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Re: Love and Light too ALL!

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:c8071558-7ce9-445f-b5ac-8b273058b299">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : Not meant that you were justifying it but that it OP clung to the first opinion that likes the idea of cake smashing and is justifying that it's ok for her to do since someone else likes it in general.
    Posted by PetalPockets2012[/QUOTE]

    I know, it's okay!  It would've been better to quote her response to me instead of yours.  This thread is a hot mess. 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:fb55ce6a-b979-4471-8c26-ea3218ac8279">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : Am I missing your joke font?  Because I hugely agree with the fact that it's gross and disrespectful and I'd be pretty upset if my H had done it anyway....but ASSAULT?  I mean... it's not like he punched you and just so happened to have a fistful of cake.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    Oh, definitely joke font.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:be6073ca-ed51-4bd1-95ff-52aa1bf64daa">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : Oh, definitely joke font.
    Posted by kroot87[/QUOTE]

    Ok, I was going to say you never struck me as a drama llama...
    ha!

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    Here's what happens with unexpected cake smooshing:

    Please note the distinct lack of amusement on my face. And this was just a tiny bit of cake, but I was like "NO MOTHER F*CKER WATCH MY GODDAMN DRESS!".

    Not cool.
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    You should see the other thread she posted, where she said she invited 100 people but also invited 400+ people on facebook
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:76edb87b-ff75-4895-a513-fcdec49c5eb6">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Y'all, get a load of this: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_diy_my-bridal-party-sashes-w-picture-also-how-i-asked-my-moh">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_diy_my-bridal-party-sashes-w-picture-also-how-i-asked-my-moh</a>
    Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
    No , I just saw the thread in WP where she asked one of the girls to be in her bridal party. This is... wow.
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    The bridesmaids wearing sashes during the reception is just...yikes. But the more I'm reading the more I think she can't be real. Her groomsmen gift is a box of doughnuts.
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    TEN JUNIOR BMS?  Mylanta.

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    Her WP is going to look like a bunch of beauty pageant contestants.

    Also, did you see the reason for 10 Jr BMs?  She wants every girl to feel like a princess because she felt left out of weddings when she was little.  No wonder how society has issues.
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    I've NEVER been in a wedding. I feel left out.  OP, can I be in your wedding too?

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    I bet you people are the type of people who online bullied other kids in highschool?Maybe you still do it to your friends.
    Half of what everyone said has been twisted up anyway. I refuse to be put down or bullyed by anyone especailly adults online!

    How I asked my MOH was cute and fun and specail for us!
    I AM having 10 JR Bridesmaids beacuse I have 10 little girls who want to be included but I already had flower girls and other things I am only having them wear sashes so that they all match and everyone knows that they are important!

    I do want everyone to feel like a princess at my wedding its a royal  theme and I want everyone to have fun.

    I am going to let my FI do Mambo no 5 for his entrance beacuse it will be fun and everyone knows that its just going to be for fun and I know he loves me and that getting around isn't his personality!

    I am not going to shove cake in his face I am going to sit down and talk to him about it and then put a tip of frosting on his nose as a suprise and compramise beacuse I know he will be ok with that !

    I am not an its about ME bride I'm actually I want everyone to be happy and excited bride-
    Yes I did invite 400 people on facebook between my Fi and I but half of those people live so far away I know that they won't make it the invite was more a STD and a welcome. I CAN accomidate to everyone who shows up .

    I'm not 17 or fake. I am 21 and yes I know that is young for a bride but I in the community I grew up in it isn't . . . And a good amount of my friends are married.

    I worked to long and hard planing this wedding for you to bash on it. I think you guys need to sit down and watch BAMBI- pay very close attention to the part where it says "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all." 


    Most of you people have been nothing but rude and I am so  sorry for what ever is going on in your life to make you feel pleasure from being rude and insulting to other people.
    I send light love and happiness your way where ever you are and hope that one day you will find a deeper expression of love to all.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:a42581f8-2fc9-43cf-9472-443143825ea1">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]OP - Even though your FI says he doesn't have a problem with it, he has mentioned to you how his family feels. If my FI made a point to do that, I would realize that maybe he does care about it or at least cares about offending his family. I wouldn't want to intentionally offend my FILs over something so small. I consider this to be my helpful advice.
    Posted by PetalPockets2012[/QUOTE]

    thank you.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:eb610665-dfd3-4d1a-ba31-a109ac24e8e9">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I bet you people are the type of people who online bullied other kids in highschool?Maybe you still do it to your friends. Half of what everyone said has been twisted up anyway. I refuse to be put down or bullyed by anyone especailly adults online! How I asked my MOH was cute and fun and specail for us! I AM having 10 JR Bridesmaids beacuse I have 10 little girls who want to be included but I already had flower girls and other things I am only having them wear sashes so that they all match and everyone knows that they are important! I do want everyone to feel like a princess at my wedding its a royal  theme and I want everyone to have fun. <strong>I am going to let my FI do Mambo no 5 for his entrance beacuse it will be fun and everyone knows that its just going to be for fun and I know he loves me and that getting around isn't his personality</strong>! I am not going to shove cake in his face I am going to sit down and talk to him about it and then put a tip of frosting on his nose as a suprise and compramise beacuse I know he will be ok with that ! I am not an its about ME bride I'm actually I want everyone to be happy and excited bride- Yes I did invite 400 people on facebook between my Fi and I but half of those people live so far away I know that they won't make it the invite was more a STD and a welcome. I CAN accomidate to everyone who shows up . I'm not 17 or fake. I am 21 and yes I know that is young for a bride but I in the community I grew up in it isn't . . . And a good amount of my friends are married. I worked to long and hard planing this wedding for you to bash on it. I think you guys need to sit down and watch BAMBI- pay very close attention to the part where it says "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all."  Most of you people have been nothing but rude and I am so  sorry for what ever is going on in your life to make you feel pleasure from being rude and insulting to other people. I send light love and happiness your way where ever you are and hope that one day you will find a deeper expression of love to all.
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]

    If it's not his personality then why in God's name are you having him use this as an entrance song?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:66b3ee39-bc23-422a-b2bd-9769c3c93593">Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>Sending love and light</strong> to all the unhappy- stressed- upset- angry- hurt- and even the happy people out there!
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]
    Oh...Hello Danielle Staub.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:11f90bbb-637d-48fa-879f-0ec76cd82f7f">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : Woah, woah.... I didn't justify her.  I just gave my personal thoughts on cake smashing, not her actual situation because it seems like a damn mess.
    Posted by Joy2611[/QUOTE]

    i thank you beacuse it gave me something i was originally looking for and that was peoples general opionn about cake smashing... apparently i didn't make that clean in my first post
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    Wow. You guys need to get on the same page for a bit. I have no problem with other people doing a cake smashing if they both are into it, but if FI did it I would leave the room. And since he knows that he won't do it.

    If he doesn't want to do it, even if it's just because his family doesn't like it then you don't do it, end of story.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:d51ece50-a66d-43ae-b040-37c8e3d2e375">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : I know, it's okay!  It would've been better to quote her response to me instead of yours.  This thread is a hot mess. 
    Posted by Joy2611[/QUOTE]

    sorry to get people bashing on you! not my intent! non of this was my intent!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:eb610665-dfd3-4d1a-ba31-a109ac24e8e9">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I bet you people are the type of people who online bullied other kids in highschool?Maybe you still do it to your friends. Half of what everyone said has been twisted up anyway. I refuse to be put down or bullyed by anyone especailly adults online! How I asked my MOH was cute and fun and specail for us! I AM having 10 JR Bridesmaids beacuse I have 10 little girls who want to be included but I already had flower girls and other things I am only having them wear sashes so that they all match and everyone knows that they are important! I do want everyone to feel like a princess at my wedding its a royal  theme and I want everyone to have fun. I am going to let my FI do Mambo no 5 for his entrance beacuse it will be fun and everyone knows that its just going to be for fun and I know he loves me and that getting around isn't his personality! I am not going to shove cake in his face<strong> I am going to sit down and talk to him about it and then put a tip of frosting on his nose as a suprise and compramise</strong> beacuse I know he will be ok with that ! I am not an its about ME bride I'm actually I want everyone to be happy and excited bride- Yes I did invite 400 people on facebook between my Fi and I but half of those people live so far away I know that they won't make it the invite was more a STD and a welcome. I CAN accomidate to everyone who shows up . I'm not 17 or fake. I am 21 and yes I know that is young for a bride but I in the community I grew up in it isn't . . . And a good amount of my friends are married. I worked to long and hard planing this wedding for you to bash on it. I think you guys need to sit down and watch BAMBI- pay very close attention to the part where it says "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all."  Most of you people have been nothing but rude and I am so  sorry for what ever is going on in your life to make you feel pleasure from being rude and insulting to other people. I send light love and happiness your way where ever you are and hope that one day you will find a deeper expression of love to all.
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>What's the point of sitting down and talking about it and then doing whatever you want anyway? </div><div>What if he DOESN'T want frosting on his nose? </div><div>Also, just because you got advice that didn't agree with you does not equal online bullying. Come on.  

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : If it's not his personality then why in God's name are you having him use this as an entrance song?
    Posted by Marrin713[/QUOTE]

    beacuse its a fun and upbeat song  that HE likes! and it will be about being funny. He doesn't want it to be ho-hum down the isle.I'm walking down to AMazing by  bruno Marz as well. we want everything to be fun!
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    I wouldn't have let my H walk down the aisle to a song that was all about him sleeping with a ton of women. 
    I would have been mortified if he wanted to.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:eb610665-dfd3-4d1a-ba31-a109ac24e8e9">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I bet you people are the type of people who online bullied other kids in highschool?Maybe you still do it to your friends. Half of what everyone said has been twisted up anyway. I refuse to be put down or bullyed by anyone especailly adults online! How I asked my MOH was cute and fun and specail for us! I AM having 10 JR Bridesmaids beacuse <strong>I have 10 little girls who want to be included</strong> but I already had flower girls and other things I am only having them wear sashes so that they all match and everyone knows that they are important! I do want everyone to feel like a princess at my wedding its a royal  theme and I want everyone to have fun. <strong>I am going to let my FI do Mambo no 5 for his entrance beacuse it will be fun and everyone knows that its just going to be for fun and I know he loves me and that getting around isn't his personality!</strong> I am not going to shove cake in his face I am going to sit down and talk to him about it and then put a tip of frosting on his nose as a suprise and compramise beacuse I know he will be ok with that ! I am not an its about ME bride I'm actually I want everyone to be happy and excited bride- Yes I did invite 400 people on facebook between my Fi and I but half of those people live so far away I know that they won't make it the invite was more a STD and a welcome. I CAN accomidate to everyone who shows up . I'm not 17 or fake.<strong> I am 21 and yes I know that is young for a bride but I in the community I grew up in it isn't . . .</strong> And a good amount of my friends are married. I worked to long and hard planing this wedding for you to bash on it. I think you guys need to sit down and watch BAMBI- pay very close attention to the part where it says "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all."  Most of you people have been nothing but rude and I am so  sorry for what ever is going on in your life to make you feel pleasure from being rude and insulting to other people. I<strong> send light love and happiness your way where ever you are and hope that one day you will find a deeper expression of love to all.
    </strong>Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]


    You can say NO to little girls. They need to learn the meaning of that world or else they'll grow up into entitled little brats who want to shove cake in their FI's faces even when he says his family isn't cool with it.

    Mambo No.5 is just.....ugh....why does your FI think this is a good idea? It's actually a lame idea, and I would google that bride who sang her down the aisle and witness all the uncomfortable looks on everyone's faces. Those will be the same looks your guests have when he walks in to this song.

    So if your friends all got pregnant at 16 you would have done it too? Because, you know, it's what's hip in your community. I've seen young brides and then I've seen YOUNG brides. You are one of the latter.

    Thanks for the light, love, and happiness, but we don't do puppies and rainbows over here. This is just weird now.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:ba8f3d6a-3001-4dfd-a3fe-04ef2d53784b">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : You can say NO to little girls. They need to learn the meaning of that world or else they'll grow up into entitled little brats who want to shove cake in their FI's faces even when he says his family isn't cool with it. 
    Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
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    Based on some of your posts in this and other threads, it seems like you are perhaps a bit immature.  I hope everything works out the best for you, but you really should consider all the great advice in this and other threads...no one is bullying you, they are trying to help you.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:1498f8c2-fa0e-4855-bb6b-9b2367356ee5">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : beacuse its a fun and upbeat song  that HE likes! and it will be about being funny. He doesn't want it to be ho-hum down the isle.I'm walking down to AMazing by  bruno Marz as well. we want everything to be fun!
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]

    All of our ceremony music was by Queen. It was totally fun, and none of it referred to hooking up with a bunch of different women.
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    Fun does not have to equal trashy. We're doing "fun" songs as well. None of them refer to slutting around.
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    "Yes I did invite 400 people on facebook between my Fi and I but half of those people live so far away I know that they won't make it the invite was more a STD and a welcome"


    Wait... what?

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    [QUOTE]Fun does not have to equal trashy. We're doing "fun" songs as well. None of them refer to slutting around.
    Posted by coopsbaby[/QUOTE]

    Truth. Might as well be walking in to "The Thong Song"
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : Truth. Might as well be walking in to "The Thong Song"
    Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Now don't be giving her ideas! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:d3871dc8-3f8f-44e4-90eb-ad68f700eb4b">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Based on some of your posts in this and other threads, it seems like you are perhaps a bit immature.  I hope everything works out the best for you, but you really should consider all the great advice in this and other threads...no one is bullying you, they are trying to help you.
    Posted by HockeyFan4[/QUOTE]

    a couple people have said overly rude things- and I just wont stand for it.

    I'm 21 years old and thats how mature I am! I don't have that maturity of a 30 year old woman.

    Nore do I come from a place where everyone is up tight about everything. I am from a small town where when you fall in love you get married and you work through at the hard times and stick together. I come from a place where you wear cowboy boots and convers to prom. Where you ask someone on a date by covering there car completly in sticky notes or other creative ideas.  All of this stuff is normal for me!

    I have taken some peoples advice how hard is it to say "Sweetie I think you need to concider how he feels about how his family feels and then respect that." Instead of" Wow your crazy blah marriage is never going to work blah blah blah!/"

    Get where I am coming from?
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