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AYG/TK confessions/I Judge

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Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge

  • Yes.  There are a few people who do it all the time, and I feel like that encourages random people to post about stuff that they never would post about had those people not done the same thing.

    Post what you want, but shiit, if you have that many problems in your personal life, maybe its time to go see someone and get it all sorted out you know?
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  • Yes I agree. They call in tragedy whoring on TN.


    Numbers, I don't think you complain much but if you ever want to talk FB me.:)
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  • TW for short?
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  • Hmm maybe. We can shorten it to that though if you want.
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    [QUOTE]I don't think Neely has to back anything up. This is AYG. She can say what she wants and has been pretty open to the criticism that she got from it. If anyone is "doing it wrong " its OBX for freaking out over it.
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

    This times a gazillion. You don't have to interact with someone to have an opinion about them. I actually agree with Neely. I like OBX, but the extreme asskissing just makes me uncomfortable. Sure, maybe that's just who she is. That's fine. But it's just who I am to get nauseated when I see the hard core asslicking stuff. And her over the top reaction to Neely was just lame to me.
  • edited May 2011
    I'm super late (and still catching up), but I'm responding as I go, so too bad.

    Missy- grow some balls and stop whining... or quit lurking here. Seriously, you're unbearable.  But cute decision to say "people" instead of calling me out directly. Even thought I explained/apologized to Ricks already. Even though you whined/ and aw'd on E about how you don't like calling me out because I'll argue.  Um, if you can't take it, don't dish it. 

    OBX- Seriously? seriously? If you're so witty and smart and funny, then just show us that. Don't be all whiny and fishing for attention. THAT'S exactly why I can't stand you. And I've even tried giving you a 'second chance' after you were a royal douche when you first posted here. Oh, and if you want to literally kiss AATB's ass, just ask. I'm sure she'll let you.  Otherwise, give up the online asskissing.

    Dot- quit overreacting.  Reddy had a point.  

    ETA: I'm going back to keep reading, so there will likely be more. This thread is ridiculously whiny so far. (I'm on page 5)
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    [QUOTE]I'm super late (and still catching up), but I'm responding as I go, so too bad. Missy- <strong>grow some balls and stop whining... or quit lurking here. Seriously, you're unbearable. </strong> But cute decision to say "people" instead of calling me out directly. Even thought I explained/apologized to Ricks already. Even though you whined/ and aw'd on E about how you don't like calling me out because I'll argue.  Um, if you can't take it, don't dish it.  OBX- Seriously? seriously? If you're so witty and smart and funny, then just show us that. Don't be all whiny and fishing for attention. THAT'S exactly why I can't stand you. And I've even tried giving you a 'second chance' after you were a royal douche when you first posted here. Oh, and if you want to literally kiss AATB's ass, just ask. I'm sure she'll let you.  Otherwise, give up the online asskissing. Dot- quit overreacting.  Reddy had a point.  
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]
    LOL, awesome.
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    [QUOTE]I'm super late (and still catching up), but I'm responding as I go, so too bad. Missy- grow some balls and stop whining... or quit lurking here. Seriously, you're unbearable.  But cute decision to say "people" instead of calling me out directly. Even thought I explained/apologized to Ricks already. <strong><u>Even though you whined/ and aw'd on E about how you don't like calling me out because I'll argue</u></strong>.  Um, if you can't take it, don't dish it.  OBX- Seriously? seriously? If you're so witty and smart and funny, then just show us that. Don't be all whiny and fishing for attention. THAT'S exactly why I can't stand you. And I've even tried giving you a 'second chance' after you were a royal douche when you first posted here. Oh, and if you want to literally kiss AATB's ass, just ask. I'm sure she'll let you.  Otherwise, give up the online asskissing. Dot- quit overreacting.  Reddy had a point.   ETA: I'm going back to keep reading, so there will likely be more. This thread is ridiculously whiny so far. (I'm on page 5)
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    I forgot about that.........

    STOP BEING SO JUDGY STEF!  Or at least if you do, make sure to try to bury it in a thread in hopes that no one sees it.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : I forgot about that......... STOP BEING SO JUDGY STEF!  Or at least if you do, make sure to try to bury it in a thread in hopes that no one sees it.
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

    <div>Nope. I'm self-secure enough to be ok if someone *GASP* disagrees with me.</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : Nope. I'm self-secure enough to be ok if someone *GASP* disagrees with me.
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, that comment was kind of lame.

    Missy- care to explain that?
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  • I haven't posted here too much as I seem to log on once everything is dead, but I judge posts where the OP states they plan to DD the post or picture.  If the story or picture is so personal that you fear who might see it, why are you posting it at all?

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : Yeah, that comment was kind of lame. Missy- care to explain that?
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
    I wouldnt hold your breath, you know shes afraid of confrontation. Just go looking for your answer on E in a few days.
  • I confess - I fully believe in the power of knottie vibes. Not to go all sappy sentimental but this board got me through one of the hardest days and yes, the ladies here are generally the first I go to (besides my immediate family and H) when shiit hits the fan in my life.
  • I'm so lost. Did this happen in a thread on E? Where did all of this Missy stuff come from? I'm not going to lie, at first I thought you were a little insensitive too last night, Steph. But I will admit that if someone I didn't know well posted a thread like that, I would think it was weird. Not weird like enjoys eating turds weird. Just strange and different weird.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : Nope. I'm self-secure enough to be ok if someone *GASP* disagrees with me.
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]
    I heard that when people can disagree and still like each other, it's a sign of the encroaching Rapture and Z-Apocalypse. ;)

    Also, total side bar, but why do people still write "NWR" in their post titles? Someone did it this week and I thought, Really? Cause we are SO wedding-centric over here. NBD, but just stood out to me.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : I wouldnt hold your breath, you know shes afraid of confrontation. Just go looking for your answer on E in a few days.
    Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

    Oh you didnt hear?  I only venture over to E for FFF.  *eyeroll*
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  • KW, I agree.  I think, too, it's way different for people who have forged relationships on here.  I genuinely care about what's going on in AATB's hometown, because I care about her.  I want to be there for the people I know and care about.

    I don't giveafuck about someone I barely know telling me their sob stories.  I have enough reality IRL, I don't need a never-ending vortex of depression on here.  Entertain me or be gone really is my basic bottom line.  Callous, I know.
  • Oh, and apparently I agree with Neely. I think it's funny that OBX went all "OMYGOD. Who are YOU to have an opinion of ME" like she's so superspecial that no one dare challenge her.... I also 'heard' a hint of "I'm a reg and your'e not, so you can't say anything bad to me' tone in OBX's post.  

    Nicely handled, Neely.
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    [QUOTE]Oh, and apparently I agree with Neely. I think it's funny that OBX went all "OMYGOD. Who are YOU to have an opinion of ME" like she's so superspecial that no one dare challenge her.... <strong>I also 'heard' a hint of "I'm a reg and your'e not</strong>, so you can't say anything bad to me' tone in OBX's post.   Nicely handled, Neely.
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    This too. Which is just ridiculous because Neely has been around way longer than OBX. And I flame everyone that was flaming Neely for having an opinion and expressing it in an AYG thread.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG/TK confessions/I Judge : This too. Which is just ridiculous because Neely has been around way longer than OBX. And I flame everyone that was flaming Neely for having an opinion and expressing it in an AYG thread.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    Cew- sometimes I feel like you are the only person on this board that actually "gets" me.  Because I tried to say the exact same thing and got shiit for it.
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  • I totally get you. You're my boy, Blue.

    Who gave you shiit for it?
  • A few people.  I thought it was super weird.  I would have to go back through and look though. 
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  • edited May 2011
    I heart CEW, too.

    Cew- last week when TK was being all screwy, Missy made a comment about how she was glad it was one of those days a post could be burried, because she had a BIG flame to drop.  Then it was something super lame, with a weird comment at the end about how "she doesn't like talking to people who will argue with her. Like Blue and Steph."  It was totally random, because I've basically been avoiding her lately.  Then earlier in this thread when she said "people who thought ang was being weird." When she was obviously talking about me.  It's just stupid. If you're going to flame someone, do it. But I hate when people do that weird fishing for attention shiit. 

    I get it that my original response was harsh; harsher than I intended. Which is why I went back and edited (but obviously not before Ricks quoted it ;) I'm such a newb.) But I thought I clarified it with Ricks, and she didn't seem upset.  
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    edited May 2011
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    [QUOTE]I'm so lost. Did this happen in a thread on E? Where did all of this Missy stuff come from? I'm not going to lie, at first I thought you were a little insensitive too last night, Steph. But I will admit that if someone I didn't know well posted a thread like that, I would think it was weird. Not weird like enjoys eating turds weird. Just strange and different weird.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    Missy flamed me in the second FFF thread saying I was judgy and admitted that she hoped it would get buried in the wonky-ness that the knot was doing that day.  And then she said I only come over to E for FFF and that she prefers to only start with people she knows wont fight back because she hates confrontation.  Thats why she avoids Stef and I.  It was really odd.

    ETA: or what stef said
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  • To be honest, I think Missy is just a super sweet person and she probably was just upset for Ricks. I didn't see her other comment, so I can't speak to that one. And I think it's awesome that you went back to her to apologize.
  • I finally remembered a flame I had the other day. I was trying and couldn't earlier. I judge the girl over on Food who wanted to charge her guests $1 per drink for alcohol she and her FI (not the venue) had already bought and paid for, to help fund their 12 day European honeymoon. I am very pro open bar; but, I can understand why some people do a cash bar (as opposed to having a dry wedding, if money is that tight). But it just really seems off to me to charge for alcohol you personally purchased at a wedding.
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    [QUOTE]To be honest, I think Missy is just a super sweet person and she probably was just upset for Ricks. I didn't see her other comment, so I can't speak to that one. And I think it's awesome that you went back to her to apologize.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    <div>Normally, I would totally agree. I'm sure Missy could be really sweet IRL.  But, in my observations on here, she's been nothing but whiny and pity-partying. So that's my background opinion on her, which obviously affects my reactions to stuff she says.</div><div>
    </div><div>I'm not sure if Ricks is still around, but I really really didn't mean it to be all "YOU CAN"T POST THAT HERE."  I originally meant it like "this is weird. Is everything ok?" which I think I clarified later.  Sorry if it came across anything more than that (which apparently, it did to some people.)</div>
  • I hate that people have that opinion of Missy. I've always found her to be really supportive and kind. :(

    And after you explained it, I totally get what you were thinking. I think it just seemed like such a serious situation that it caught me off guard.
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    [QUOTE]I<strong><u> hate that people have that opinion of Missy. I've always found her to be really supportive and kind.</u></strong> :( And after you explained it, I totally get what you were thinking. I think it just seemed like such a serious situation that it caught me off guard.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    It comes off to me that she doesnt like anyone who hasnt been around as long as you guys have.  Thats just my take on it.  I rarely see that "nice" side of her to anyone but you guys.
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  • Eh. Not the first time my short, gut reaction has gotten me in trouble ;) I realized it when I reread what I wrote, though, at least. I'm trying guys! haha
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