Hey ladies and fellow knotties (god that's embarrassing)
I'm not the guy who posted the secret but I've been lurking for about 2 years off and on, ever since my wife started posting while planning her sister's wedding and then we started planning soon after and both came to the boards. I left for a while after someone called me a "pretty princess" when I was under my wife's sn haha, and I never posted (but read a lot) after that until now, under my own new name.
FYI: The secret from the Ivy Leaguer with two doctorates? It's not me but it's another guy. I know who you are, Dude