Confessions

cengle · May 2011

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[QUOTE]I went to an NSync concert in college... and liked it. We could see really well because everyone else was a tiny little preteen.
Posted by cpfwvu[/QUOTE]

I'm going to the BSB/NKOTB concern in Chicago in June. And I'm not the least bit ashamed by it. (I'm 26)

quirky75 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]I enjoy watching educational programming...the ones aimed at preschoolers. I watch Nick Jr. all day when I'm sick.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

After babysitting my niece, FI and I definitely watched iCarly a couple times at home!

LDYGTR13 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]Ok, serious confession here. I'm scared for when FI comes home because we have been LDR for 2 years, have never lived together and I know its going to be a serious change. I'm excited/scared at the same time.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

I confess that I do not like my MOH's FI. Something is "off" with him. I can't put my finger on it. They've been dating sin Feb 2010 and have never spent more than 5 days together in a row. She just moved to Baton Rouge to move in with him and I'm scared for her. She said if she hadn't moved there when she did there would be major drama in their relationship and they might not make it. It just worries me and I can't tell her how I feel about it b/c then I'd be a crappy BM apparently.

MattsPenguin · May 2011

Oh are we doing driving confessions?

Well I had two moving violations (okay, okay, I totaled two cars) before I was 18 (the second one being 4 hours before my 18th birthday), which automatically caused me to have my license suspended. Then I had to take a remedial driving course in which they told us how stupid we must be to have to be there. Note, at the time I was a freshman in college studying engineering. I am not stupid by any stretch of the imagination. I WAS PISSED!

Other confessions? I'm just not being productive at work. Counting down the hours until I get to leave!

Ciaram22 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]Oh. I also confess that I have been seriously gung ho about wanting to start TTC ASAP. H wanted to wait until the end of the year/beginning of 2012. And what convinced me wasn't the financial argument or him saying he'll feel more "ready" then. It was booking a vacation and not wanting to be hugely pregnant while on the cruise. And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent? I feel like that makes me a bad person.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
Also some cruises won't allow pregnant women past week 25 to cruise due to limited prenatal care when out to see or in port.

specialk84 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I apologize for intruding but I laughed when I read this. My confession - I took my 2 year old to Yo Gabba Gabba live and; 1.) could sing ALL the songs 2.) Had more fun than him
Posted by Arayx2[/QUOTE]

<div>Yo Gabba Gabba is awesome. Our friends' kid's birthday party is YGG-themed, and I am excited. The kid made up a dance or something.</div>

Rosie109 · May 2011

Bay can I kick her ass pleaaaaase?

baystateapple · May 2011

I know it's silly, TR. It was more the whole thing that since we got married, I've been wanting to start TTC NOW, and as soon as H said "We're going to Mexico" I was all "OH OKAY, NO BABIES UNTIL JANUARY THEN" and didn't think twice. Guess I didn't want to start TTC right now that badly.

To everyone who's commenting about that girl -- thanks. I need the reminders that I'm not overreacting.

ggirl2001 · May 2011

Thanks ladies. I know it will be a good change, but change all the same. I'm also impatient, and just want it to happen already lol. I hate waiting!

Bay- ditto what everyone else said. It sounds to me that planning to wait until after your vacation shows maturity. My best friend has a year old and she didn't start TTC again until after she went to Jamaica with family.

Also-seriously. punch the girl.

Beachy730 · May 2011

Ggirl- when you would see eachother during the LDR, what was your arrangement like? H and I were LDR for almost 2 years, up until the wedding, but we would spend every weekend together. I still lived with my parents but he would stay there, and the weekends at his apartment were like living together. When I had weeks off of work I would also spend the week there. So even though we never technically lived together, we kinda felt like we had since we already knew eachother's living habits. There really wasn't much adjustment when we finally did live together.

sarah0725 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]Ok, serious confession here. I'm scared for when FI comes home because we have been LDR for 2 years, have never lived together and I know its going to be a serious change. I'm excited/scared at the same time.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

We went through this adjustment, and it has been a bit tough at times, especially after four and a half years of LDR. But man, is it worth it.

If you ever need an ear, I'm around. I think the best thing I learned this year is to keep apologizing. :)

LDYGTR13 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]I know it's silly, TR. It was more the whole thing that since we got married, I've been wanting to start TTC NOW, and as soon as H said "We're going to Mexico" I was all "OH OKAY, NO BABIES UNTIL JANUARY THEN" and didn't think twice. Guess I didn't want to start TTC right now that badly. To everyone who's commenting about that girl -- thanks. I need the reminders that I'm not overreacting.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Eventhough we have Vegas planned for April, I still wish it was time to TTC. Thank goodness for that trip or else I'd be down H's throat trying to get him to knock me up lol.

mkrupar · May 2011

GG I'm glad too that you recognize there will be challenges. Knowing that there will be hard times will help you get through them a lot faster. We were LDR for a year and a half before we were engaged, and we're LDR now because he works in MD and I live in VA.

cengle · May 2011

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[QUOTE]I have another lame confession.<strong> Is it bad that I just bribed my husband with chocolate to clean the oven? </strong>He didn't really want to do it and my arms are too short to reach the back of the oven. So I told him I'd buy him his favorite expensive chocolate if he did it.
Posted by lovethebeach16[/QUOTE]

Nope.

Bay: I don't think wanting to wait for that makes you a bad person at all. One of my pre-requisites for having a kid is a trip to Europe, because I've never been.

LDY: that story is hilarious.

annakb8 · May 2011

This will be the first summer of my life out of school and I confess that I don't think I'm going to handle it very well. I've adjusted to working full time pretty well overall, but I think not having summer break at all is going to really make me irrationally angry.

ggirl2001 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I confess that I do not like my MOH's FI. Something is "off" with him. I can't put my finger on it. They've been dating sin Feb 2010 and have never spent more than 5 days together in a row. She just moved to Baton Rouge to move in with him and I'm scared for her. She said if she hadn't moved there when she did there would be major drama in their relationship and they might not make it. It just worries me and I can't tell her how I feel about it b/c then I'd be a crappy BM apparently.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

LDY-I think it depends on your friendship to a point. I know if my best friend was moving to be with a guy and I couldn't put my finger on why I didn't like him I know that I would be able to tell her and we wouldn't get mad about it, so it depends how close you are and whether or not you know she wouldn't just flip out on you. My best friend and I literally made a pact a long time ago about when/where it would be ok to speak up about a person you're dating and that the person can't get mad. (that probably doesn't make sense but you get the idea lol). But that sucks, I woudl be worried for my friend too.

adamar15 · May 2011

I haven't been productive at work...all week. I don't know what my deal is this week. Also, I have done nothing but gain weight since the wedding, but I can't seen to get motivated to do anything about it.

Arayx2 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I confess that I do not like my MOH's FI. Something is "off" with him. I can't put my finger on it. They've been dating sin Feb 2010 and have never spent more than 5 days together in a row. She just moved to Baton Rouge to move in with him and I'm scared for her. She said if she hadn't moved there when she did there would be major drama in their relationship and they might not make it. It just worries me and I can't tell her how I feel about it b/c then I'd be a crappy BM apparently.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

I was the MOH in my BF's wedding almost 3 years ago and I had a friend tell me her DH had cheated on her. So Instead of telling her - I approached the FI and told him that she was my bf in the whole wide world and that I needed to know I was standing up there to support a faithful and loving union - He broke down and told me that he had been accused of this - gave the girl a ride home and she left clothing in his car and made a scene saying " I need my pants back" I am so glad I talked to him and he thanked me for loving my BF so much.

[Deleted User] · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I'm going to the BSB/NKOTB concern in Chicago in June. And I'm not the least bit ashamed by it. (I'm 26)
Posted by cengle[/QUOTE]

I went to a BSB concert in middle school (only one I've ever been to). My aunt was covering it for the paper, and may or may not have quoted me as calling the girls around us "stupid and childish" for screaming and crying whenever the guys came on the stage.

that being said, it was a good show. I enjoyed it.

laurenpm · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I'm going to the BSB/NKOTB concern in Chicago in June. And I'm not the least bit ashamed by it. (I'm 26)
Posted by cengle[/QUOTE]
I'm going in July in Louisville :) Aaaand I saw BSB by themselves in Cincy last year...

crfische · May 2011

The worst confession in here right now is that TR liked the musical episode of Grey's.

I am surprised, disappointed, and APPALLED with you, TR.

Rosie109 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]I know it's silly, TR. It was more the whole thing that since we got married, I've been wanting to start TTC NOW, and as soon as H said "We're going to Mexico" I was all "OH OKAY, NO BABIES UNTIL JANUARY THEN" and didn't think twice. Guess I didn't want to start TTC right now that badly. To everyone who's commenting about that girl -- thanks. I need the reminders that I'm not overreacting.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Oh TK definitely just said this was posted by M&R (the dog hating lady) and I was soooooo very confused.

ggirl2001 · May 2011

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[QUOTE]Ggirl- when you would see eachother during the LDR, what was your arrangement like? H and I were LDR for almost 2 years, up until the wedding, but we would spend every weekend together. I still lived with my parents but he would stay there, and the weekends at his apartment were like living together. When I had weeks off of work I would also spend the week there. So even though we never technically lived together, we kinda felt like we had since we already knew eachother's living habits. There really wasn't much adjustment when we finally did live together.
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

Good point DNB. We usually stayed at my house. I lived below my parents in an in law apartment basically. Also, when he came home in winter for the past 2 years my parents were in Florida so we had the house to ourselves. So we are pretty adaptable with living habits. We also agreed already that I will be managing finances since he is AWFUL at it.

cpfwvu · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I'm going to the BSB/NKOTB concern in Chicago in June. And I'm not the least bit ashamed by it. (I'm 26)
Posted by cengle[/QUOTE]

My best friend who went with me to NSync is going to NKOTBSB in Raleigh this summer! I have to miss it. :( It's a nice feeling when you finally give yourself permission to embrace your love of boy bands.

crfische · May 2011

I also saw NSYNC in concert in college. Which was 1998, but still. I was front row.

And it was awesome.

LDYGTR13 · May 2011

GG - We are close, but she's also a very defensive person. I can tell her most anything, but this one I think she's super defensive on for some reason. They got engaged really quickly, the ratio of her going there vs him coming here was like 6:1, no one really knows him and his family kind of pushed him to propose to her (her words) - it's freaking me out.

Wow, the only person I've told about this is H...I feel bad.

baystateapple · May 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Oh TK definitely just said this was posted by M&R (the dog hating lady) and I was soooooo very confused.
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]

I have never been so insulted in my life. I am WOUNDED, TK.

specialk84 · May 2011

Bay, I think it's more mature to have a big vacation and take advantage of being young and child-free while you can than to try to take a newborn on an international cruise like someone Lynda ran into.

That probably didn't come out right, but my intentions were good.

[Deleted User] · May 2011

My confession is that I am glad to be going home in a few days even though it will be without H.

laurenpm · May 2011

LDY- (*Disclaimer* I'm not saying this is the same or even similiar to your MOH) but I had a funny feeling about my best friend's BF and it turns out he was emotionally and physically abusing her. Sometimes funny feelings can really be telling. I really regretted that I never spoke up about my weird feeling to her and it took her coming to me before I said anything.

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