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Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_telling-groomsman-his-wife-not-invited-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d3c4ed31-7b33-4350-b5f5-e31e428a9188Post:4a8457ee-83d4-4c22-ac1d-6785c65a066e">Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]I can't believe 1) this post is still going on and 2) you guys haven't realized yet that she is a troll.  Did anyone click her magnifying glass and find it typical that she started out on her local board answering random posts so as not to arouse suspicion and then decided one day to post something so flameworthy on a national board, totally out of the blue?  No? 
    Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]


    I'm having fun with the troll.

    Who has now admitted her parents are paying for the wedding.  Awwww snookums.

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
  • Woman, stop digging.  Look, you went off on some girl, and her sister came back and called you a c*nt.  You never told us how THAT transpired.  Like did she yell it across the dance floor or walk by your table and drop it like it's hot?  Or did you have another altercation with her and she told you to leave her sister alone and then call you the name?

    What is done is done.  You said you weren't inviting her.  Fine.  The cost of your wedding has nothing to do with that.  You started a fight with someone who has some nasty words in her vocab.  Done.  Over.  We don't need to know the cost per plate for your event. 

    In fact, you had already committed the act before you came here.  Were you seeking validation?  The high cost of your wedding is not going to earn that faster.

    Anyway, I am doing what I say not to do and I am going to take my picnic basket elsewhere.  I shouldn't be feeding the wildlife.
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    [QUOTE]I can't believe 1) this post is still going on and 2) you guys haven't realized yet that she is a troll.  Did anyone click her magnifying glass and find it typical that she started out on her local board answering random posts so as not to arouse suspicion and then decided one day to post something so flameworthy on a national board, totally out of the blue?  No? 
    Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

    I failed my "Nancy Drew of Knotting" class.  *Sad Nugget*
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    [QUOTE]Woman, stop digging.  Look, you went off on some girl, and her sister came back and called you a c*nt.  You never told us how THAT transpired.  Like did she yell it across the dance floor or walk by your table and drop it like it's hot?  Or did you have another altercation with her and she told you to leave her sister alone and then call you the name? What is done is done.  You said you weren't inviting her.  Fine.  The cost of your wedding has nothing to do with that.  You started a fight with someone who has some nasty words in her vocab.  Done.  Over.  We don't need to know the cost per plate for your event.  In fact, you had already committed the act before you came here.  Were you seeking validation?  The high cost of your wedding is not going to earn that faster. Anyway, I am doing what I say not to do and I am going to take my picnic basket elsewhere.  I shouldn't be feeding the wildlife.
    Posted by smokeybailey[/QUOTE]

    To answer your inquiry, she yelled it from her table while my fiance and I were leaving.  And other people heard her and stared in shock. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : I'm having fun with the troll. Who has now admitted her parents are paying for the wedding.  Awwww snookums.
    Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

    And the hating continues...  yes my parents are paying for my wedding, and I will be the first to say I am very fortunate.  But really... name calling?  You and this woman must live in the same trailer park... christ!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : To answer your inquiry, she yelled it from her table while my fiance and I were leaving.  And other people heard her and stared in shock. 
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]

    How could you not laugh at this then?  I'd have turned around and just asked, "are you kidding me?" 

    Plus maybe she wasn't even talking to you.  Maybe she was talking to your FI.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : How could you not laugh at this then?  I'd have turned around and just asked, "are you kidding me?"  Plus maybe she wasn't even talking to you.  Maybe she was talking to your FI.
    Posted by smokeybailey[/QUOTE]

    I actually did laugh and turn around and walk away.  I was not going to stoop to her level and cause a scene.  And I know she didnt say it to my fiance because she yelled "Bye [Fiance's name]" and then "Bye C*nt."  I should have included that in my background story. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : And the hating continues...  yes my parents are paying for my wedding, and I will be the first to say I am very fortunate.  But really... name calling?  You and this woman must live in the same trailer park... christ!
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]

    I was unaware that "snookums" was such a vile name, to be immediately associated with trailer parks and trashy people.  I should let Noodle's grandma know right away that she needs to get her old ass to a trailer ASAP.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : And the hating continues...  yes my parents are paying for my wedding, and I will be the first to say I am very fortunate.  But really... name calling?  You and this woman must live in the same trailer park... christ!
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]

    LMAO.  :)

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : I was unaware that "snookums" was such a vile name, to be immediately associated with trailer parks and trashy people.  I should let Noodle's grandma know right away that she needs to get her old ass to a trailer ASAP.
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]


    I affectionately call my cat snookums.  Trailer trash I am.

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    [QUOTE]But money =/= class. I've been to low-cost, backyard weddings where people still behaved classily and didn't wander around screaming swear words at each other. THAT is the point - the fact that you don't want "trashy" behavior doesn't have to be linked to money and setting, it can just be linked to the fact that it's a wedding, an even where people are usually a bit more polite. But instead, you chose to link it to how much you're paying and where your wedding is being held, and now you're making a connection between price and dream wedding.
    Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]
    Agreed. I'm sure my wedding-on-a-shoestring will be far classier than that of this supposedly 29-year-old woman who acts like one of the spoiled princesses on MTV's My Super Sweet 16.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : Agreed. I'm sure my wedding-on-a-shoestring will be far classier than that of this supposedly 29-year-old woman who acts like one of the spoiled princesses on MTV's My Super Sweet 16.
    Posted by artbyallie[/QUOTE]

    nothing wrong with being spoiled  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-money-mouth.gif" border="0" alt="Money mouth" title="Money mouth" />
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : nothing wrong with being spoiled 
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]


    The problem is being a spoiled brat.<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-money-mouth.gif" border="0" alt="Money mouth" title="Money mouth" />

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : The problem is being a spoiled brat.
    Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

    it is too easy to get a rise out of some of you!  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />
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  • Seriously - I'm usually a lurker, best thread ever! You girls crack me up. This definitely kept me entertained at this very slow slow day at work.

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  • I rarely post but I have to say that every time smokeybailey runs in and drops the c-word I laugh.  That's too funny.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : it is too easy to get a rise out of some of you! 
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]


    Read better.  Said I was having fun.  I'm enjoying poking you as much as you're enjoying poking me.

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    PapillionDog is a cvnt!!!

    ::runs out::
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  • edited August 2010
    Okay, first off, you probably were out of line in how you spoke to her sister, which is probably why you got called a cvnt.  It wasn't about you and wasn't directed towards you, so you should have stayed out of it.  Your friend is 23 years old, and you said it's the first time she's been hanging out with people she didn't know?  Does she live in a convent?! At 23, most of us are very capable of handling our own problems. And if someone said that to me, I'd laugh at them because I'd know better (*this paragraph was edited due to a misconception I had about who insulted whom*)

    Second, yeah, she's trashy for calling you a cvnt in public.  I don't see anyone disputing that.  But seriously, you abjectly refuse to admit that you may have overstepped your role.  You were a bit of a busybody, at the least, and that's just from hearing your version of the story.

    Third, you have every right to not invite her to the wedding.  Some people would still invite her, some wouldn't.  You run the risk of ruining the friendship with the groomsman who should stand up for his wife.  If his relationship is so bad that he decides to get a divorce, then he doesn't have to stand up for the woman anymore, but until then she's his wife.  He's going to defend her and stand up for her. End of story. So stop judging his relationship, just like you judged her sister's, and maybe you'll be able to keep some of your friends!

    (Oh, and classy girls never mention prices.  And the "standards" in upstate New York are not Manhattan, my dear.  There's as many hicks and trailer trash in upstate New York as anywhere else in the country. There are plenty of classy people, too, but they don't mention per-head costs, trash other peoples' weddings, or have Tiffany themed weddings)
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    [QUOTE]Okay, first off, I woulda called you the same thing (not at a wedding, but definitely behind your back) if you were judging my sister's relationship.
    Posted by catemeg[/QUOTE]

    What are you talking about?  I never judged this woman's sister's relationship.  In fact, she has not been in a relationship the entire time I have know her.  I suggest getting the story straight before throwing out your opinion. 
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    [QUOTE]wow so many responses.  the background story is pretty basic.  this woman's sister told a friend of mine that a guy she was seeing was only using her for sex.  i got pretty upset and told her sister how inappropriate that was and we got into a bit of a yelling match.  the uninvited wife then called me (we used to be friends) and got mad that i snapped at her sister.  and ever since then she has hated me.  oh, and she used to be attracted to me fiance... maybe that has something to do with it too.  but that is it... really!!!
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]

    I guess I'm confused as to who was saying what to whom... so the woman's sister accused your friend's boyfriend of using her for sex?  For some reason I read this as the woman's sister was being used for sex. And that you told her that relationship was inappropriate... guess I got that backwards.

    Got it, okay so the girl probably should have stood up for herself, but the sister was out of line.  I see... I still think the "she's attracted to my fiance" bit and the whole "their relationship is sh*t" and "she's a cheater" is unimportant to the whole situation and only serve to make you look like a drama llama.
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    [QUOTE]okay so the girl probably should have stood up for herself, but the sister was out of line.  I see... I still think the "she's attracted to my fiance" bit and the whole "their relationship is sh*t" and "she's a cheater" is unimportant to the whole situation and only serve to make you look like a drama llama.
    Posted by catemeg[/QUOTE]

    I agree... I wish my friend would have stuck up for herself.  But i felt bad for her because she was way younger than these other girls and it was the first time she hung out with this group so she was intimidated.  I was very disgusted that these girls, especially the one sister, went out of her way to make my friend feel uncomfortable.  This particular clique of girls can be very cold to new girls who join their circle of friends by dating the guys.  Even when I started dating my fiance, the girl who dropped the C-bomb last weekend said to me, "you are lucky we like you because we usually dont like most outside girls." 
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  • If my FI and I heard someone call me a c*nt, I would have addressed it when it happened.  I'm not talking about making a scene, but I wouldn't just walk away.  Since you did ignore it at the time, it probably would have been best to let it go.

    I'm having a pretty small wedding and I'm still inviting a few family members that I'm not fond of.  I don't really like my BIL, still I can't invite my sister without him.  And yes, he has called me names and said things about me that aren't true about me in the past.  My BIL and I have had it out because I have no problem speaking my mind.   At the end of the day, I know that telling my sister her husband can't come would cause a lot of problems and put her in a really bad spot.  
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    [QUOTE]If my FI and I heard someone call me a c*nt, I would have addressed it when it happened.  I'm not talking about making a scene, but I wouldn't just walk away.  Since you did ignore it at the time, it probably would have been best to let it go. I'm having a pretty small wedding and I'm still inviting a few family members that I'm not fond of.  I don't really like my BIL, still I can't invite my sister without him.  And yes, he has called me names and said things about me that aren't true about me in the past.  My BIL and I have had it out because I have no problem speaking my mind.   At the end of the day, I know that telling my sister her husband can't come would cause a lot of problems and put her in a really bad spot.  
    Posted by Goldlie11[/QUOTE]

    someone else's wedding was not the time nor the place to address this.  that is why my fiance took care of it the next day. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : someone else's wedding was not the time nor the place to address this.  that is why my fiance took care of it the next day. 
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : actually, SHE was the one who acted immature and classless...  only pieces of trash use the C-word!  come on people!!!!!
    Posted by aral2003[/QUOTE]

    Right. Because repeatedly calling someone a piece of trash behind their back is waaaay classier than calling someone a cvnt to their face.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : Right. Because repeatedly calling someone a piece of trash behind their back is waaaay classier than calling someone a cvnt to their face.
    Posted by desertsun[/QUOTE]
    There you go being all logical, desert.  Don't you know you never talk to someone like an adult?  You talk about them behind their back and brag about how much you're spending on your wedding.  You can't feed a trashy girl $150 food.  $20 is the max.  
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_telling-groomsman-his-wife-not-invited-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d3c4ed31-7b33-4350-b5f5-e31e428a9188Post:c6f00226-94fa-41f1-b224-d39e10d83a18">Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: telling a groomsman his wife is not invited to the wedding : There you go being all logical, desert.  Don't you know you never talk to someone like an adult?  You talk about them behind their back and brag about how much you're spending on your wedding.  You can't feed a trashy girl $150 food.  $20 is the max.  
    Posted by Goldlie11[/QUOTE]

    Actually $2.00 is the max... and even that is pushing it  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" />
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  • I can't believe I read all this drivel. Since when is Cvnt the new biitch? TO me, those have always been equal insults with whore. So she called you a name. Big friggin deal. 
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  • Also running over to SB is not the answer.  If you post and act like an ass on E we'll think the same thing over on SB. 

    I also cannot believe you owned up to having a Tiffanys theme (though I'm not surprised).  Get over yourself and someone calling you a cvnt.  It was not a national emergency.
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