaged? Or did you go your separate ways?

cbvcru67 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : So you expected her to wait to post about it on FB until you and your brother stopped playing phone tag? I think you should take it as a compliment that she texted you because it shows she cared enough for you to know.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

I think that's a much more positive way to frame it Hike. I appreciate that view point. This isn't something I have or planned on saying to them, they're happy and it's great. And maybe I had unrealistic expectations, because when we got engaged, we stopped what we were doing and talked to each of our siblings individually and told them the news - I just (stupidly, probably) thought that was the way it was supposed to go. We're a generally close group and I think I am sensitive living further away from them about being out of the loop.

LetsHikeToday · May 2012

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[QUOTE]Im irrationally irritated that now that I have a FI, I'm going to have to start spending some holidays away from my parents. We are super close. FI texted yesterday to say his mom wants to have lunch on Mother's Day and I got cranky (not with him - just internally). Called my mom to tell her I hate her for being such a great mom that I don't want to have to split up my time between her and my FILs. She couldn't stop laughing.
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]
<div>I'm assuming you live in the same town so you can split the day. Be thankful you don't have one set out of town because then you wouldn't be spending any part of the day with one family.</div><div>
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sleepyb · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : Didn't you start splitting up the holidays before you got engaged? Or did you go your separate ways?
Posted by amys325[/QUOTE]

Well, see, we've always just spent holidays with my family cause FI has more fun. Plus holidays with his family mean me sitting around and not understanding a word that is said all day. Then, this Easter, FI's mom called and he told her he was with me at my parent's house. She got upset and now we're trying to be better about it. The other part is that his parents are divorced so we'll need to split things 3 ways and I'll end up having panic attacks trying to be 3 places at one time.....

ETA: Again, I know it's irrational but it just hit me all of a sudden.

ETA: This past Christmas was awful cause we spent most of the day in the car getting to all 3 houses. And, everyone lives on a different side of town so it took over an hour to get to each place. The very thought of doing it with babies makes me cringe.

LetsHikeToday · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : I think that's a much more positive way to frame it Hike. I appreciate that view point. This isn't something I have or planned on saying to them, they're happy and it's great. And maybe I had unrealistic expectations, because when we got engaged, we stopped what we were doing and talked to each of our siblings individually and told them the news - I just (stupidly, probably) thought that was the way it was supposed to go. We're a generally close group and I think I am sensitive living further away from them about being out of the loop.
Posted by cbvcru67[/QUOTE]
I understand being disappointed if you guys are super close but he did try to call so I would focus on that.

Bkseller13 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : I think that's a much more positive way to frame it Hike. I appreciate that view point. This isn't something I have or planned on saying to them, they're happy and it's great. And maybe I had unrealistic expectations, because when we got engaged, we stopped what we were doing and talked to each of our siblings individually and told them the news - I just (stupidly, probably) thought that was the way it was supposed to go. We're a generally close group and I think I am sensitive living further away from them about being out of the loop.
Posted by cbvcru67[/QUOTE]

If you'd answered your phone, he would've told you individually. Don't put this on him. It's on you too. Get over the butthurt and move on.

lbarr088 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : I'm assuming you live in the same town so you can split the day. <strong>Be thankful you don't have one set out of town because then you wouldn't be spending any part of the day with one family</strong>.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

<div>This is me. My parents are an hour or so north and his are an hour or so south. We've split up during holidays now, even engaged. I'm an only child and all of our family is in NY or elsewhere so I feel bad for my parents. Obviously once married this will totally change, I just need to get over it.</div>

LetsHikeToday · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : This is me. My parents are an hour or so north and his are an hour or so south. We've split up during holidays now, even engaged. I'm an only child and all of our family is in NY or elsewhere so I feel bad for my parents. Obviously once married this will totally change, I just need to get over it.
Posted by lbarr088[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I had major guilt my first Thanksgiving with H's family. We started doing Thanksgiving with them and Christmas with mine, which I like but still miss them on Thanksgiving.

cheeseandrice · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : If you'd answered your phone, he would've told you individually. Don't put this on him. It's on you too. Get over the butthurt and move on.
Posted by Bkseller13[/QUOTE]

Why is she getting called butthurt? She said it was an irrational irritation... in an irrational irritation thread.

Bkseller13 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : Well, see, we've always just spent holidays with my family cause FI has more fun. <strong>Plus holidays with his family mean me sitting around and not understanding a word that is said all day</strong>. Then, this Easter, FI's mom called and he told her he was with me at my parent's house. She got upset and now we're trying to be better about it. The other part is that his parents are divorced so we'll need to split things 3 ways and I'll end up having panic attacks trying to be 3 places at one time.....
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]

I take it they speak a foreign language? Why don't you try to learn it (via CD or DVD)? Then you can at least try to participate. Does everyone live in the same city? If so, it shouldn't be too hard.

Wiscisbliss · May 2012

We did our own thing for several holidays when we were engaged. Our families live 4 and 8 hours away... in opposite directions. It was just easier to keep everyone happy that way. My husband said, "We have the rest of our lives to deal with the holiday splitting crap."

AllAboutTheBenjamin · May 2012

We usually went our separate ways for holidays before we got engaged. In fact I think we even spent Easter apart during our engagement because he had to work, anyway. Our first holiday together as a married couple was Thanksgiving, and we were supposed to go back to my parents', but we got snowed in and had to have it by ourselves. But we always have fun with whoever we spend holidays with. We just try to keep it fair - wherever we went last time, we go the other way the next time.

Wiscisbliss · May 2012

Ooooh. Right now TK says I am a platinum poster. Baller!

dmiller9274 · May 2012

Wisc, I never seem to be around when you are, so I wanted to tell you that your son is so stinking cute! I love the pic you have in your sig right now.

LP11509 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : Well, see, we've always just spent holidays with my family cause FI has more fun. <strong> Plus holidays with his family mean me sitting around and not understanding a word that is said all day.</strong> Then, this Easter, FI's mom called and he told her he was with me at my parent's house. She got upset and now we're trying to be better about it. The other part is that his parents are divorced so we'll need to split things 3 ways and I'll end up having panic attacks trying to be 3 places at one time..... ETA: Again, I know it's irrational but it just hit me all of a sudden. ETA: This past Christmas was awful cause we spent most of the day in the car getting to all 3 houses. And, everyone lives on a different side of town so it took over an hour to get to each place. The very thought of doing it with babies makes me cringe.
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Does his family not speak English?

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sleepyb · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : I take it they speak a foreign language? Why don't you try to learn it (via CD or DVD)? Then you can at least try to participate. Does everyone live in the same city? If so, it shouldn't be too hard.
Posted by Bkseller13[/QUOTE]

It's Vietnamese and I'm trying but it's REALLY hard and they speak sooool fast. Let's go ahead and say that since it's in Houston, it's not easy. We have North, South, and West sides to deal with.

To be honest, I envy my brother who has in-laws in California. They split up Thanksgiving and Christmas and it actually seems easier than trying to see 3 families in one day for every holiday.

ETA: My point about it being Houston was let's go ahead and act like it's not in the same city but in nearby cities.

Wiscisbliss · May 2012

Thanks Dmill! That's sweet of you to say!

LetsHikeToday · May 2012

Sleepy- Have them come to you then.

I don't know what we'll do this year with a kid and living many many many hours away.

cbvcru67 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : Well, see, we've always just spent holidays with my family cause FI has more fun. Plus holidays with his family mean me sitting around and not understanding a word that is said all day. Then, this Easter, FI's mom called and he told her he was with me at my parent's house. She got upset and now we're trying to be better about it. The other part is that his parents are divorced so we'll need to split things 3 ways and I'll end up having panic attacks trying to be 3 places at one time..... ETA: Again, I know it's irrational but it just hit me all of a sudden. ETA: This past Christmas was awful cause we spent most of the day in the car getting to all 3 houses. And, everyone lives on a different side of town so it took over an hour to get to each place. The very thought of doing it with babies makes me cringe.
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]

Now, I've already been called "butthurt" so take this with a grain of salt :) , but I don't think its that odd to kind of feel a little sad or what have you as you have to leave behind some of your family events or traditions to make time for Fi's family. That to me is ok. How you handle it makes it right or wrong .

I think you are going about it the right way - understanding how you feel and making time for Fi's family anyways because even if it IS difficult, you know it's the right thing for you guys to do

sleepyb · May 2012

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[QUOTE]Sleepy- Have them come to you then. I don't know what we'll do this year with a kid and living many many many hours away.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

I was telling FI that last night. I always have a Christmas Eve party and we'll just make that more of a Christmas with his family thing and those that want to come can. Especially once we have kids (in like 3 or 4 years).

Bkseller13 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : Why is she getting called butthurt? She said it was an irrational irritation... in an irrational irritation thread.
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]

It seems to me she keeps harping on the "he didn't tell me personally" part, even when she acknowledged that she didn't answer the phone. That suggests that she's really hurt by it when it wasn't anything intentional and she should let it go.

maratea · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : This past Christmas was awful cause we spent most of the day in the car getting to all 3 houses. And, everyone lives on a different side of town so it took over an hour to get to each place.
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]
We tried to do this between my parents and H's parents, but it was frustrating and we decided that each family gets Thanksgiving or Christmas every other year. So this year we did Christmas with my family, next year it will be with his family. And if anyone gets pissy, tough crap for them. We are our own family now and our parents need to respect that.

amys325 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : It's Vietnamese and I'm trying but it's REALLY hard and they speak sooool fast. Let's go ahead and say that since it's in Houston, it's not easy. We have North, South, and West sides to deal with. <strong>To be honest, I envy my brother who has in-laws in California. They split up Thanksgiving and Christmas and it actually seems easier than trying to see 3 families in one day for every holiday.
</strong>Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]

The bold is what we do and have done since we started dating. My family lives in Ohio (and my parents are divorced) and his parents live in Upstate NY and we live in Chicago.

It sucks not seeing your family every holiday, but you get used to it. I would LOVE to spend every holiday with my family because I have a better time. But it really irks me when people are very one sided about holidays when they get married because my stepbrother's wife always insisted he spend the holidays with her family and never spent it with my stepmother. And then she passed away and it made me sad that her only child never spent holidays with her. Because of this, I've always make it a point to make sure we are even with all family.

amys325 · May 2012

and also, I just need to tell you what a friend of mine just posted on FB...he officiates weddings...

"Grandmother of the bride collapsed and died two feet in front of me as the bride was about to walk down the aisle. They still got married though."

sleepyb · May 2012

Growing up, we would spend the major holidays in my parents' home town. We'd pick up my dad's parents and bring them to where my mom's family was celebrating. My dad only had one sister and she and her family would usually join us at some point in the day. So we were able to spend the holidays with everyone and never did the split thing.

I'd try to do the same but FI's mom and dad's families each have over 50 immediate family members that live here in town. Oh the humanity....I have 11 total between here and Louisiana.

sleepyb · May 2012

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[QUOTE]and also, I just need to tell you what a friend of mine just posted on FB...he officiates weddings... "Grandmother of the bride collapsed and died two feet in front of me as the bride was about to walk down the aisle. They still got married though."
Posted by amys325[/QUOTE]

How do you go through with the ceremony at that point? I'm hoping he meant that they got married at a different time...

amys325 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: (Ir)rational Irritations (you can A your Gs here too.) : How do you go through with the ceremony at that point? I'm hoping he meant that they got married at a different time...
Posted by sleepyb[/QUOTE]

I'm pretty sure they did it that day.

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