Have we done this recently?
You people who failed your driving tests are making me nervous.
My really embarassing confession? I liked the musical episode of Grey's Anatomy (except for the happy song where all the couples danced). I cried through almost the whole thing. Especially the last song.
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BFP 8/01/12, EDD 04/10/12, mm/c @ 6wks, discovered at 8wks, D&C 9/05/12
Re: Confessions
I confess that even though H told the Vicious Trollop to stop sending him skanky texts, I'm pissed that she put an picture of him and her as her FB profile picture. I REALIZE that I am splitting hairs about this, and probably making it a bigger deal than it should be, but it still irritates me.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
I have a crush on Ralph Macchio, and I have since I was a teenager and read "The Outisders" and fell in love with Johnny Cade, and then he played Johnny in the movie and... yeah. I've always been kind of ashamed of that, but there it is. And now I keep voting for him every week on DWTS because it's nice to see him, even if he isn't all that great at Latin dances.
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Wouldn't it be nice to live together in the kind of world where we belong?
She needs to be defriended and blocked. WTF is her problem?
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BFP 8/01/12, EDD 04/10/12, mm/c @ 6wks, discovered at 8wks, D&C 9/05/12
"Halloween may have loose women scantily clad...
But Christmas has a pregnant virgin.
Way cooler." - anna.oskar
I'm doing Team in Training for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society!
I finally broke through to post on the couple cleft lip and palate forums. In the 12 hours since I posted I have gotten so much support from people that understand what we are going through that I don't know why I hesitated posting there in the first place.
I'm doing Team in Training for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society!
[QUOTE]I've been beating myself up since our meeting with Children's hospital. I know I have no right to be because I am learning and so is he. It's just the way that the feeding specialist addresed his feeding it made me feel like a failure. I finally broke through to post on the couple cleft lip and palate forums. In the 12 hours since I posted I have gotten so much support from people that understand what we are going through that I don't know why I hesitated posting there in the first place.
Posted by Ciaram22[/QUOTE]
I'm so glad Ciara! I would have no idea how to deal with any of that, so I'm glad you're able to talk to people who've "been there". I guess it's sorta like this place with weddings - but way way way more serious. That makes me happy for you. I hope they help you a lot! Happy Ciaras are important.
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[QUOTE]I enjoy watching educational programming...the ones aimed at preschoolers. <strong>I watch Nick Jr.</strong> all day when I'm sick.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]
I apologize for intruding but I laughed when I read this. My confession - I took my 2 year old to Yo Gabba Gabba live and;
1.) could sing ALL the songs
2.) Had more fun than him
And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent? I feel like that makes me a bad person.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
I confess that I don't drive. I have taken the written test and passed but I just let my permit expire.
FI and I went to a wedding orientation last night at the cathedral and I am excited and nervous to start actually planning. We've been engaged almost 2 years and this is the first WR thing we have done.
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BFP 8/01/12, EDD 04/10/12, mm/c @ 6wks, discovered at 8wks, D&C 9/05/12
Ok I know this is crazy, I called the cake place about ordering FI's grooms cake. He wanted a black lab. The lady said that if we wanted a 3d version it was going to be hefty, over $500. At first I was all "oh thats fine" but then when she told me how much it would cost to get a sheet cake with a black lab design ($65) I said no way. I feel terrible I didn't get him his 3d cake though. Like I am seriously debating calling her back and changing my order.
When I was a kid, my parents were looking at houses and I went along. Well. I had to potty and we were in a model house, so I figured if there's a toilet, it'll flush, right? Yeah, guess not.
I whispered to my dad that I had gone potty in a potty that didn't flush and told him it wasnt just pee. He got the realtor to show us another house immediately b/c the one we were in just didn't "feel" right.
He never fessed up.
I'm doing Team in Training for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society!
I confess that I checked out an ex's FB page yesterday and tried to figure out who is his girlfriend. I would never in a million years date that guy again, I have no idea what came over me and led me to snoop.
[QUOTE]And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent? I feel like that makes me a bad person.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
Well this is just silly. Wanting to be comfortable and really enjoy one last vacation with your H before it's not just the two of you ever again is not anything that makes you a bad person or not ready to be a parent.
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BFP 8/01/12, EDD 04/10/12, mm/c @ 6wks, discovered at 8wks, D&C 9/05/12
LDY--I watch Disney all the time. I'm a child at heart. The shows are always so bright and colorful and happy. And I love their new movie, Lemonade Mouth. Now I want to read the book.
[QUOTE]I would have issues with someone besides myself putting MY husband in HER profile picture. And I'd have a Come to Jesus with my husband, and he would defriend her. And I'm not the jealous type, but Trollop has gone too far.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]
Uh yeah. This. Bitch needs to step off.
I don't think I have any confessions that have not already been confessed.
GG -- *HUGS* I would be apprehensive too. H and I had an LDR for the first year we were dating, and when he moved down to CT I was scared to death. Excited, but terrified. But (obvs.) it worked out.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]Ok, serious confession here. I'm scared for when FI comes home because we have been LDR for 2 years, have never lived together and I know its going to be a serious change. I'm excited/scared at the same time.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]
I think it shows maturity that you recognize that it will likely have some challenges. Just go with the flow and have a lot of communication and you'll be golden :)
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BFP 8/01/12, EDD 04/10/12, mm/c @ 6wks, discovered at 8wks, D&C 9/05/12
And don't feel bad for not wanting to be KU before you go on vacation. I doubt anyone ever feels really ready to have kids and you'll be a great parent regardless of whether you get pregnant today or in 5 years.
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[QUOTE]Oh. I also confess that I have been seriously gung ho about wanting to start TTC ASAP. H wanted to wait until the end of the year/beginning of 2012. And what convinced me wasn't the financial argument or him saying he'll feel more "ready" then. It was booking a vacation and not wanting to be hugely pregnant while on the cruise. And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent? I feel like that makes me a bad person.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
I don't think this makes you a bad person, and I don't think it's "just" a vacation. Making sure you're in the right place mentally, financially, and emotionally to bring a baby into the world makes you a very good person, and that includes doing things that you've always wanted to do that might be more difficult once there are little ones in the equation. Charlie and I are definitely planning on enjoying some time to ourselves (and traveling) before we start a family.
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Wouldn't it be nice to live together in the kind of world where we belong?